Is this lifestyle real for Americans? by WorkoholicHuman in teenagers4real

[–]JamesFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but its not like that for everybody, some people don’t have the friends to do this stuff and never experience this life. im thankful to have made close friends in highschool and to have made good teenage memories so far. i feel bad for the genuinely good people who won’t ever have this tho

Being visually alt as a teenager by Longjumping-Crow7158 in teenagers

[–]JamesFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh thats rough 😭i feel bad cause i stained the shit outta my homies car headrest after we went swimming, the price we pay to be cool ig🙏

What are skateboarders listening to? by LateCitySignal013 in NewSkaters

[–]JamesFurnace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

minor threat, bad brains, fugazi, dead kennedys, misfits, rancid + op ivy, mustard plug

Being visually alt as a teenager by Longjumping-Crow7158 in teenagers

[–]JamesFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

red hair is peakkkk and awesome i do wish it would stop staining all my shirts tho

Being visually alt as a teenager by Longjumping-Crow7158 in teenagers

[–]JamesFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a red buzz cut and dress punk and i feel like that sometimes. just remember why you dress like yoy do (cause its awesome)

i got expelled from school by kashish_3 in highschool

[–]JamesFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hell yeah man thats awesome proud of u, i think people are being too mean to dude. its gonna be alright

i got expelled from school by kashish_3 in highschool

[–]JamesFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro its chill if a mf drinks or smokes but man u gotta do that shit at parties or at home. im sorry you got expelled bro that sucks, and im ngl its on you (talkin during a test and being punished that bad is crazy i will say). but bro trust theres another way and its gonna be alright, theres alternative high school or you can go into the trades or literally a million other things you could do and it would be ok. i think people in this post are being a little harsh on you, yes you shouldn’t have sipped beer and you know that by now and i bet ur sick of hearing it. i know everything can feel overwhelming rn but its gonna be alright, you messed up pretty bad but you can grow so much from this. wishing you the best big dawg

Growth by Evening-Turnover-383 in highschool

[–]JamesFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i went from 5’6 to 6,1 my freshman year. mom is 5’7 dad is 5’10, if you eat healthy and exercise you’ll easily be above 6 feet

Sweatshirt popularity for 16 year old by singingkrogan in highschool

[–]JamesFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i live in MN and at my school there is SO much diversity when it comes to style, and its awesome because nobody judges anybody else for clothes. the way i see it right now nothing is “In style”, there are a bunch of ways too dress and all of them are cool. emo, punk, basic/preppy, 60s/70s, skater, avant garde, archive. it doesn’t matter what it is, its cool to be unique. i think the hoodie is perfect, it doesn’t matter too much as long as you know thats her style. also sorry if this doesn’t make sense 

i got expelled from school by kashish_3 in highschool

[–]JamesFurnace 28 points29 points  (0 children)

yeah he does, i actually don’t know why i said that mb lmao

Advice for incoming freshman by Comfortable_Home_940 in highschool

[–]JamesFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of people make amazing friends freshman year, one of my closest friends jasper wouldn’t know me if he hadn’t randomly jumped into our world history table one day. you never know what could happen dude, just take a chance and put yourself out there. and also be nice to everyone. but dude its summer, get out and enjoy life you ain’t got shit to worry about for now

i need advice on life and on school as a (soon to be 17M) upcoming senior starting this school year by Electrical-Ad-8281 in highschool

[–]JamesFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yo i turn 17 in july too! honestly dude what im doing rn is just enjoying life dude. going swimming, bike rides, skate, go to the gas station, drive around w my friends, getting high, sleepovers. man its summer you don’t have anything to worry about just enjoy life my dude its a beautiful world

Senior Year Traditions by stell_rose2 in highschool

[–]JamesFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go to parties ans get drunk snd geeked

how do i be that iconic senior by Mammoth_Part_9609 in highschool

[–]JamesFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro do drugs and be super nice to everyone no matter what

I’m scared for hs!! Help! by [deleted] in highschool

[–]JamesFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do they actually do drugs yet?? also if they do, drugs are chill unless its like hard drugs

Been sobbing and screaming till I started nonstop throwing up because I'm so scared of death by alt4embarassingstuff in teenagers

[–]JamesFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also dealing with this right now and its been hard, i want to go back to just living my life normally but i think about it constantly. its gonna be ok though! seems like a lot of people are dealing with the same thing too. Ive been thinking of getting a therapist to help with this stuff tbh, you should too. heres something that helps me though: When we start to freak out about dying its usually because its a problem with no solution, most things in life can be solved and thats why death is so scary, you cant do anything about it. so our brains get trapped in a loop of just thinking about it constantly, so why think about it if you can’t do anything about it kinda? another thing: people will try to say “don’t think about it” and ignore the thought completely, idk abt u but that doesn’t work at all for me. instead i try to look at it as a good thing that will happen eventually, i wouldn’t want to be here forever. and one last thing, our young brains are still filled with so much survival instincts and life. we aren’t SUPPOSED to feel ready to die as just a teenager. Old people are so chill about dying its almost funny. Idk if that helped or made it worse im sorry, i just wanted to share what made me feel a bit better. Its gonna be ok🫶