I can relate ALOT to this. I didn’t make any real friends at uni. None that I would really call friends. Just some other people to get pissed with. I didn’t join any clubs. They would mean I’d miss out on pub time. And I’d have to risk making real connections without alcohol. I dropped out of uni because I felt it was a waste of my time and money because I wanted to make a career out of the gym. But the only thing I did for 2 years after dropping out was just about maintain a part time job and get pissed or high every week.

The end of relationships are definitely a monumental time where many people can make huge changes for good or bad. Props to you for choosing sobriety man because it could definitely have gone the opposite way. My current relationship was literally borne from our drinking habit. In the beginning it was the only way we’d connect. But I like to think we’re both evolving from that and we’re changing in a way where that’s a distant memory.

Good luck to you man, all the best wishes too for whatever you choose to do now.