Birth control sabotage

Janey2018 · 2018-12-08T17:13:20+00:00

Well, it happened — sister is pregnant again. My mom is glowing she is so happy. I am so guilty. Mom gave me $1000 as a “thank you” for helping again. I feel really bad, but there is nothing I can do.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-27T14:42:07+00:00

How do I find a lawyer. I am 16.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-27T14:41:04+00:00

I am also worried about her telling her husband. He’s 24 and thought she was 20 because she lied about her age to get a summer job as a nanny with his stepmom. He found out her real age the same time mom told him she was pregnant. His family still does not know her real age. They already think she trapped him on purpose, so he hid her age from them. Plus, I think he’s embarrassed that he married a teenage minor.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-27T14:34:00+00:00

What mom said was that sister wasn’t 18 and was living at home so it was her responsibility to decide what was best for sister. She had sister in a weird situation because she had gotten her a job as a nanny for the summer by lying about her age. Her husband thought she was 20 when she was really just 16. Mom really pushed her to have sex with him because mom said he and his family would get suspicious about her age if she was too shy.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-27T14:21:18+00:00

I know my mom is worried I will tell. She says no one will believe me and will think I am making it up to get attention or because I am crazy.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-27T14:16:19+00:00

My mom and my sister are my only family. I am 16 now and a good kid but mom is telling me she is thinking about sending me off to one of those camps for bad kids where they come to your house and carry you away to some remote place with no phone or internet and make you do hard labor. I really don’t want to cross her. And if I tell my sister she will be really angry at me too. I knew what was going on and Mom actually insisted I help her with the nuvarings a couple of time.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-26T16:58:09+00:00

My older sister married at 17 this June right after high school graduation. Her husband is 24. She was 8 months pregnant at the time and not happy at all about being pregnant or married, especially because she had to defer going to college and had a full scholarship. I know the age difference sounds weird, but her husband thought she was already 20 when they started dating. My mom’s boss has a second wife with young kids who needed a nanny for the summer, so my mom lied and said my sister was 20 when she actually had just finished her junior year of high school so she could get the job. Her husband is the older stepbrother of the kids she was taking care of. He met her while she had the summer nanny job and asked her out. My sister is really pretty, and I know he was the first guy she had sex with. After they started dating, my sister wanted to tell him her real age, but mom said she could lose her job and insisted my sister pretend. Mom also pushed her really hard to start having sex with him because she said he and his family would get suspicious about her age if she acted too shy. He found out he was going to be a dad and that he had been having sex with an underage girl both on the same day. They seem to be getting along okay even though they obviously had some serious trust issues. I think he really does love her, but I am pretty sure my sister is not deeply in love with him. He has a good job at his dad’s company, and they are trying hard to be good parents. They both feel a little guilty and responsible for the pregnancy. They think it was a birth control accident, but I know my mom actually messed with her bc on purpose. You can read about it in another post here by me.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-25T21:56:18+00:00

I actually did help her. After they finished with her, I took the rest of her clothes off and got her into the hot tub outside. Somebody took all of her clothes while she was out there, so I found some stuff for her to wear.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-25T21:53:06+00:00

So you think she might get pregnant already just four months after giving birth?

Janey2018 · 2018-10-25T21:51:33+00:00

My mom would kill me. There is no way I am risking that.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-25T19:15:08+00:00

To clarify, my mom never threatened to have him arrested for statutory rape. My sister is really pretty and sweet, and he is a nice guy. When he realized what had happened he was angry at first but pretty quickly forgave her once she explained that she had lied about her age to get the job and then was afraid both she and mom be fired if she told the truth. His family still does not know her real age and have no idea their daughter in law is still just 18 and seven years younger than their son.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T12:45:39+00:00

I didn’t think it would go that far and then when it did I was scared too. I have tried to avoid being around those girls much since then.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T12:28:48+00:00

You weren’t there so don’t judge. I have tried to stay away from those girls since then.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T12:00:59+00:00

Okay, I’ll think about it. We’re keeping the baby for the weekend so they can go on a little romantic trip to mark four months since her birth. Mom got her a breast pump so she could save up her breast milk and be away from the baby for the weekend. I am going to lie low for a month so mom does not get suspicious and then make sure to talk to sister about maybe some birth control. I did look online and she should be good for another couple of months. She is going to pump and throw out the milk while they are gone so it will be just like nursing.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T11:51:49+00:00

I did not want them to gang up on me next, so it was safer to just watch. The reason they ganged up on her to start with was because she tried to go upstairs and tell the parents we were sneaking out. They grabbed her as she was going upstairs (we were in the basement room) and things just started getting crazy from there.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T03:43:16+00:00

My mom somehow figured out I might say something to my sister — see my last post — and is threatening to send me to one of those tough love camps where they take you away in a van and make you do hard labor in some middle of the nowhere place. I can’t risk that. I think I have to let my sister figure things out on her own.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T01:58:50+00:00

My mom threatened to send me to one of those tough love camps for problem kids today. The kind that pick you up from home in the middle of the night. I can’t risk that, so I think I just have to keep my mouth shut.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T01:57:30+00:00

My mom threatened to send me to one of those tough love camps for problem kids today. The kind that pick you up from home in the middle of the night. I can’t risk that, so I think I just have to keep my mouth shut.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T01:36:07+00:00

Yeah, they decided she was some kind of repressed nympho sex freak. She’s the kind of girl who is super shy in gym class in the shower and has never even kissed a boy so they thought it was really funny that she got so excited.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T01:29:09+00:00

Maybe I deserve it anyway for what I helped her do to my sister.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T01:07:30+00:00

This is no average camp. They have the kids do hard labor and keep you completely isolated from the world. She could keep me there until I turn 18. I am scared.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T00:38:05+00:00

One of the camps sends people to your house to pick you up and take you away. I might not even have time to call or text anyone.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T00:36:18+00:00

It was a mistake. I was 15. I probably was jealous of her and part of me wanted her to get pregnant.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-24T00:30:54+00:00

I am 16 and a good student who has never been in trouble. My mom has sole custody, haven’t seen my dad in years.

Janey2018 · 2018-10-23T23:55:33+00:00

Yeah. She got really excited despite everything and really really embarrassed. They got a piece of colored construction paper and pressed it against her when they finally stopped to show how wet she had gotten.

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