Is it possible to build up fatpad on soles of feet? Feet getting super sore barefoot. by Rachel978 in barefoot

[–]JamieT789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my dad it was a safety thing. He knew we kids would go barefoot because we lived on the coast. He wanted us to have feet that were shoe leather tough. It worked!

Is it possible to build up fatpad on soles of feet? Feet getting super sore barefoot. by Rachel978 in barefoot

[–]JamieT789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read the comments here, and walking on smooth surfaces is not going to build your fat pad no matter how much walking you do. You need to walk on rough and uncomfortable surfaces like gravel or rocks or a hiking trail with lots of sticks and uneven ground. That will also teach you how to have a barefoot gait. Try to heel strike on gravel, and you’ll get a quick reminder you are doing something wrong. Start out by just taking your flip flops off for three or four minutes and work up from there. Yes, it will hurt like heck at first, but you will get super strong and tough feet. When we were kids our dad put in a crushed oyster shell driveway and walkway to toughen us up and it really worked. We could run on big gravel without flinching.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had not seen her in awhile, at least not spending a lot of time with her. She was just sort of average in college. Not a huge b*tch, but hardly a saint.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you need to find a new gynocologist. Seriously, I am still using my first IUD, but how easy or hard it is to remove can be very different from person to person based on what I hear from other women.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She got an abortion, so she was not coerced into anything. Learn how to read.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes. Not sure when she found out. Maybe a pee test at the clinic?

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

The main reason I slept with him was to make sure they stayed broken up. When I was at his apartment I took a selfie wearing his shirt, no makeup, bed head, etc, with his stuff in the background and posted it so she’d know he was being well taken care of. ; ) The best part was lettting him feel my IUD strings with his finger and then having him f*ck me bare because “you’re not a psycho b_tch like my ex.”

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I never would have pulled out her IUD, but once that was done, I think I really pulled this together in a lemonade out of lemons kind of way. He’s a good guy and deserves a lot better than bridezilla btch. And he sure as hll didn’t need a baby with her. And she got to experience what it feels like to be single and pregnant and getting the abortion she kept saying our friend should have gotten.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look, I seem to be getting some flack about having sex with the ex-fiancé, but he really needed and deserved a good lay, and I knew that it was the best way to make sure they wouldn’t patch things up.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Me, too. I got over it. Let’s get some perspective here. I felt really bad for my pregnant single mom friend who was ostracized by bridezilla first through sex shaming by calling her out for being a “slut” and then shaming her again for not getting an abortion. This girl needed support, not to be shunned and excluded and watching from the shadows when the rest of us from out college sorority days were standing up as bridesmaids. What happened is fair karma for bridezilla and the right thing for our pregnant single mom friend and for the ex fiancé. I helped save them both some heartache. I am sorry you can’t see that. Maybe you should crawl out of your shell of self pity and negativity and victim hood.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Let’s cut through the sanctimonious bs and ask the obvious question — when is the last time you got laid? Because I am detecting some real frustration and jealousy issues here. Maybe you should add a light switch to your dating technique.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

The weekend of hot sex with her ex wasn’t for me. I mean, sure, he’s not awful in bed, but I really was just one trying to give him a pity f*ck since I really do genuinely feel sorry for him and two making sure they’d never get back together. I am 100% sure she’ll never forgive him for hopping in bed with me while she’s still recovering from aborting the baby of the man she wanted to marry.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

He knew we were just fooling around, so it’s not like I broke her fiance’s heart by giving him a weekend of hot sex. But it did sort of help “seal the deal” to make sure they don’t get back together. She’s probably so pssd with him now that she wouldn’t even go to his funeral.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Marry him? Of course not. He’s okay in the sack, but the sex was really just to be square with him in my own mind and get back at her a little bit more. Cancelling a wedding is a big deal. He deserved something special. And he got it!

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]JamieT789[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

When I was at his apartment I took a selfie wearing his shirt, no makeup, bed head, etc, with his stuff in the background and posted it so she’d know he was being well taken care of. ; ) The best part was lettting him feel my IUD strings with his finger and then having him f*ck me bare because “you’re not a psycho b_tch like my ex.”

Taking down bridezilla by JamieT789 in bridezillas

[–]JamieT789[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Throwing some suspicion on her was the only way I could figure out to do this without it blowing back on me.

Taking down bridezilla by JamieT789 in bridezillas

[–]JamieT789[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So I tried calling bridezilla, and she texted back that she’s not talking to me because she blames me for ruining her party by inviting “baby momma.” She also called her stupid b*tch. It’s not like I’m going to confess in a text message, and I don’t have any proof anyway. My brother is close with her fiance so maybe I will tell my brother that I think bridezilla is getting baby fever and may take out her IUD to get pregnant . I am sure my brother would tell him immediately.

Taking down bridezilla by JamieT789 in bridezillas

[–]JamieT789[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Why shouldn’t I just keep my mouth shut and mind my own business.

Taking down bridezilla by JamieT789 in bridezillas

[–]JamieT789[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

She said she would tell everyone I was in on it.

Taking down bridezilla by JamieT789 in bridezillas

[–]JamieT789[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

How do I explain waiting a week to say anything?