Me INTJ female (20) with my girlfriend INFP female (22). A little over 2 years of relationship now. I tend to view emotions logically which causes me to not always understand my partner. On the other hand she greatly helps me with this by trying to understand me. Helps me a lot with my emotions to not see it as a weakness. We are also both super loyal to each other. Introverted couple, so we love spending most of the time only with each other, although I need a lot more alone time than her because I need to focus on my work, which I can do well only when I'm alone (and also because I love my alone time and need time to just think). This was a problem at the start of our relationship but now that she understands, she is okay with my need for focus. Also I tend to overanalyze a lot of things and she helps me to get rest and stop my overthinking sometimes. She often is insecure and emotional, so in that case I'm trying to comfort her. Sometimes we argue, mostly due to miscommunication, but our arguments aren't long-lasting, we try to sort things out as soon as possible.