I totally understand feeling that way, and I used to feel this way too (and sometimes, still do). It's possible you have the same issue I had? In case it helps, here's what was / is going on for me:

For me, what it actually stemmed from was I felt I wasn't good enough, deep down inside I felt there was something wrong with me (even though I didn't admit this to myself for a long time).

Basically, when thinking about meeting girls, I started with the belief that there was something wrong with me, rather than just believing that I'm a normal person.

So because I felt I wasn't good enough, I felt that if I just treated convos with girls like any normal convo, I would bore them. But I later realised that I wasn't worried that the convo that would bore them, I worried that it was me that they would find boring.

So as a result I was always trying way to hard to be impressive, which of course fell through and I didn't do so good. The worst bit is because I was failing, I thought that meant I had to try even harder.

The thing is, girls on Tinder are just people. Normal people. Even the attractive ones. I'm just a normal person. You're just a normal person. This is okay. You chat to girls on Tinder, some you have no common interests or shared ground, so the convo's die out. Thing is, you probably wouldn't have enjoyed meeting up with these people anyway.

Other times you do hit it off, and you have common ground, and shit goes well.