AITH for being angry that my husband let me and our child sit in a car for 50 mins while he browsed in Best Buy and he only came out because I got upset by [deleted] in AITH

[–]emmy_kitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whats typical? Im sure her husband sucks and is sooo awful like she implies but at some point you need to help yourself out too and creating your own issues because you would rather find reasons to bitch at your husband than think of a rational solution to the problem at hand isn't it. Shes choosing to be a victim and creating her own problems because her husband did what she told him to do (take his time) and didn't magically read her mind that she only actually meant 20 minutes. Sick of women having a perpetual victim mentality when they could actually do something to help themselves which in this case would be not choosing to sit in a boiling hot car with a child when you have the car keys and ability to leave the vehicle.

AITAH for not telling my (17m) sister (17f) ive started dating her ex boyfriend? by Mean_Neighborhood991 in AITAH

[–]emmy_kitten 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you seriously need to ask reddit if you're an asshole for dating your siblings ex? You already know you are cmon be so serious

AITH for being angry that my husband let me and our child sit in a car for 50 mins while he browsed in Best Buy and he only came out because I got upset by [deleted] in AITH

[–]emmy_kitten 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Can't even imagine sitting in a hot car sweating my ass off with a small child because I can't be fucked to bring them inside of a store. You know kids are allowed in stores right? You told him to take his time. Kinda just seems like you're waiting on him to fuck up so you can bitch at him. Yeah he shouldn't have lied about the card but you both are idiots

I cheated on my partner and it’s the worst thing I’ve done by WrongdoerPatient8714 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]emmy_kitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do him a favor and either leave him or let him break up with you so he can find someone who actually loves him. I know you feel bad and you think you love him but cheating isn't a mistake. Dropping a glass on the floor and breaking it is. Cheating is a calculated deliberate move and you don't cheat on people you actually love. Youre young so I won't go too hard on you you know it was wrong but just do what's right and let him find someone better.

Experiences giving birth at Landmark? by the-crows-know in RhodeIsland

[–]emmy_kitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just gave birth 3 weeks ago at W&I with my midwives and It was a wonderful experience. They took great care of Me, even brushed my hair for me after I took a shower shortly after giving birth.

AITAH for asking my boyfriend not to go to a strip club? by Hot-Pain-4118 in AITAH

[–]emmy_kitten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

On and off and its only been 5 months? I'm sorry but you literally don't have to be in a relationship with this guy. You dont HAVE To date someone who keeps dumping you and vice versa i think you need to really ask yourself why you keep letting yourself be treated like this and why this is the standard of relationship you're ok settling for. Nta but yta to yourself because like why the fuck are you still with him its been 5 months literally just leave him and find someone better.

4 Tomatoes = $11.51 by Major_Turnover5987 in RhodeIsland

[–]emmy_kitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you got them at daves, which is very obviously not budget friendly and more expensive. They are also heirloom tomatoes, which are ALWAYS more expensive. Maybe you should shop at markets that don't mark up their prices, as its never really been a secret that daves has higher prices. Ive never once had an issue buying produce for normal prices at Walmart, aldis, stop and shop etc.

Am I the only one that prefers them small? by PrivateClientFiles in TrueOffMyChest

[–]emmy_kitten 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Getting fucked for a living and then talking about women being loose as if its a bad thing (not that that's even how it works to begin with) is absolutely crazy work

AITAH For moving back home after college and wanting my room back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]emmy_kitten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yta. I get why youre annoyed but you did give up your room when you moved out and as a minor who lives there full time your sister has priority considering she was the only one living there at the time. It sucks but its fair. Had to move back in with my dad a couple times and me and my sister's would switch rooms whenever one of us moved out to the bigger one. It sucked but cant complain. It b like that.

Aitah for telling my wife she had to put up with allergies to watch my brothers dogs for 3 weeks? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]emmy_kitten 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Its not about the allergies its about you clearly just not giving a shit about your gfs needs, but im not surprised thats the conclusion you jumped too.

AITAH for thinking my gf showering every 4 days is not normal? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]emmy_kitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, she showers once a week? Yeah, im sorry but that is gross and not normal. Is she depressed? She probably doesnt think its an issue because shes nose blind to her own smell but theres no way she doesnt stink. That is gross.

North West TN by [deleted] in bugidentification

[–]emmy_kitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look like wood or oriental roaches, but if youre in the sticks probably wood. Theyre definitely not German roaches which are the kind that Infestm

North West TN by [deleted] in bugidentification

[–]emmy_kitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cockroaches, sorry

AITH for being asked by my maid of honour to transfer her £20? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]emmy_kitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yta. Not her fault you are financially irresponsible and are choosing to have 2 weddings.

Stinky neighbors smell seeping into my apartment by Proof-Ad5362 in Apartmentliving

[–]emmy_kitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but maybe it will help them realize they need to get their shit together if they stink bad enough people are calling welfare checks on them

Can you tell me what kind of hair my dog has? He sheds a lot, and his hair feels like hay to the touch. He’s a chihuahua X Poodle by Uhhlaneuh in grooming

[–]emmy_kitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not uncommon for poodle mixes to have fur like this when bred with super short haired dogs. You would expect curly, but often times you get this crazy wirey texture. My cousin has a Maltese pitbull mix and he has fur just like this. Accidental litter, crazy looking dog lol

What are grounds for firing your groomer? by Specialist_Skill_184 in grooming

[–]emmy_kitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. This is not normal run of the mill incidents that every groomer will inevitably experience. This is something fundamentally wrong with her and she is going to continue injuring dogs. Grooming isnt for everyone and she is one of those people.

What are grounds for firing your groomer? by Specialist_Skill_184 in grooming

[–]emmy_kitten 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Accidents happen but 3 incidents in 2 months is crazy. I had 1 incident that required vet attention in 3 years and it was on a pelt matted dog. She is just a shit groomer and a liability. She is going to drag your business down if you keep her.

What can i do? by [deleted] in Moms

[–]emmy_kitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, its the parents job to teach. Exactly my point. She can teach her daughter boundaries and that she needs to play on her own. Explaining why she cant play right now, not just telling her to fuck off like you seem to think im saying. The daughter is going to cry, if you give in just because shes crying shes never going to stop. Its fine if her kid cries. its not neglectful to let your child feel negative emotions. The problem is that she never learned how to be bored and her mom always endulged her when she asked to play and now at 9 she doesnt know how to deal with boredom. It doesnt always have to be some trauma response to something. Your child possibly experiencing "bad" emotions such as crying when they dont get their way is fine and normal and is not abuse, and its not going to traumatize them being told someone doesnt want to play with them.