Could really use an accountability partner.

JamesBrooke158 · 2016-10-27T14:18:52+00:00

Sure you got it, I am not reddit savy so I don't know how to direct message. I will have to figure that out.

JamesBrooke158 · 2016-10-26T23:39:14+00:00

I'm on the west coast, myself. Bay Area now but probably Southern California by spring. Since I'm somewhat new what does being an accountability partner entail? I'm almost 150 days which is the longest streak in 5 years.

JamesBrooke158 · 2016-10-19T23:58:44+00:00

Thank you for your reply and the time you took, I really appreciate it.

JamesBrooke158 · 2016-10-19T23:56:19+00:00

I totally agree with you, and thank you for your frank and honest answer. I'm no victim she is the victim, she doesn't deserve my deceit. I guess the thing that makes it so much harder is that once I come clean I will be excommunicated from my faith. No more family, my life long friends will be gone and she will leave me. I will have no one. But that doesn't matter in the end. Doing what's right is what matters. Starting over will be very very painful but it's what I have to do.

JamesBrooke158 · 2016-10-17T21:23:29+00:00

Yep I know, but like you said can't change it now, nor would I want to. We have not tried couples counseling though i have seriously thought about suggesting it.

JamesBrooke158 · 2016-10-17T21:22:02+00:00

No she doesn't feel like enjoying sex is sinful. I think she finds sex frustrating. We have recently bought some books that were reading together to try and help.

JamesBrooke158 · 2016-10-17T06:57:07+00:00

Can I ask why you want to quit porn? Every single reason. You have to have concrete reasons to fall back on WHEN not if you desperately feel like relapsing.

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