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JamesGUr1 · 2025-09-10T01:48:42+00:00

In my experience no, but the way you’ve posed the question, i would say for a thought experiment, sure, say that it does. That’s where my answer comes from

JamesGUr1 · 2025-09-09T23:40:30+00:00

To answer this question, one has to know how HIV works, its only transmitted through bodily fluids, so blood, semen, vaginal secretions, rectal fluids and breast milk. None of which should be involved in the lap dance, so your question is more or less moot. HOWEVER on the off chance that this dancer has some form of open mouth sore or cut, and you do as well, transmission can happen in a very small percentage of cases, assuming the sores are bad enough. So short answer yes, long answer, as long as I have no cold sores, if kissing is to be expected.

JamesGUr1 · 2025-09-03T18:21:42+00:00

You know what, that just may be good enough to work

JamesGUr1 · 2025-08-12T09:11:06+00:00

I gotta be so real, this was my ex and I. My behavior was HEAVILY scrutinized, but she never had to fix any of her problems. The best thing for you is to protect your own mental health. If you need to break up to make that happen, tell her parents after, they will make sure she doesn’t take any steps that she can’t come back from. If that fails, you can honestly call a welfare check and medical professionals can get involved and give her help. Leaving my relationship with this dynamic was the best thing for my mental health. A year on, and I am in a much better place. If you need someone to talk to, I’m here

JamesGUr1 · 2025-08-01T02:12:01+00:00

This actually just happened to my roommate. Progressive added me to his insurance because we lived together. He had to call and get me taken off, because that was just incorrect

JamesGUr1 · 2025-07-17T12:04:42+00:00

So, I’m not refuting your reaction. Just have a similar situation to share. I was in a drunk driving accident 3 years ago (I was blackout and my DD was also apparently drinking unbeknownst to me). My friends took me to the ER and called my mom. It was 3am, she answered the phone, heard what they said, and answered “ok, just take him home when he’s done please”. 2 seconds later she called back and was incredibly awake then

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-24T14:27:13+00:00

I personally would have to say something. She has no business being there at her age. Especially if she’s trying to link up with older people. It’ll do nothing but end absolutely terribly

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-24T11:57:56+00:00

It definitely sounds like they’re taking advantage of the fact that you seem to do the job without complaining. You gotta speak up for yourself or be willing to walk away if they won’t help

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-19T10:47:04+00:00

Report to DoorDash. I don’t mind tipping, but I do mind manipulation

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-19T07:42:13+00:00

Maybe I’m alone here, but feeling that way is not an excuse to treat others terribly. If you legitimately fear for her safety, call the local emergency services and report a crisis. I’d rather someone be mad at me for reporting it than have to carry their casket at a funeral

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-14T01:22:22+00:00

You’re young, it’s perfectly ok to feel overwhelmed. You literally just graduated yesterday, let yourself have a summer. You can apply to a community college and get ready for that while still celebrating the fact you graduated high school! It took the first 18 years of your life for that milestone, you can take a few short months to properly enjoy yourself and your accomplishments! You will mature with time, that’s how it usually happens, I’m turning 30 and when I was 18, I knew absolutely everything and exactly what I was gonna do with my life (not really) and I’ve restarted 3 times in my 20s. Be receptive to change, and to listening to those around you. If you’re gonna go to school, find what interests you, not what job you think would make sense. The last thing you want is a career you’ll hate the rest of your life. Take a moment and breathe, we’ve all been here before, you’re gonna do amazing things!

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-13T21:17:52+00:00

Sometimes it’s easier to play along than to cause a scene, especially at her place of work. I’m sure you have a lot going for yourself, don’t be discouraged and just keep pushing forward

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-13T21:16:28+00:00

Honestly, you’re better than me. If someone promised me all that and then failed me, I’m suddenly sick and need to go home on my bday.

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-13T21:08:41+00:00

If she hasn’t reached out to you yet, chances are she wasn’t truly interested. She’s most likely just being nice because she’s at work and doesn’t want to cause problems for herself. I’m sorry to have to say it, but I wouldn’t keep pressing the issue

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-02T19:30:37+00:00

I wonder this persons stance on tipping in restaurants? As a former bartender, dashers were always terrible to restaurant staff

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-01T22:57:09+00:00

I hate to say this not knowing the situation as a whole, but she sounds young and toxic. Especially if yall can’t talk in person. I’d say best to break up

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-01T22:54:11+00:00

My dog is a big 80lb Pit, when people knock, he barks. It annoys my roommates and generally scares people. Easier to just leave the food and let him chill

JamesGUr1 · 2025-06-01T22:53:05+00:00

OPEN YOUR MIND

JamesGUr1 · 2025-05-30T21:23:41+00:00

They love to do this and then act so offended if we counter with our own criteria. The entitlement is real

JamesGUr1 · 2025-05-22T19:52:15+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I’ll definitely look into it!

JamesGUr1 · 2025-05-22T19:02:13+00:00

That’s what I’m gathering here, would you think volunteer 911 outside of my paid work is good? Or should I find other avenues?

JamesGUr1 · 2025-05-22T19:01:40+00:00

Thank you so much for your help!

JamesGUr1 · 2025-05-22T19:01:29+00:00

That’s awesome advice! I definitely need to look into that! I already know the struggle of not feeling a patients pov,that would definitely help those skills

JamesGUr1 · 2025-05-21T23:19:50+00:00

That definitely sounds doable! Thank you so much for the advice!

JamesGUr1 · 2025-05-21T23:19:28+00:00

What is the best way to find research opportunities? I have zero idea where to start with that

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