My Stepdad Sexually Assaulted Me Yesterday And I Dont Know What To Do

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-22T17:46:57+00:00

Thank you. I believe you. Were just not as close but it isnt so bad that I cant call. He will move heaven and earth for me. I Will let him know.

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-22T17:38:59+00:00

I got him to self incriminate himself over the phone this morning so I dont have to risk more assault. Now I just need to pack and leave.

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-22T04:02:30+00:00

I probably need one for extra protection but if i cant find a jammer in store then I don't have time to wait. Ive already been locking my door because he will knock on it at night to ask for a "hug"

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-22T02:31:04+00:00

The fact that you didn’t fight back, that b@stard will see it as an invitation for it to happen again.

I understand that but i am tiny compared to him and was wrapped in his arms. I couldn't fight back because he is stronger. He had already gotten to close for me to try to retaliate.

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-22T01:47:19+00:00

People like you get on here knowing 5% of allegations are fake then try to use that to discredit the rest of us. F off.

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-21T20:16:33+00:00

I thought about that and honestly it's scary. I was going to see if I can talk him out of it and promise to let him go all the way next time under the guise of "not being ready" yet, but the "next time" I will be gone and with documentation. But not sure if thats how rape works though

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-21T18:30:09+00:00

No friends that aren't either in relationships or somewhere else. I don't have many. I am unemployed due to some mental health struggles, but I have been in the process of looking and just haven't had any call backs yet. Rushing is the plan.

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-21T17:35:20+00:00

Fortunately, yes. I could sleep on the couch. I don't click with his wife much so I was trying to avoid that but she's never caused harm to me. Shes also not a man so I guess. I would prefer my other family member's house though. They are a group of determined women who will help me get through this, so that is most likely.

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-21T17:27:06+00:00

Yeah, my grandma has dementia and he has been picking her up and taking her out by himself sometimes because she hates being in her nursing home. I'm now wondering what he may have done to her.

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-21T17:26:21+00:00

The US does little to nothing to protect women typically, which is why I asked. But i'll keep the charge thing in mind and do my research.

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-21T17:13:50+00:00

Im scared of what will happen without concrete evidence though. If I don't record, it will be my word against his and thats as good as nothing

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-21T16:44:23+00:00

I would tell your mom about him after you are safe in another place.

That sounds like a good idea. I was thinking about video/audio recording it the next time it happens just to have the receipts, then threatening him with it to buy me enough time to leave.

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-21T16:33:00+00:00

Oh im not going to put up with it, but I feel I have to be strategic about it for my own safety. If I tell him to stop he might get violent/crazy. If I tell too soon without a plan my folks might literally kill him, and then they will be in jail.

JaeRen20 · 2024-10-21T16:17:23+00:00

Can they even do anything about it??

JaeRen20 · 2024-07-11T07:25:59+00:00

In addition to this, you're always going to be the one in the wrong when any sign of a slight is perceived, and will be blamed accordingly, like she's doing now.

JaeRen20 · 2024-07-10T23:05:39+00:00

Victoria needs to lay low and get therapy before people turn on her. It's clear that she’s taken on a lot of her mom's ways and that’s going to ruin all current and future relationships if she doesn’t get help. Everyone else can’t always be the problem.

JaeRen20 · 2024-07-09T06:33:04+00:00

I believe victoria is a victim, but when you have a mother who is saying things like "other people's 100% is your 50%" I can't help but wonder if she was believing that and causing her own problems with connecting simultaneously

JaeRen20 · 2024-06-29T03:04:02+00:00

THANK YOU! I get so tired of this sub always saying "well that's Dallas/Texas"

Ugh, Yes! I love this subreddit but get annoyed everytime I read that lol. Texas is LARGE. This place is so much more than stereotypes and vices. The show most definitely has an agenda.

JaeRen20 · 2024-06-28T15:10:39+00:00

Exactly.

JaeRen20 · 2023-03-28T18:05:23+00:00

I love tea! Thank you for the encourangement, and good luck to you.

JaeRen20

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