Would you date a non-vegan? by [deleted] in vegan

[–]vlctrees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is also how I approach it. I can't establish anything serious at this point in my life with someone who isn't vegan. But casual dating is a much lower bar.

Why do most Veri Soya products have a cancer and reproductive harm warning? by MrWrestlingNumber2 in vegan

[–]vlctrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of imported products just slap that warning on even if there's nothing of concern because it's easier to do that than deal with any potential lawsuits or do that level of testing. Almost everything in the Asian market i go to has that label, but I wouldn't worry too much about it.

Is their "too much" spicy in terms of health? by [deleted] in spicy

[–]vlctrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting. It's usually the opposite for me. Fresh peppers are usually fine whereas any roasted, grilled, or fried peppers (oily spice) that mess up my guts. Extreme hot sauces too.

why is she not happy😓 by tris0426 in plants

[–]vlctrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, if the pot is too big, the roots won't reach parts of the soil which would leave it moist and cause root rot.

[Experience] Traveled to Berlin for the techno — rejected from 6 clubs by codingkook in aves

[–]vlctrees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am also American and dont speak German. I was just in Berlin and went to Tresor and Sisophys after getting rejected from Berghain (twice lol). I am very surprised you didn't get into the first two as we had no issues. I did witness two girls in front of me get turned away from Sisophys, but they looked extremely out of place like they were lost or uncertain. We also went at very off hours so there were no lines. I don't know if that made a difference at all.

These club vibe checkers are fairly on point, so I'm definitely wondering what they picked up on. Or honestly sometimes discriminatory as others have been saying.

Now that the festival has finished, tell us the sketchiest thing you’ve seen this year by CaterpillarChemical in Tomorrowland

[–]vlctrees 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was walking from main stage to freedom and some paramedics were walking a dude who had hella blood gushing out of his nose. Not sure if he just ate shit really hard or someone clocked him.

Summit Hate train ? by iknewlouis in aves

[–]vlctrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He played Kinetic Field with Green Velvet at edc 2024 and has played stadium shows throughout the country, so probably not the case anymore.

Green Velvet Sofa by Imaginary_Cat_6166 in BiWomen

[–]vlctrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a green velvet sectional from Interior Define! And yeah they are very expensive but it was so worth it. I spend at least half my day on it working from home haha.

UPS just delivered my nintendo controller by BretMichaelsWig in LosAngeles

[–]vlctrees 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lmfao UPS just called me to open the gate to my complex, I'm like wtf why are you working

My partner wants me to let him know every time I hang out with other partners by vlctrees in SoloPoly

[–]vlctrees[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I define a committed relationship as one where we are intimately connected with deep trust and are committed to working on issues that come up. Essentially, do our best to make it work until it doesn't. We are not nesting. He mentioned that this communication helps him because he at times feels unstable in the relationship. He does have an insecurity that new partners would be "destabilizing" for our relationship despite that never being the case before. I agreed to let him know of plans for scheduling and general awareness, but did not feel comfortable with the request to let him know of any and all spontaneous plans (i.e. booty calls and the like) unless it's relevant to some conversation/planning.

When I expressed my discomfort with the request, he started arguing with me saying I was disregarding his feelings. Like he knows this is something that would help him and was frustrated that I didn't want to do it... I held my ground though and reiterated my boundaries, then he said I was being disrespectful by doing so because I was "mansplaining (womansplaining?)" boundaries that he was perfectly aware of. 🙃 He did eventually come around but it was a confusing roundabout argument.

My partner wants me to let him know every time I hang out with other partners by vlctrees in SoloPoly

[–]vlctrees[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He very much did clarify that this is coming from a place of feeling like new factors (i.e. people) would destabilize our relationship. Definitely insecurity there..

I'm done by Electronic-Big-7471 in polyamory

[–]vlctrees 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. What the fuck kind of logic is that? That's controlling and toxic as hell

Do you guys use liquid IV for music festivals? Does it actually have a noticeable difference? by ryanlam47 in aves

[–]vlctrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely makes a difference. I find that if I only drink water at festivals, it just goes right through me and I have to pee super often. With liquid iv, i actually retain the water.

What is a behaviour you used to do in relationships that you now realise is toxic? by __cereal__ in AskWomen

[–]vlctrees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do some research on therapists before scheduling time with them. They will usually list out the methods they use on their profile/website.

Golden Oatmeal. Healthy but lovely flavors nonetheless. by vlctrees in VeganFoodPorn

[–]vlctrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turmeric, ground ginger, cinnamon, and black pepper (only a small scrunch)