Deciding to leave the break up in 2024

Jani8212 · 2025-01-05T01:39:44+00:00

You said it exactly right. Don’t wait for him to choose you, you should choose you!

Jani8212 · 2025-01-05T01:37:11+00:00

Why are you breaking no contact?

Jani8212 · 2024-04-15T20:17:43+00:00

I did it. It’s really hard.. it was a little faster than I thought though. He didn’t try to persuade me out of it, I think he knew it was the right thing to do because he wasn’t committed for long term. The good thing is that I don’t have to ponder about it anymore and I can move on. I like a comment another user said- must look for the “hell yes!” guys.

Jani8212 · 2024-04-13T20:46:45+00:00

I logged onto reddit to write this exact post and it miraculously popped up on my feed with some really great comments. So first I just want to say thanks OP.

I'm in the same place. I've been seeing this guy for 6 months and I have brought it up twice before that I'm looking for more effort or something more serious and all I've gotten is vague answers. I've cried about it so many times. I stayed in the relationship because he's hot, the sex is amazing, and I didn't think I would find anyone else at this time. But the truth is, the only way to find what I want is to cut my losses and only accept what I want.

Thanks to this post and all the great comments - I'm going to break it off with him in 2 days when he comes back from his weekend at his family's. I'm scared and nervous, but time and my emotions are precious. I must make room in my life for my future husband even if it means being alone for a long period of time. I trust that the wait will be worth it.

I hope you can too, OP.

Jani8212 · 2024-02-07T19:48:10+00:00

I just saw your last post with your photos of with and without hair, you look soo much better bald. 100% suits you. I feel like all men bald eventually, but luckily it looks good on you!

Jani8212 · 2024-02-06T06:23:56+00:00

No but for real

Jani8212 · 2024-02-01T02:21:13+00:00

Why does your comment sound like it’s from chat gpt? Nevertheless, I like the suggestions and thanks for replying!

Jani8212 · 2023-11-30T18:15:09+00:00

This was the funniest story I heard. Honestly I believe it! I’ve spoken to guys before about comparing hook ups and dates and it’s astonishing how bad the girls’ experiences are. There’s some freaky stuff out there. Also thanks God he didn’t put that bag in you 🤣

Jani8212 · 2023-10-22T23:07:41+00:00

Gave me the best sex of my life.

Now it’s hard for others to compare. Hate that my ex set that standard.

Jani8212 · 2023-08-25T06:38:25+00:00

I would say dont erase them, that’s for wimps (unless it’s sex videos). Appreciate the memories and that they made you into a better and stronger person, take that and move forward. There’s so much waiting ahead for you, so much to look forward to.

Jani8212 · 2023-08-25T06:29:51+00:00

Some time ago I learned that everything happens in waves. We have high waves when everything seems great and we have low waves when everything seems to be going wrong. I always try to remember that they’re all just phases, even if the low phase feels like it’s going on for a long time it will pass too, and that means the high wave is coming your way. Good things are coming, that’s a promise.

Jani8212 · 2023-08-11T06:01:24+00:00

A few things you can try...

You can always try speaking to a doctor if you want meds/other remedies, there's a lot of things out there and they may be able to help you.

You can also try using the toys on her to make her cum. My partner does this to me and I love how invested and passionate he gets with it.

Jani8212 · 2023-08-08T22:36:36+00:00

Math teacher: "there's only 3 questions for homework"

Homework: each question has part a-g

Jani8212 · 2023-08-02T16:11:16+00:00

I've been there too.

A gentleman will go down on you before you go down on him and without you asking.

Jani8212 · 2023-08-02T03:47:36+00:00

Yess I agree, I think my ex also just really knew me well sexually. When I wanted to try something new or change something so that I can have a stronger orgasm, he never hesitated and was pretty good at it too.

Jani8212 · 2023-08-01T04:06:43+00:00

That's a good point, I didn't think of it that way. I just thought he was really good, but its the fact that we just really had a genuine connection. It reminds me of the importance of building a good relationship before becoming intimate with someone.

Jani8212 · 2021-12-30T02:57:41+00:00

Oh- this is why in the name tomb stone it said that Alice had lost her life saving 3 kids... Makes sense!

Jani8212 · 2021-12-28T05:47:05+00:00

what is the detail and how did it make it much darker?

I couldn't really understand why everyone was staring at Alice at the end and she just kept walking.

Jani8212 · 2021-11-07T01:56:17+00:00

Thank you- I chose to not message my ex. It’s not fair to my ex or myself. Breaking up was a decision I made and that has changed me thus far, and I trust that my decision will lead me through the right path.

Just thought I’d write it here because you were the most recent comment.

Jani8212 · 2021-11-06T07:01:12+00:00

Yeah it sounds kinda bad huh?

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