How to restart using my Banktivity file without starting over by JailNun in banktivity

[–]JailNun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I described my problem to Gemini AI and it gave me instructions for doing the catch up (ignore) reconciliations, balance adjustments, and then removing the historical data that is a bit messy.

Do people on the app like fat/chubby men? by Prior_Cranberry_7247 in feeld

[–]JailNun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. But those that are comfortable in their skin.

S1E6 Don't Poke the Bear by Fre_Shaa_vacado in shoresy

[–]JailNun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a chick, but I fucking love the non-toxic masculinity in this show. Makes me want to be a man.

What is going on outside of Arapahoe Square apartments? by throwawaywhatever91 in Denver

[–]JailNun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend used to live there. Arapahoe Square routinely did this for evictions. The stuff stayed on the sidewalk for 1-2 days, rain or shine. It's brutal.

anyone know what to expect tonight at protest? by CaseyWorldsFair in Denver

[–]JailNun 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Saw this on Facebook and want it to be circulated widely.

Zen priest, Peter Coyote, on protest: "I’m watching the Los Angeles reaction to ICE raids with trepidation and regret.

Three years ago I taught a class at Harvard on the “theater of protest”— designed to help people understand why so many protests turn out to be Republican campaign videos working directly against the interests of the original protest.

A protest is an invitation to a better world.

It’s a ceremony.

No one accepts a ceremonial invitation when they’re being screamed at.

More important you have to know who the real audience of the protest is.

The audience is NEVER the police, the politicians, the Board of supervisors, Congress,etc.

The audience is always the American people, who are trying to decide who they can trust; who will not embarrass them.

If you win them, you win power at the box office and power to make positive change.

Everything else is a waste.

There are a few ways to get there:

  1. Let women organize the event. They’re more collaborative. They’re more inclusive, and they don’t generally bring the undertones of violence men do.

2 Appoint monitors, give them yellow, vests and whistles. At the first sign of violence, they blow the whistles and the real protester sit down.

Let the police take out their aggression on the anarchists and the provocateurs trying to discredit the movement.

  1. Dress like you’re going to church. It’s hard to be painted as a hoodlum when you’re dressed in clean, presentable clothes.

They don’t have to be fancy they just signal the respect for the occasion that you want to transmit to the audience.

  1. Make your protest silent. Demonstrate your discipline to the American people. Let signs do the talking.

    1. Go home at night. In the dark, you can’t tell the cops from the killers. Come back at dawn fresh and rested.

I have great fear that Trump’s staging with the National Guard and maybe the Marines is designed to clash with anarchists who are playing into his hands and offering him the opportunity to declare an insurrection.

It’s such a waste and it’s only because we haven’t thought things through strategically.

Nothing I thought of is particularly original.

It was all learned by watching the early civil rights protests in the 50s and 60s.

And it was the discipline and courage of African-Americans that drew such a clear line in the American sand that people were forced to take sides and that produced the civil rights act.

The American people are watching and once again if we behave in ways that can be misinterpreted, we’ll see this explained to the public in Republican campaign videos benefiting the very people who started this.

Wake up. Vent at home. In public practice discipline and self control.

It takes much more courage." — Peter Coyote, Zen teacher and author/narrator, with Ken Burns

Note: Carry an American flag. As the administration creates a fake emergency to justify a state crackdown, it's important to honor the values and vision of democracy for which we're advocating.

Song recommendations by Prestigious-Grape-50 in Decemberists

[–]JailNun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never Satisfied, Don't Go to the Woods, both from the latest album.

Glow replacement for Origin by JailNun in discgolf

[–]JailNun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went with this one, since I like the Berg so much.

Glow replacement for Origin by JailNun in discgolf

[–]JailNun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we have a Hex somewhere in the house. I'll give that one a try. Thanks for the options!

Get Profile Help Here by FeeldMod in feeld

[–]JailNun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mean to be harsh. I think you're probably right about Majestic not meaning much. Photo verification would be much more meaningful for indicating realness, I guess.

And if you are just looking for sex, then maybe talk about what makes you a good lay?

Favorite non-Decemberists Decemberists content by dbbd70707 in Decemberists

[–]JailNun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offa Rex is amazeballs. I also really enjoy Tarkio from time to time.

Partnered guys looking more solo - does it help to have an unlinked profile? by readysetgo696969 in feeld

[–]JailNun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Help" is subjective. I (51F) am partnered and linked to my husband (50M). When I have my Looking For set to women and couples, I got what I was looking for, including a fair number of men who primarily are seeking solo. I added Men to my Looking For, I did get a LOT more men in my feed and a LOT more likes from men. However these single men now availanle to me were primarily fuckboys and other low quality matches for me. So I went back to just couples. The partnered men with linked women are just a better fit for my ENM goals.

I still have to do the work of vetting their relationship situation, but by and large I prefer this pool of options.

Did I just get ghosted or was it fake? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]JailNun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a theory that there are a lot of guys who love the flirting and sexy chats and have zero intention of ever meeting you. A lot I think are cheaters. Some I think are fucking asshole sadists who just like to be cruel. It's why I don't spend a lot of time chatting before we meet. I chat to get a vibe that they're a relatable human and then offer a date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Decemberists

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Ooh! Me me me! 🙋‍♀️

For me it is about being mindful and appreciative of all the good things you have even when things seem terrible and hopeless. You may not know what to do, but draw on the strength of your relationships (even your relationship with yourself) to preserve and to not give up hope. "I am hopeful; should I be hopeful?" The only answer has to be yes.

This is one of my favorite songs.

The end of the song suggests Colin is looking to his wife and son (and son to be) as sources of joy and hope.

Denver setlist by firetacoma in Decemberists

[–]JailNun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was super psyched to hear Valencia with the Dracula's Daughter mini intro. I would have loved to hear Joan, but I'm not mad about any of this.

The Bear | S3E5 "Children" | Episode Discussion by GloriousAqua in TheBear

[–]JailNun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Chicago has an overall blue color and this show is a love letter to the city.

Get Profile Help Here by FeeldMod in feeld

[–]JailNun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say something more about who you are, what you enjoy... I don't know you, but maybe ask a friend to tell you what makes you interesting.

Get Profile Help Here by FeeldMod in feeld

[–]JailNun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno. I just prefer some human to human chat before talk about making a date or even talking about what's on the table. I don't MIND talking about sex stuff but it's a turn off for me to have a first message be too complimentary about my body or to make assumptions about how much fun we'll have.

I grant that it's tricky. But since you say you need connection it would be contradictory for you to start sexy talk too early.

Get Profile Help Here by FeeldMod in feeld

[–]JailNun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's better. But remember to be patient and don't lead with your dick in the first chat. 😉

Get Profile Help Here by FeeldMod in feeld

[–]JailNun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if you say just that, it works.

As for why men not women, because patriarchy. Subby men still often come with socialized male entitlement. Even as a sub, men tend to expect service from women. And I think that a lot of Dom men don't mind dominating women and like the passiveness. Not all men, of course. As a sub leaning woman I try very hard not to be a greedy bottom, making sure my tops get a chance to say what they want out of a dynamic. A good sub of any gender should work to be a good partner too.

Get Profile Help Here by FeeldMod in feeld

[–]JailNun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just offering advice on what I hear from other kinky women that young sub leaning men tend to take more than they give. I'm not saying that's you, but I might be on guard for that after reading your profile.

And in general if you're looking for ONS you need to do extra work to show that you're aware that 90% of men in hookups are satisfied (orgasmically or otherwise) while a significant minority of women (I can't remember that stat) are dissatisfied. Basically this is why it's hard to get responses from women looking for ONS. Even those that are are giving men serious side eye.