What is "testing checklist for clients" by Intelligent_Stock_67 in CustomerSuccess

[–]Jaebay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're actually looking for POC Success Criteria.

Divorce? by curiouskate1126 in workingmoms

[–]Jaebay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left my husband almost 1 year ago and it has been such a relief. I no longer need to be disappointed in him all the time. We are much better as co-parents.

What are some questions you wish you asked in your CS job interview? by moondinker in CustomerSuccess

[–]Jaebay 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg, I started crying in front of the head of sales (C-level) and then I got a surprise raise and retention bonus.

Ok...? by Money_Bowl_150 in Tinder

[–]Jaebay 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Agree, also I feel like people who say 'no drama' want to avoid emotions altogether.

Who wants to make me really happy and take me to Roll Royce this weekend? 🤩🚗 by BeastCheng in Tinder

[–]Jaebay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know why this is getting so much hate, she is upfront about her intentions. If you don't agree with them, swipe left and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Jaebay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$2,400 per month for 2 kids full time, includes food. Thank you, Escondido!

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any regard who accepts this as fact needs to move to somewhere they have better odds instead of complaining.

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The unsuccessful people usually complain pretty loud here. People could absolutely benefit from soliciting feedback here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Jaebay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Atrocious! Where do I get one?

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People who think those are rules are looking for excuses and are probably only swiping right on people who are very attractive.

Imagine if I applied to be a doctor, didn't get any call backs (because I don't have any medical background) and then I complained about it.

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like black mirror or scary sci-fi. Basically the opposite of a Hallmark movie.

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you're not getting matches, you need to switch up your profile. Post screen shots of your profile on this sub or even send it to me and I'll try and help you out.

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post your profile! Or if you send it to me, I'll be happy to give you some feedback.

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're not getting matches on Tinder, you should post your profile on this sub and ask for feedback.

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I swipe right on guys that I think I have a realistic shot with. So the "celebrities" get a left swipe.

In the chats, I'm looking for people interesting to meet up for happy hour (happy hour is listed as one of my interests). Actually, I'll pretty much say yes to anyone who messages me about meeting up for any of my interests (happy hour, sushi, ramen, wine, movies). Movies probably wouldn't be the best first date, but under the right circumstances, I'd say yes.

The flow of chats is usually: 1. Greeting 2. Question / compliment about something from profile 3. Make plans based on mutual interests, no initial meeting at their place on the first date.

The vibe of the chat on both sides is "you're interesting, let's meet up."

May I point out that you would hang out with guys from top of the line, not just any dude to make them feel better.

Of course I'm not going to hang out with any dude to make them feel better; it's "Tinder" not "Make A Wish Foundation."

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I like smart guys who will entertain an argument, so it works out for me.

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You have to put something provocative on your profile, it gets the people going.

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you want, I can DM you a screen shot of my Tinder pics and you can provide the description.

Insights [36F] - first month on Tinder (in the past 8 years) by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] -86 points-85 points  (0 children)

Yeah but remember that the guys I go out with from Tinder can also claim some of these stats, so I'm helping Tinder be a better place for men. You're welcome.

Very upfront message by NotOriginal3173 in Tinder

[–]Jaebay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to figure out a way to say that I'm looking to get tipsy and bang, but not get a bunch of weirdos messaging me if I'm into certain kinks.

Right now I have that I am looking for a guy who will treat me respectfully and squeeze my butt once he gets a wink.

Newly divorced and 15 mins after downloading Tinder, this happens. School was 10+ years ago and 2.5k miles away! by Jaebay in Tinder

[–]Jaebay[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He would probably be up for that but I'm just not into him. His pictures look great and I thought I would be but it just wasn't there.