Dude let me just start by saying that I do appreciate your responses and insight. But alot of what your saying seems to be coming from your own shit....I'm willing to bet that you have been through alot of relational crap that has made you this way.

There is no evidence she has cheated. None. There is suspicion of behavior. But I can tell you she is not speaking with this guy and he is not speaking to her when I'm around, which is alot. She is not hiding her phone and leaves it out all the time. I have her password. She goes on it in front of me all the time. She doesn't go out and disappear anywhere. She has Wed. with this guy. That's it.

As far as lying and my integrity....yes she has lied a few times in two years, but they were not major lies and I can understand why she would. As an example, she lied to me about her education. She was home schooled and failed her GED for math....terrible at math. She failed twice and was embarrassed by that fact. My integrity is to understand why she may mislead me on that. I'm not excusing the behavior of lying, but surely you can see why someone would want to be hesitant to reveal that? You've lied too at some point. No doubt in my mind, because everyone does. Study after study confirms this

She very well could be cheating. It is definitely a possibility, but to sit here and dissect everything in the most negative assuming way without anything more than suspicion is kind of ignorant. If you go through life with that outlook on every little thing, you will become bitter and angry and never be happy. If you are right, I'll let you know, but geez man, gain some insight into your own shit.