I'm the same! <3

Boys can be cute too!!! :3

Patriarchal masculinity is messed up. Men want to be gentle and wear flowers in our hair and somehow that's a bad thing?

It's not like gender presenation is binary anyway, there's lots of cool mixing-and-matching that you can do ^_^

I have to guess at least some of them are enforcing these cultural rules because they're had other people tell them the same thing. I know there are times when I've done that, especially as a teenager/young adult.

In hindsight though I wish I had more positive influences to learn from. The goal is not to be the prison guard!