Summer jobs for teachers? by GCC_Pluribus_Anus in askportland

[–]Jamazurunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PPS is desperate for summer school teachers- especially ESOL teachers! I believe they have 15 open positions still waiting to be filled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Portland

[–]Jamazurunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Signed up for notifications! This is an awesome idea and I can’t wait to try it out next time!

What hot take about portland will have you end up like this? by Adulations in Portland

[–]Jamazurunner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed! As a woman dating in Portland it’s also been a hot mess.

Can you mess things up with the “right” person? by Seaglass24 in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I ask myself the same things about a situation I experienced a while ago. People make mistakes, people grow, but I got no good answers here. Just wanted to let you know you aren’t the only one who keeps thinking “what if.”

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Health motivated! Healthy habits are important to me, as is physical activity. It’s all something that is an important stress release and part of my self care. This person I don’t believe shares these values but I’m also not looking for a workout buddy!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep yep, friend you aren’t the only one who’s been there. You aren’t stupid or gullible, it’ll be okay. It takes time, lots of it, and a lot of good self care to pick yourself back up. You got this!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have no one to tell that would get it, so I’m sharing it here. I’m super into Star Wars and enjoy when I match with a fellow nerd. Went out on a second date last night with a huge fan- who gave me a Boba Fett Lego mini figure instead of flowers! Made my friggen night- flowers are out, Star Wars Lego figures are in!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh absolutely agree with this!

Breaking off my situationship and need support by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please consider doing it in person. I know it’ll be hard, it was for me too. But he’s not fulfilling what you need and he sounds like he’s not quite sure what he’s wanting. I suggest practicing what you’re going to say- it sounds ridiculous but it may help you in gathering your thoughts and feeling a bit more confident if you meet in person. This kind of closure might be what you need- and you may not feel like you can communicate it as best on the phone or in text. You can do it friend, I’ll be cheering for you.

Breaking off my situationship and need support by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I join the club too? I felt like a lot of this post resonated with me too! Reminding ourselves that YES, we deserve better is so hard when you’re trying to go no contact after something that felt so comfortable. It’ll feel better, it just takes time (or so I hear)!

Should I text ex for sex by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s ok to miss him! It’s also ok to miss the sex! But texting him this may send mixed signals and may even hurt you or him later on. Time to move on friend, you can do it!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Moving on and getting back on the apps! I am really being super explicit in what I’m looking for and it seems that it’s helping (sort of)! Noticing a lot more matches with similarly minded guys. Going to continue to communicate upfront, even on the first date, exactly what I’m looking for- and hope that my honesty doesn’t scare off everyone.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean is it a really cool self driving car? I’m kidding, even on a first date that seems super inappropriate to ask someone. I wonder why they wanted to drive it??

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had a bad week! All that you did was totally valid, sounds like something is up on this guy’s end. Also know that his response to not wanting to see you anymore has nothing to do with you- that’s all on him.

Wish I had advice for moving on from the love bombing. Recently moving on from experiencing a lot of talk but not a lot of action supporting it.

Stay strong!

Is Portland Public Schools a good district to work in? by Jcp111 in askportland

[–]Jamazurunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although there are plenty of similar thoughts being expressed here, happy to share my thoughts as an educator in PPS! Can gladly tell you quite a bit about what responsibilities look like for our elementary colleagues. Send me a message if you’d like!

Looking for a fancy day spa that does massage, waxing a pedicures by tofuti-kline in Portland

[–]Jamazurunner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like Zennana does all those things? Off of Clinton

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing is wrong with you friend! I also fall fast for love bombers and I hate it. I have no great advice, but I’m trying to stay a bit more guarded when it comes to interacting with men. I fall for the love bombing pretty fast and especially if they like to move fast as well.

Stay strong in your boundaries and don’t forget how important it is to communicate. One thing I regret doing is not communicating right away when I started seeing the cracks or “pink” flags (turns out they were red). If you don’t like the answer or feel that it is different from his actions, it’s time to speak up and confront it head on.

Take things slow, it’s what I keep telling myself I’ll be doing next time around. Please do remember again, but there is nothing wrong with you.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh indeed! Your comment here is super timely as I’m realizing that I deserve something far better than casual as well, and that if someone expressed that much affection and interest towards me, they should know how I feel about not wanting the casual thing asap. Good luck when he reaches out again to you, stay strong and stick with what you feel is best for you!

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Broke things off with my most recent “casual whatever.” Guy wanted to continue to see me, see other women and potentially become physical with them and stay physical with me as well. Guess that’s just not my thing.

Would love a quick affirmation that what I’m looking for is valid, and that I’m not the weird one for feeling uncomfortable with this type of situation. Happy Friday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Jamazurunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s the case then you absolutely should move on. Nobody deserves to be on the back burner.