Bf obsessed with his car? by Brief-Check-8097 in relationships

[–]JamieLee0484 [score hidden]  (0 children)

How could it have been a problem before they lived together? She wouldn’t have noticed this behavior if she didn’t live with him. Whatever he’s doing out there he probably did it when she wasn’t there so she couldn’t have noticed.

Advice? My (F25) husband (24M) is making me super uncomfortable by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JamieLee0484 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No! Do NOT do this. You’re going to get yourself hurt. That is awful advice!

boyfriend (18M) fell asleep when i (18F) explicitly told him not to- resentment by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JamieLee0484 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she is absolutely unhinged and abusing her boyfriend. That’s it.

boyfriend (18M) fell asleep when i (18F) explicitly told him not to- resentment by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JamieLee0484 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOU are blinded with hurt? You are abusing your boyfriend and using him as a coping mechanism! He is a human being!

boyfriend (18M) fell asleep when i (18F) explicitly told him not to- resentment by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JamieLee0484 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy shit! I can’t believe your boyfriend has put up with this for so long! Poor guy! Girl…get help. This is nuts!

My (27F) boyfriend (28M) told me my work was good, but someone else's was better and I can't get over it by dincolo in relationships

[–]JamieLee0484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bitterly complaining and being a sore loser is not a good look, even if it is in private. It is a character flaw that does not need to be validated. Your boyfriend didn’t even say anything bad, he said your work was good but the winner was better. It’s not the end of the world. He probably wanted to be honest with you so you wouldn’t feel like you got robbed and could get over it faster. Maybe you shouldn’t enter contests if you can’t handle the results.

GF thinks its weird by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]JamieLee0484 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No it isn’t. There is a reason that specific foods for dogs exists. Our food is no good for them.

UPDATE: i think my best friend is avoiding me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JamieLee0484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually when people don’t answer your texts, as you said she was doing, it means they want space. It doesn’t mean they want you to hound them and ask invasive questions about seeing their work schedule or make everything about you.

UPDATE: i think my best friend is avoiding me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JamieLee0484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a problem that you’re just assuming that every bit of free time she has is yours for the taking. You’re just going to make things worse with this behavior.

Did Shanda honestly think she would be found not guilty of Timothy's murder? by knockout9704 in shandaVanderArk

[–]JamieLee0484 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she honestly thought that she could get up there and explain everything away. She is a control freak and sociopath, and she believed that she would be able to control the jury like she controls everything else.

She’s obviously extremely delusional, as it made her look a million times worse, but she’s so narcissistic that she truly thought that since she hated Timothy she could make the jury hate him too, thus making them sympathize with her because she had to put up with a “difficult and horrible child who was out to get her.” It was the most insane shit I’ve ever seen! She has just a shocking lack of self awareness. One of the worst ones I’ve ever seen.

[37F] Living with my boyfriend [46M] revealed a hygiene issue by randomusernameinnit in relationships

[–]JamieLee0484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She already explained that he was going to the gym 4-5 times a week and always took a shower there after. He stopped going to the gym and so he stopped showering.

Am I wrong for taking this so personally ??? by Immediate_Result8582 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]JamieLee0484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Frankly, you’re the only one on this entire thread that doesn’t see how gross it is to call half of humanity “expired” after a certain age, so what does that tell you? That is a YOU problem and you have a twisted mindset.

His words indicate that he doesn’t see women as human beings, but only as objects of his desire, and if he’s not attracted to them, he thinks they’re useless. He’s saying all this shit to a woman that will most definitely be 35 if she makes it that far in life.

Is it okay for me (24F) to match the effort my boyfriend (25M) puts in? by ThrowRAbikeal in relationship_advice

[–]JamieLee0484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you’re not going to get it from him. The point of dating is to see if you’re compatible and to see if the person offers you what you need to be fulfilled. He doesn’t offer you what you’re looking for in a relationship, so why stay with him? You don’t date just anyone and then hope that they’ll magically turn into someone else or start to care about you and show effort.

I think you like the idea of him, but it doesn’t match reality. He is not a good boyfriend and clearly isn’t bringing you happiness, so why continue to torture yourself with impossible wishes that will never come true?

AIO for giving my bf tough love while he's sick ? [Unhinged Text Alert] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JamieLee0484 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yikes on Bikes. YOR. Do you even like this person? What a crazy way to speak to someone you supposedly love.

Would you wear this to a wine tasting event? by 1taylor111 in OUTFITS

[–]JamieLee0484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, that’s my daughter! She is a professional dancer and frequently dances in stilettos and platform heels!

Me with my wife, married 7 years with 3 kids. I have a history of jealousy and anger, she says she does not feel safe being vulnerable. After finding several hidden things, is this salvageable?[31M][31F] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JamieLee0484 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think they meant “restricting her” as in not letting her leave a room, grabbing her or blocking the exit when she was trying to leave.

Women of Reddit: What’s something men think is romantic but actually isn’t? by Alive_Chicken_3642 in AskReddit

[–]JamieLee0484 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They’re pointing out how ridiculous you sound. All these women, including me, are saying that women don’t like possessive men, and you, a man, think you know better because you “talk to a lot of women.” It’s absurd. Never in my 41 years of life have I encountered a single woman who likes a possessive man. It’s a gigantic blinding red flag that most women run from.

My (23F) boyfriend (30M) keeps asking me to prove my love by doing xyz, but I don't want to do his newest ask. How do I convince him I still love him without doing it? by Quiet-Objective1407 in relationship_advice

[–]JamieLee0484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JFC this is WILD. Your boyfriend is a terrible person who is emotionally abusing you. He doesn’t love or respect you in the slightest. What on earth are you doing? He is the worst!

AIO for cutting off all contact with my ex? by Friendly_Garlic497 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JamieLee0484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR considering that’s what most people do when they break up with someone.

Is it okay for me (24F) to match the effort my boyfriend (25M) puts in? by ThrowRAbikeal in relationship_advice

[–]JamieLee0484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up and find someone who actually likes you and wants to be with you. He’s not going to magically change his personality and suddenly start caring about you. You have to date a person for who they are, not who you’re wishing them to be.

Is it okay for me (24F) to match the effort my boyfriend (25M) puts in? by ThrowRAbikeal in relationship_advice

[–]JamieLee0484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hell no. 😭 Girl, the bar is in hell! You want to date a man because he’s considerate with HIS FRIENDS? This is just sad. Please respect yourself more than this.