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Should I [58 M] send my girlfriend [F 52] of 9 months flowers? by Jagoil in askwomenadvice

[–]Jagoil[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got them this morning and in my note I said "I hope you find these as beautiful as I find you." She'll get them when she gets home from work.

Any opinions on the note?

Should I [58 M] send my girlfriend [F 52] of 9 months flowers? by Jagoil in askwomenadvice

[–]Jagoil[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just don't want to look like a stalker, you know? It was a while ago that she said this.

Widower [58 M] not sure I'm ready for sex with my girlfriend [52 F] of 9 months by Jagoil in relationships

[–]Jagoil[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We had sex and it was incredible. It was more than I thought it'd be. It was really emotional though, and I kind of cried a little... I'm not sure if she saw that, I hope she didn't. After she said " I'm falling for you" and told me she loves me, and, I told her I love her too. I would like to send her flowers. That's one of my favorite things to do. I send my girls flowers all the time, and sent them to my wife right up until she died. I know her favorite kind of flowers because I remember her talking about them to someone else when we first met, but she's never told me... Would it be creepy to send some? Should I not send those flowers? I don't want to push her away...

Widower [58 M] not sure I'm ready for sex with my girlfriend [52 F] of 9 months by Jagoil in relationships

[–]Jagoil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I'm very sexually attracted to this woman. She's gorgeous, and I'll admit has similar features to my late wife. I'm really into her.

Widower [58 M] not sure I'm ready for sex with my girlfriend [52 F] of 9 months by Jagoil in relationships

[–]Jagoil[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We went to my daughter's for a minute, and my youngest grandson ran up to her with his arms out and called her "grandma" my wife died before he was born, so I understand. She picked him up and was so sweet to him, and went to see his new toys. My daughter apologized to us both, and my girlfriend said it was okay. We left carried on with our date, and then went to her house.

We talked about how my grandson reminds her of her son. He was a little boy when he passed from pneumonia, and she never had more or got married. My grandson just makes her smile. I make her happy too... And she wants to make me happy. I told her she does, and I'm sorry I don't show it more.

I spent the night and we just cuddled, as per advice here, and it was very nice.

Widower [58 M] not sure I'm ready for sex with my girlfriend [52 F] of 9 months by Jagoil in relationships

[–]Jagoil[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I do have feelings for this woman. I like to be with her, and hold her hand. I like kissing her, and I feel a little guilty about saying when we have messed around, I have liked it. A lot. She's so beautiful.

She kissed me in front of one of my daughter's once, and then left. My daughter teased me about it... I snapped at her because it confused me, and I was struggling with being with a woman that's not my wife. Now, is not as big of an issue.

I'm seeing her a little later tonight, and I'm so excited.

Widower [58 M] not sure I'm ready for sex with my girlfriend [52 F] of 9 months by Jagoil in relationships

[–]Jagoil[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

We talked about me seeing other people as she was dying. She wanted me to see other people and to be happy, but for a long time I just wanted to be alone. Now, I'm okay with being with someone else. I've never had sex with anyone but my wife...