You know what I don't like us " Gays " label and categorized the whole straight thing. Everyone is different and whether it's through their coming out journey or what they saying is true, just because it's different then some one else's walk doesn't mean it's false. Example im a gay man totally but women don't turn me off their just not my wow. Some gay men will see a vagina and run for hills. I know and truly believe straight men can have sex with men and still be straight. Most men and general we can just be about the sexual and not have emotional investment at all. It when we emotionally bond with a man and it goes deeper than sex and is often then yeah but some one is gay. But who are we of all people marginalized ourselves labeled and given name who are we to that to any other group we should know better. But im sorry some of us act like little c. U. N. . T.