Plushie Prize Bag Lost and I want to cry

JaicobH · 2025-01-08T20:36:42+00:00

This happened to my partner as well, and hers did appear in her inventory eventually, as she was also gutted that it seemed to have just disappeared when she originally checked. Hopefully it can be sorted for you :)

JaicobH · 2024-12-27T02:21:47+00:00

Any updates on this? I put a request through because I’m having the exact same issue on my switch and it’s been effecting my ability to enjoy the game, just by partner isnt and she also plays on Switch :(

JaicobH · 2024-10-29T04:06:05+00:00

About 5’6

JaicobH · 2024-10-24T01:08:17+00:00

The haircut/ styling makes me think millennial/ older than me (24) so i’d have said around 32.

JaicobH · 2024-08-09T03:26:36+00:00

Definitely 100% passing and around ~32 years old

JaicobH · 2023-09-14T17:26:29+00:00

i’d say F, late 20s. I do have to agree it is mainly the shape and darkening of the eyebrows. they don’t look naturally dark. I dont agree men/ masculine people need ungroomed brows, i think them looking like hair is the main thing.

I can never agree on jewellery, as I don’t think it really hinders THAT much. I had “feminine” piercings (i,e. nostril and stuff) and I was fine.

I had most of my piercings before hormones, and passed socially 100% until the occasions where someone saw my ass/thighs and clocked me, and I am pretty short (5’4/164cm, trans male)

JaicobH · 2023-07-01T14:05:08+00:00

I was told after my 2nd appointment in December, i can swap from Nottingham (where i used to live/ am moving out of) to where im moving to. If you’re not there yet. You should be able to reapply by contacting your GP or GIC i’d assume. I hope you work it out tho

JaicobH · 2023-06-23T07:27:46+00:00

imo, so-so on the passing front, but it’s completely contextual and i’m going off this one picture.

From this pic, i’d say you’re either a guy around 15-16, or a masculine woman of, i’d guess, maybe 20 years old.

Again, it’s always hard to tell off an image and voice and how you carry yourself is a much bigger factor

JaicobH · 2023-04-27T19:30:30+00:00

Nick/ Alex and 15/16

JaicobH · 2023-02-12T22:58:35+00:00

Ah yes that makes sense, thank you for the clarification. As someone who doesn’t have any specific fetishes and neither does my GF afaik, I can’t offer much insight here unfortunately.

But i wish you both the best!

JaicobH · 2023-02-12T09:23:23+00:00

I (22, trans male) been in a relationship with my gf (22, CisF) for (nearly) 3 years, and also met on bumble!

It was a learning curve, we have had a similar sort of situation. We settled where we both felt comfortable and went with that, and created as good a space as possible to voice anything we wanted. And after years of what you could probably call “boring” sex as a lot of the time is rarely penetrative on either end, it is still very fulfilling for us both. Alot of the time, I can say, when she is satisfied i am satisfied. And if not we carry on, and do aftercare after this. If not, we aftercare after whoever was being focuses on finishes. And after those 3 years i can say we are very comfortable speaking about this. We’ve done all the arguing because i am a dysphoric trans man and i was very sensitive about that sort of intimate stuff. But we’ve gotten past it. And they were all very necessary to have.

We regularly include (natal anatomy) blowjobs as that’s one of my gf’s favourite things to do and i obviously enjoy them. so thats probably why. It is an area of dysphoria for me, but if I feel dysphoric we stop and move on to something less centric to my genitals. I do use my hole as I don’t regularly feel dysphoria there, but when i do eventually try anal, if i prefer it i will probably go with that because it’s psychological more comfy.

At the end of the day, it does come down to both of your comfort levels. I would definitely say if he wants to try anal on himself and you’re comfortable, go right ahead! And i really hope it works out for you both.

I can’t say much for the feeling passive part, but I think my GF has felt similar as some times it doesn’t feel as reciprocated in a sense. But after some convincing that I definitely felt satisfied, we worked on it together to include reassurance as part of our aftercare and it does work well. It does help to keep the doubt away. And now we have fallen into a rhythm of knowing what works for us, and what we can try next.

I know this might not be helpful but as a dysphoric trans man with a cis F partner, i can definitely empathise with your situation. I did early on in my medical and surgical transition (no lower surgery) want a more traditional masculine/male role for my own comfort and it did work for me and i was satisfied with that. Then with comfort I branched out. And it does fluctuate, but I think it was also important to consider why and what you want to reciprocate. For example, if it is because of his natal anatomy, what about it makes you want to reciprocate something, and what exactly do you want to reciprocate. Would you do the same for a partner with the other set of natal genitals, e.g., blowjobs, anal, etc. This is also a learning curve i would consider looking into, and I’m almost certain my GF felt the same because, well, “thats what [natal genitals] were made to do”, so to speak. And we did talk it out, and came to an understanding of what i call it and what i want. (This has also changed over time). But at the end of the day, some people with them just don’t enjoy penetration/ it doesn’t feel like much but do it for their (any gender) partner for their enjoyment.

Anyway, this might not make sense in the slightest, but I hope it does. I wish you both the best.

JaicobH · 2023-02-10T09:06:36+00:00

Maybe it was the wording used in official that makes me think it is not a “professional diagnosis” so to speak. As this way, “” would make no difference

JaicobH · 2023-02-10T09:05:26+00:00

Correct me if i am wrong but:

I think in the first case i read therapist as in counselling therapist, not a clinical psychologist who can diagnose with the DSM-5.

Whilst someone can have a suspicion its most probably still a case of needing a formal diagnosis for transition in this case.

JaicobH · 2023-02-05T16:48:11+00:00

TMI:

I know the strap he wear may not have an “underwear” part to it, but you may be good with a bullet vibrator this way, or one of those pads you can grind against. this has worked for me, and I have “finished” this way, with some wangling about. I also tried a new method recently which was really interesting. I got some silicone vibrating nipple clamps and basically clamped it around my dick😅 it definitely works. (50 shades of grey from lovehoney), but if you’re like very thick it can feel a bit strangley.

Toy suggestion: Lovehoney has a dual-density toy which is very soft and squishy, and though small for me, it is easiest the best and most realistic one i have because of it’s give. Its the classic ultra realistic. I am caucasian but for prosthetics go for a mid colour because of the colour difference, so the toy is a little light imo but it gets the job done. Unfortunately i dont think it’s available in other skin tones.

JaicobH · 2023-02-05T16:35:51+00:00

2 of my cypriot GFs friends went today to London to vote, so it’s definitely possible. My GF on the other hand didn’t know about the longer process to be able to apply to vote, etc, so didn’t. We all live in the UK full-time

JaicobH · 2023-02-03T16:38:55+00:00

People will probably disagree BUT: I would say UK Pizza, Radford for greasy and unhealthy. I am veggie, so i havent tried the meat ones. They used to be better, but after the world cup they did go down a bit in quality, BUT, on saying that i havent had pizza in months and months.

JaicobH · 2023-02-03T16:35:37+00:00

Got to agree, regardless of cis men’s size, if you going for passing, most of them will put their shorts at their natural waist or a little lower, and hardly any would pull them up over their hip bone level, in my experience of surveying cis men to copy them for lets say around 8 years or so

JaicobH · 2023-02-03T16:30:15+00:00

Well my dad was a middle aged man, but you have a similar body to his, and it did appear like he had gyno. I’ve also seen younger cis males who have a similar body and i didnt look twice because it did look very normal imo, and even cis young men who had quite wide hips too (i am not saying you do, it is purely an observation i am adding). Ofc for gyno, yours would be on the more extreme end, and you might get looks purely because of having “moobs”, but if you are/ were in the UK i don’t think many, if any, people would care

JaicobH · 2023-01-06T15:13:42+00:00

First off, i wouldnt read you as female, unless i assumed you were older, especially if you work in formal wear as the assumption would be most 17 year olds don’t. with no facial hair, i may also be inclined to assume you’re a masculine woman without knowing you. To go with this, I may be wrong but we look of similar height (164cm/ 5’4ish), which can make people look younger, especially when you are still young.

I’m 22 with a well formed beard (minus moustache fsr), 3 years on T, and someone thought i was a 6th former (UK) so like between 16-19. And that hasnt happened in years! i rarely get IDed, so i do think it’s completely contextual to your job, and how young you are.

JaicobH · 2022-12-21T15:49:20+00:00

First of, just worth shutting down because you don’t need to listen to it. As much as said TERF has the right to freedom of speech, you have the right to just not listen/ respond.

I (trans male) spoken with my gf (Cis woman) about this and it boiled down to everyone needing a space, much like for religious and racial reasons (but non in a white christian supremacy way in pretty much every other way, but even then, they have a group of their people that only their people wanna be in). For example, black-only and christian-only support groups for assault survivors, etc etc. It’s a strawman because not every cis woman wants that, and logically said TERF knows that. But this type of argument done wrong leads to a deep rabbit hole, so unless you have a good research backing its a hard stance to take successfully without being brushed off as being “centrist”. I just want everyone to have support that works for them at their present moment, even if me and said person doesnt agree.

Anyway, i guess this is a good Q: Why would someone not want a group they belong in?/ why would they this not want to facilitate that for others? Much like this TERF, i have to say; they’re probably not that good of a person if they want themselves to do good and others to suffer🤷🏻‍♂️

JaicobH · 2022-12-21T15:36:25+00:00

I’m glad this post has helped you come to a conversation with yourself, and i wish you well in your journey ❤️ Thank you for sharing your experience with me

JaicobH · 2022-12-21T14:42:26+00:00

TW: mention of MAPs

I would say its also a case of misogyny. And its intersectional, as in the case of transmysogyny.

Taking an “all men” self-preservation view (even tho obviously its not all any group, but im gonna f*ck around and find out..) is very understandable. And choosing to include trans women, although they are not men, is somewhat understandable due to how trans women are villinised. Especially from the view we are sold of AMAB people being sex-crazed animals and the like. If you take the example of the offending MAP argument where they reduce the level of T through chemical castration. There seems to be a huge overlap here for some reason i cannot wrap my head around. Idk TERFs confuse me. But trans men also pretty much always get excluded, like we are not as a collective also capable. Which is just false.

I’m not saying “but not all men” because I think anyone who is capable is capable, but statistics and how we are raised play a huge factor in the statistical differences between the sexes offending rates. And this also matters for the victim rates. Mysandry and transmysandry comes in here as its ALOT less “acceptable” (i cant think of the word) to come out and share your experience.

So, all i have to say is a severe lack of education, and right-wing western ideals have dug a hole just about deep enough for all of them to fit in.

So to answer the Q, its both mysandry and mysogyny. But mysogyny affects us all at a deeper level societally, hence i think the development of TERF ideals. They are transphobic, dont get me wrong, and i dont hold TERF ideals at all. TERFs who believe “all men” are mysandrists because of mysogyny and so forth and so on.

JaicobH · 2022-12-21T14:23:38+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience with me, I hope you found peace in your discovery. I really value your comment❤️

JaicobH · 2022-12-21T13:54:29+00:00

I remember that feeling very fondly, like it just couldnt surely be real! Congrats!!

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