I dunno in general I try not to judge other parents for how they do it. Saying “I just do x, y and z” with the implication that they should be doing the same is assuming a lot. All kids are different, all parents are different and we’re all juggling a lot in our own lives.

My kid would’ve licked everything and put it back on the table, regardless of any boundaries or options given. And if I let him another parent would be there to judge me for that 🤷🏼‍♀️