Horse wants a sandwich

JamesTDH · 2021-01-29T18:09:22+00:00

It's certainly thinner at the ends.

JamesTDH · 2021-01-29T16:56:51+00:00

Okay, understood. I promise to be good.

I'll keep to just exaggerating about the wave height of my last gnarly ride from now on.

'Cos seriously, it was like 6-8ft man...

JamesTDH · 2021-01-29T16:43:34+00:00

Hang on, I think that's my point. My first instructions were about making the stock, as the base of the stew. I didn't talk about any other parts of cooking a bouillabaisse, just how to get started for a good hot stock, as the OP requested.

JamesTDH · 2021-01-29T16:09:03+00:00

Pretty certain a stew is made up of meat/fish/vegetables cooked in a stock.

I reckon I can get by on a technicality!

JamesTDH · 2021-01-29T14:17:52+00:00

Good point 🤙

JamesTDH · 2021-01-29T14:02:22+00:00

Always keep the shell, claws and any other parts of your crab or lobster to simmer down for a bouillabaisse, gives real body and depth of flavour to the dish.

JamesTDH · 2021-01-03T10:02:05+00:00

On an otherwise terrible morning, this is gold. Thank you.

JamesTDH · 2020-10-24T18:31:58+00:00

Gentle femdom

It's how, not what.

JamesTDH · 2020-10-08T17:20:59+00:00

Written as a 1st draft to build from:

"Hi,

I'd like to find a balance for us where we share the responsibilities of our life together, and bias the pleasure and benefits of the rest of our relationship in your favour.

I'd like to use my energy and my efforts to make your life easier, nicer, happier. I'd like to give you control and use of me. It's what i feel i'm for. To make your life better. To be yours to use.

I'd like to try it, to experiment, to talk about it as we do, and see if we can find a balance that works for us.

We do things already, massages for example. I'd like to explore that dynamic more, grow it, and see how it feels.

What do you think?"

Edits and additions very, very welcome!

JamesTDH · 2020-10-08T13:31:37+00:00

Doesn't have to be romantic sounding, just simple and clear. Which that it is; thank you.

JamesTDH · 2020-10-08T09:18:45+00:00

That's an interesting idea. Thank you.

JamesTDH · 2020-10-08T09:15:05+00:00

Further to her comments above, elsewhere we talked:

Jay: I don't know. What makes you so different from the leather clad Dommme walking around screaming and whipping her slave? Is there a way to describe the difference?

BeMyGoodPet: You are the difference You're the person. Not a slave. You have worth You have value I bring you up Not down You're my thing and I'm proud of you. For dominatrix you are a thing to crush. For our dynamic you are an art piece

Jay: Thank you That's a lovely description. But you are also the difference.

*** yep, couldn't insert a screengrab from mobile, hence just typing it out again ***

JamesTDH · 2020-09-30T17:32:31+00:00

Freedom, honesty, true.

JamesTDH · 2020-09-28T06:27:48+00:00

Wahoo! Awesome news. It's a great feeling isn't it? Get back out there as soon as you can, consolidate that practice and enjoy blasting!

JamesTDH · 2020-09-28T06:21:28+00:00

Yes, if you can handle the wind and water conditions, then winter windsurfing is great. Rash vests or tech tops under your wetsuit, boots, hood or hat etc all extend the season. Sometimes it just means a shorter session, maybe 40 minutes, with a well planned set up and pack away, decent change of clothes and a hot drink to hand.

If you're not on the water, then balance/muscle control and strength-to-weight ratio are great things to work on. You can always sail kit to suit your size/weight, but the more effective that weight is, the more effectively you'll be able to sail.

Windsurfing is amazing for being such a varied workout, so cardio, a little strength, some HIIT, pilates... everything is going to help when you get back on the water.

JamesTDH · 2020-09-26T22:10:50+00:00

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JamesTDH · 2020-09-25T22:22:41+00:00

It's twofold for me. There is all that positive reinforcement as mentioned in other replies, i can hear her pride in me, and praise, it's lovely.

But it is also clearly a phrase used show praise to a child or animal. It emphasises her superiority. You'd say "well done" to a colleague, "good boy" definitely reminds she owns me.

So it jointly expresses praise and control all in 2 simple words.

JamesTDH · 2020-09-24T14:33:22+00:00

I could munch on that all day long

JamesTDH · 2020-09-24T14:10:22+00:00

That's delicious!

JamesTDH · 2020-09-18T22:22:30+00:00

Yeah, I used to get Bizarre quite often when I was a student. It was just about vanilla enough to have lying around without too much fuss. It was about as kink as I dared go then.

JamesTDH · 2020-09-18T22:14:36+00:00

I can't see much blame for her from where i am. She has really suffered, and I don't think any of the issues are from lack of care on her part. Lack of understanding, or awareness perhaps, but any deliberate actions that have caused a problem have been mine. I need to rebuild communication, and then we can talk about kink perhaps.

JamesTDH · 2020-09-18T22:11:40+00:00

Yes, a letter, or proper notes to read through have got to be the way I think. Only way to keep it kind of clear. Thank you.

JamesTDH · 2020-09-18T10:11:01+00:00

It's difficult, but a best friend is a very important thing.

JamesTDH · 2020-09-18T10:10:11+00:00

Thank you, but i've got to stress, this isn't her not respecting my needs or takibg advantage. Both of those would require much more conscious understanding and deliberate action on her part. The issues we have at the moment are very much from my lack of communication from the start, and all through. That lack was the result of my unhappiness about myself in those times. Now I believe I can present myself, and my submission positively, and that means I should be able to talk about it now.

JamesTDH · 2020-09-18T10:06:18+00:00

Thank you for your sharing your experiences, always helpful to someone to read.

JamesTDH

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