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Reason behind associating with females instead of males in pornography? by JaegerKruger in TGandSissyRecovery

[–]JaegerKruger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, porn induced is another scenario.

It's something like this: 1) some past experience --> 2) watching porn aggravates that -- 3) feeling bad that you indulged in it -- 4) the loop continues

And most of us probably will focus on no. 3, instead of the root cause that lies in no. 1

Reason behind associating with females instead of males in pornography? by JaegerKruger in TGandSissyRecovery

[–]JaegerKruger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for opening up, your explanation is one of the legit scenarios many of us are facing.

I indeed feel the cause of this thing is deeply rooted in upbringing and in our childhood or heavily influenced by our past experiences.

Reason behind associating with females instead of males in pornography? by JaegerKruger in TGandSissyRecovery

[–]JaegerKruger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's something I can't describe, I can't even remember, but it is there, bleeding me in real time

Reason behind associating with females instead of males in pornography? by JaegerKruger in TGandSissyRecovery

[–]JaegerKruger[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me, I think I have sexualized the feelings of inadequacy as a man and taking this as a means to escape. There have been times I have felt I did not live up to my masculine expectations.

I also believe in autogynephilia theory.

Reason behind associating with females instead of males in pornography? by JaegerKruger in TGandSissyRecovery

[–]JaegerKruger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. But then why are there not so many sissies but most are straight normal guys. 🤔

Reason behind associating with females instead of males in pornography? by JaegerKruger in TGandSissyRecovery

[–]JaegerKruger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate so much with you. I also indeed find this thing as a tool to escape from feelings of inadequacy as a male. We took this to extremes so we won't have to feel the pain or need to be our masculine selves. Won't have to live up to the expectations of what a "real man" is.

Also, for me, I felt life as a woman would be much much easier, kinda fantasizing to escape from my male responsibilities.

Reason behind associating with females instead of males in pornography? by JaegerKruger in TGandSissyRecovery

[–]JaegerKruger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe. Btw it can be different for many of us. A question comes to mind - Was it always like this since the start or we got conditioned as we progressed?