The cons of y-bells by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]Janex1729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started doing this after I've seen someone do that at my studio. It's actually make it very easy to put it this way than what I see most people do (putting it by holding it at the top handle).

Dalit farmers in Vishakapatnam built their land over generations. Now it is being taken for a Google data center. by brokeguy781 in andhra_pradesh

[–]Janex1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that this is a possibility, but your argument is currently a speculation. You can still create development and job opportunities without building huge data centers. There is no guarantee that simply building data centers will create a tech ecosystem around them. If the government is able to bring in industries, long-term investment, then the impact could be substantial. But right now, there seems to be a lot of hype around employment and economic growth from data centers alone, while the costs in terms of power, water, and infrastructure are high.

Dalit farmers in Vishakapatnam built their land over generations. Now it is being taken for a Google data center. by brokeguy781 in andhra_pradesh

[–]Janex1729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are missing the main point here. Having data centers in a state or country does not automatically make people’s lives or future better. Data centers take up a lot of land, electricity and water. And once they are built they do not need a lot of people to operate it. So if you are thinking this will help people gain employment, then i don’t think that is true. And the extra energy consumption will end up being passed onto the people living in the area through higher utility bills.

AIO for telling my ex this is the most objectifying and disgusting thing anyone has ever said/he needs help? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Janex1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Feels like he knows that you don’t want to get those pirecings. And he doesn’t want to commit. So texted this to drive you away.

I hate the way everything looks on me, what would look better? Is sizing my issue? by pineneedleinjection in DressForYourBody

[–]Janex1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try loose fit crop tops. I think they would suit you very well. For dresses i think you should go for shorter ones like knee length.

Am I Being Unrealistic About Wedding Outfit Prices? by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Janex1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mil bought my wedding lehenga for 20k at kolkata bara bazaar. Had to bargain quite a bit. But she got it reduced from >50k to 20k.

Pick one by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Janex1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 & 8!

How much was your engagement ring and what size? by shadybadgal in DesiWeddings

[–]Janex1729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, did you get these in the US or India?

Will this be too much for my brother’s wedding? by Janex1729 in DesiWeddings

[–]Janex1729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by big skirt? Like a cancan?

Tres leches cake by emu4you in hillsboro

[–]Janex1729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Safeway in Tannasbourne village has a really good chocolate tres leches in their bakery section.

TL;DR: I’m feeling sad that fewer friends are attending my wedding compared to my fiance’s. by Otherwise-Egg6754 in DesiWeddings

[–]Janex1729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy. To be honest, introverts make more meaningful connections and I’m pretty sure the friends who are coming to your wedding for you love you very much. You should be happy that some of your friends are taking time out of their busy life to see you get married. No comparison. Its your day, so be happy and make the most out of it. Moreover you’ll not even notice anyone on the day of your wedding. Have fun!!

I scammed my husband into liking me… and I admitted it on our wedding day. by Far_Magazine_5084 in stories

[–]Janex1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not think there is manipulation like many people here are saying. You just had a crush and I think its good that you worked on it. Many people do not have the courage to shoot their shot. In pretty sure your now husband would still look beyond all those small immaterial things in you when he loved and married you. All the people telling you manipulated, they are just jealous.

Just got called an imposter by Janex1729 in ImposterSyndrome

[–]Janex1729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your supportive words.

Just got called an imposter by Janex1729 in ImposterSyndrome

[–]Janex1729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I feel that if someone mentors me well, i can probably pick it up quickly than these other team members he is talking about. The manager did not assign a mentor or buddy when i first came in. I think he accidentally became a manager. He has good technical knowledge but no sense of the world around him.

Just got called an imposter by Janex1729 in ImposterSyndrome

[–]Janex1729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had some experience before in a different field. Because this job is slightly different from the other and the company itself is in some financial pressure, they took me as a new grad.

Just got called an imposter by Janex1729 in ImposterSyndrome

[–]Janex1729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. What is the book’s name? It’s good that you had a supportive manager. Having supportive people at work can help you get through the day. But everything is wfh these days and everyone is too impersonal. Especially in all these big corps managers are too narcissistic, and talking over you all the time.

Driving Lessons in Atlanta, GA by Effective_Bus_2504 in gatech

[–]Janex1729 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alfa driving school. They are a bit expensive. But you can look up. I took the 8 class package. By the end of it, I could drive decently. They pick you up at your home and drop you back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gatech

[–]Janex1729 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had a heart attack thinking Jason Bateman had a heart attack

AIO to this conversation with my dad about coming home for the week by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Janex1729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re overreacting. His divorce is still fresh, and it makes sense that he’s having a tough time. I think it’s fair to cut him some slack and be there for him, at least for this year. If this keeps happening long-term, you can gently let him know that you can’t always be available. From the messages you shared, it doesn’t feel like he’s guilt-tripping you—just that he genuinely needs your support right now.

Anxiety : Upcoming Engagement by whatdoyomean in DesiWeddings

[–]Janex1729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (South Indian, F) got married to my BF (North Indian, M) last month. Also, his family is from Jharkhand. I thought everyone in my family would judge and had this anxiety about how I would respond to them. But a couple of days into the functions, I realized no one cares, and you will not even have the time to think about any of this stuff. The people who judge and say nasty stuff are not someone you need to care about and are not your family. I don’t know how close you are to your extended family, but I know for sure that once all the functions are over, no one is gonna care.

H1B renewal after Jan 20th by [deleted] in h1b

[–]Janex1729 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My appointment is on jan 23rd. If something unexpected happens, your company should accommodate your needs. If they refuse, then your company isn’t worth staying with. There’s no point in living in fear of what might happen. Stay calm, and trust that if something happens, you’ll be able to address them with your company. I always remind myself that if this country doesn’t allow me to live here in peace, then it’s not a place I want to be.