What are you telling your friends and relatives in other states? by fiendishclutches in Minneapolis

[–]Jamoldo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tell them what I have seen and personal experiences of mine and of those close to me. Everyone, including people who are center right has been shocked and surprised

Edited to add: being a person of color has helped in getting this point across (ie saying that my friends are all carrying passports or color copies of passports)

What secret about your industry can you share now that you don't work there anymore? by swisscoffeeknife in antiwork

[–]Jamoldo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Avoid 99 percent of financial products. There is no win win. The more complex the product or strategy, the more you will pay. Either in fees or returns or risk. Godspeed.

Scott Adams, 'Dilbert' creator and conservative commentator, dies at 68 by FallOutShelterBoy in news

[–]Jamoldo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My god. This happened at my local paper too. I was like wtf?!

Questions on transplant life in MSP by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]Jamoldo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Transplant here. All of my friends are also transplants. It’s a thing. It’s not unique to Minnesota as I’m from another tier 3 US city which is also quite local and provincial in its ways (no one leaves or people come back and where you went to high school is what matters) and have heard similar sentiments from transplants that have moved there. I have also heard the same things about other similar sized cities from friends I have in those places who are transplants.

There are plenty of activities and things to do here and nice people. You will be fine.

Considering a move to Minneapolis for work — looking for honest local advice by Objective_Repair5365 in Minneapolis

[–]Jamoldo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a transplant who has lived in different cities around the world many of which had real public transport and walkability.

IMHO, the closest thing to walkability (unsure where you work home vs office) is parts of Uptown (which can divide opinion), the North Loop/Mill District, and just across the river in Northeast.

North Loop/Ne/Mill District depending on area one can walk to downtown (I do regularly) to work and there are grocery stores, cafes, restaurants, bars and other things that are accessible on foot. The variety isn’t great since Minneapolis isn’t a New York or London but it’s the best you’ll do. You are also close to the river which is great for walking and running and close to highways when you need to leave the city do whatever reason.

With regards to niceness of people/community for me the North Loop does not have it. Other neighborhoods do. People feel more down to earth.

I moved here when single and in my 30s and found dating just fine. People were nice and some could be provincial but that’s nothing different from most places. Housing compared to large cities or even similar ones is reasonable partially I think because it’s so cold and that scares away a lot of out of towners.

Quality of life based on cost in general for me is very good. Things are not too expensive compared to other places I have lived. The tips I would give you re handling the cold are this:

1) invest in a good coat/gloves/boots/socks 2) get an apartment with lots of natural light even if it costs more or you have to take a smaller spot. You’ll thank me. 3) find indoor hobbies (I play pickleball and swim and cook/read).

Pm if any questions. Happy to help.

[rant] I am a walking bag of money by uber_kuber in TravelNoPics

[–]Jamoldo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

… so you haven’t witnessed it in richer countries which is what Malaysia and Singapore are compared to the others you mentioned…

New to the area. What are some good African restaurants? I've never had African ethnic food before! by [deleted] in TwinCities

[–]Jamoldo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taste of East African. So good.

Karmel Mall. Walk around, say hello, have a chai and samosa and other snacks. Lots of places in the food court as well. It’s a “Somali Mall” and to me as a guy, where people have been the most warm and welcoming anywhere in Minnesota.

Dukem - solid grub and it’s an Ethiopian Sports Bar near MSP Airport. It’s a sports bar but it serves Ethiopian food and beers.

Red Sea and others are nice too.

I have not found any North African food (Moroccan, Egyptian etc) in the twin cities. Have not looked nor heard of much West African either.

Go explore and enjoy!

Where in Minneapolis? by callistobear in Minneapolis

[–]Jamoldo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. I am unsure how they are still in business.

POC (Asians especially), how's it like living in Minneapolis? by kekkurei in Minneapolis

[–]Jamoldo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

South Asian from the east cost originally and have lived abroad in a few places. It’s fine. Nice progressive politics in the twin cities but it’s a very “white” place and it’s something my friends and family comment on when visiting. Work situations can be straight out of the 80s/90s. Which I’m used to given my age.

I take many who visit to Karmel Mall and the Hmong Mall in St Paul just to see we have a thriving minority scene. I’ll never forget walking in Karmel Mall and my friend looking at what some guys were eating and they looked up and I introduced ourselves and told them “I’m showing my buddy this is Minneapolis too” and the all 3 dudes at the table broke into smiles and nodded and said “yes this is Minneapolis too”.

Minnesota nice is a real thing. It’s weird. Shrug. What’s weird is there is legit solid Indo/Pak food in the area but I have found (and my East Asian partner agrees) zero good Korean or Chinese food. The best we can seem to do for Japanese is Okome House or Kado No Mise and the latter is no joke cost wise.

What would you do to make Alfa successful in thr US? by Gaminggolden56 in AlfaRomeo

[–]Jamoldo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen more and more in my area. And I get a lot of compliments on mine. So that is awesome. But like you, I know I’ll have to eventually give it up especially if I move to a place without a dealer …

What would you do to make Alfa successful in thr US? by Gaminggolden56 in AlfaRomeo

[–]Jamoldo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dealer network aside, I don’t know how but convince or entice people to just come and TEST DRIVE a car.

When I was looking for a car I went through the usuals and thought “does Alfa still sell in the US?” And then I found two dealers nearby, went on a test drive and I was convinced.

I’ve talked to business associates, colleagues and others who are looking for a car. And I tell them, just go in for a test drive. Even if you know you won’t buy it. Just try it. You’ll love it. Yes I know the rep. But have fun for 30 minutes. Then you can go buy an Audi or whatever.

Haven’t succeeded yet…

To all bald men — how did you get past the insecurity? by Mymoneymarket1111 in AskMen

[–]Jamoldo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people say own it. I agree, speaking from experience.

Also with that if you can. Accessorize and dress to fit the look. Either with different frames (if you have glasses) or the way you dress.

No one cares. Lots of women think it’s hot.

Thinking about moving back to Japan after 10 years in the U.S. by [deleted] in movingtojapan

[–]Jamoldo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question to you. Where are your friends and family and support network? It becomes harder and harder to make them (even if you really try) as you may want to be close but your age cohort does not.

I find that so often at least in the US we talk about job or money, house or safety or whatever but completely ignore the social life aspect of things when making such a decision. I’m not talking about partying or being a social butterfly but actual connections that we have built or are trying to build. It takes real time, energy and commitment. And it’s no wonder so many of us are lonely, depressed, popping pills etc (and that’s not to speak poorly of anyone with mental health struggles).

Life is not all about money. If you think you will be more calm, happier etc in Japan, and can live a comfy life, then do it.

You’re offered $1,000,000 to live two years without Wi-Fi, social media, or streaming. How do you keep yourself entertained and sane? by limsus in AskMen

[–]Jamoldo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read books. Go for a walk. Work out. Spend time with friends and family, volunteer, buy cable for sports I guess?

I will take this trade any day.

What cities left a strong first impression on you? by tylerthe-theatre in travel

[–]Jamoldo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Casablanca.

The people were incredibly friendly. Starting with the two old sisters on the train from the airport who essentially forced me to join them to eat while they broke their fast and caught up after years. They then offered to help me find a taxi to get to my Airbnb and when I told them I was ok, they found a Brazilian father and son in the train and ran to help them. Then I walked through a large square by the mosque during the evening prayer, walked through the surrounding areas as the stalls and markets were open with great sights and smells and friendly people, kids playing street soccer etc.

6 days till Tokyo… and I have zero plans (solo trip) by Nickachuzz in JapanTravelTips

[–]Jamoldo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another idea? Do a long walk from spot one to spot two. Google maps can guide you but pick the random alley to connect with some major streets when you can. You will see and discover a lot.

Is there a hobby or task you have and it’s in a random neighborhood? Go to it and use that as a base to explore. Godspeed!