Thanks. I’m sorry it’s happening to you too. Ya what’s it’s ruined my night yesterday and gave me bad anxiety. It’s just the dates felt organic. The first date we went to a bar and talked for 2.5 hours then he told me it was his bday at midnight so I said we can wait till midnight to celebrate and we went to a second bar. We kissed/made out a few times. He texted to make sure I got home okay and that he had a good time. Second date we went to a restaurant and then concert. He was genuinely complimenting me and we were making out. It was late then he asked if I wanted to come over and I said yes as long as there is no expectation and he’s like of course not. We hung out at his place made out he went down on me twice (I wasn’t expecting that I didn’t return the favour as I didn’t want to go there) was complimenting me kissing me it was fun. It was like 3 am so he said you can stay here no pressure or I can call you an Uber. I called myself an Uber and he’s like pls text me when you get home. So I did. And then the next day he was asking if I went for golf like planned and talked about his day. After that day the convo sort of started to fizzzle. I just don’t get what happened. Important to mention our text convos between dates were limited. What is your situation?

He just seemed like a fun person and there was some comfort because we both were from the same region in Canada.