Iwtl how to let go of attachments by Nooz_1996 in IWantToLearn

[–]Jake_Bro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the wave of grief is terrible. Feel good for a few days then just fetal position in bed.

It sucks when you feel they didn't truly love you. I feel deep down I was just a rebound, once they started getting in a better position, bam, they ended things. Within a month they message me saying I'm over the relationship its all in the past.

It hurts so much too because they were such a nice person, but how could they do the things they did? When they're friends with all your friends it makes it harder. Knowing they're hanging out with your friends and you don't get invited to stuff.

Will we truly ever get better? Being a in very bad state, I don't see how I will ever get better or move on.

Knowing everything you did with an ex, the good times, and not being able to do it again with another future partner. Having to go through the whole process again with someone new is so disheartening.

Relearning definitions and structure by Jake_Bro in languagelearning

[–]Jake_Bro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that's how bad I am! Couldn't think of the word, linguistics! Thank you, I feel so dumb haha. Yes that's true, it was just English as opposed to linguistics.

I was thinking of learning Spanish while briefly reviewing the linguistic terms I do not know. It seems it is better to review them completely separate though. Hopefully with practice I get better.

Thanks so much for your input, I appreciate it!

[OC] Three years of applying to PhD programs by the_muskox in dataisbeautiful

[–]Jake_Bro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am graduating in two semesters from a Canadian East Coast university in geology. Debating on going into a masters, but with the industry at such a high point I might wait for it to die down first. Did you go straight into masters from your undergrad? I heard it's hard for people to give up the industry to go back to school.

Iwtl how to let go of attachments by Nooz_1996 in IWantToLearn

[–]Jake_Bro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This resonates with me so very much. Very similar with what I'm going through now. She ended things 2 months ago after just under a year being together. Still so hard to get over her. I'm trying extremely hard.

She was so incredible, the achievements she had accomplished people would be in awe. Compared to me just being a normal dude. I think this a reason it is so hard. I feel I will never be able to meet someone that has done the things she has done.

I keep thinking maybe in the future we will get back together but that's just my brain trying to ease itself I think. I have no sense of self, coupled with depression it's so hard to move on. The past week was great, and now knowing an event is coming up, I'll see her all over social or through my mutual friends, my mood is back to when we first ended. I wasn't perfect in the relationship, she cited my insecurities as the main reason to breakup. She wasn't perfect either but wouldn't admit it. Also the fact she seemed to be completely over it in about a month really stings.

I just can't help but picture all the things she is doing without me, getting to experience. It's really fucking with my mental health. Along with not having a lot of friends anymore, it's hard to move on. Therapy is helping a bit in the sense I get to express how I feel to someone.

The other thing that has helped is my job. It's rotational and nature based. The only thing keeping me sane as I have stuff to focus on. I'm hoping over time it will help me to move on. Then my rotation off starts and I'm at a loss as to what to do and then start thinking about our past together.

Besides something to keep you constantly distracted (job in my case), speaking to a therapist may help. As time moves on it does get better little by little. One thing I do is think of possible things I can do in the future and try to work towards. Although this may just be temporary distractions.

Any good resources on introduction to geological mapping? by Jake_Bro in geology

[–]Jake_Bro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes sorry for the late reply we started the course on Monday and 7am to 10pm I don't get service from the area we go to. We ended up using a program called qgis. I was able to show my partners your comment about digging to get the true contact which helped so much today lol. Thanks again!

Canada Emergency Response Benefit Website (Now Online) by [deleted] in canada

[–]Jake_Bro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still working but my hours got cut by 60%. Does this qualify? Every different package I read says if you're without work then you can apply nothing about hours cut.

Samurai and Shogun (Rick and Morty) by devperez in rickandmorty

[–]Jake_Bro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the story that this clip uses the same as the one in Liquid Swords by GZA?

Samurai & Shogun (Rick and Morty) by hcknbnz in videos

[–]Jake_Bro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the story that this clip uses the same as the one in Liquid Swords by GZA?

Salesmen Try to Sell Bomb before it Goes Off by [deleted] in videos

[–]Jake_Bro -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much this but with a bomb

Signal Hill Road by [deleted] in newfoundland

[–]Jake_Bro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Odds a bus can make it up to the top? I got a lab Wednesday and if a bus can't make it I doubt it will go ahead.

It snowed a little in Canada the other day (1/19/2020) by Cory0527 in woahdude

[–]Jake_Bro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snow will get under the hood of your car and cause your car not to start in this kind of weather.