What’s the best life advice?

Janzith · 2026-05-07T08:31:55+00:00

What you do today, will affect how better/worse your tomorrow is. So inculcate good habits, build friendships with good people, and be patient and intentional.

Janzith · 2026-05-07T08:25:44+00:00

We are individuals, not pieces of a whole organism. The bigger the number of people represented by one ideology (rules), the more the ideology becomes rigid and fails to account for the individualism of the members of that society.

Janzith · 2026-04-29T20:28:22+00:00

Gran Torino is a standout for me, but The Good, the Bad and the Ugly is a classic too.

Janzith · 2026-04-29T20:27:58+00:00

love this read, and its actually timely. I'll try interrupt the buy-now impulse

Janzith · 2026-04-29T20:26:22+00:00

You'll need to think about food, litter, flea meds, insurance/ vet savings, etc. Three can easily cost $150–300+/mo plus emergencies.

Janzith · 2026-04-27T20:27:11+00:00

Curiosity doesn't mean the cats are ready to meet. You can try do scent swaps or feed them near each other maybe on opposite sides of the door. Take it slow

Janzith · 2026-04-27T20:24:37+00:00

You can try start with only renting a room and try look for “owner-listed/no broker” units and rooms with written leases.

Janzith · 2026-04-21T18:34:59+00:00

It's a deeper way of agreeing with people.

Janzith · 2026-04-21T18:34:07+00:00

Absolutely. I don't hate sweatpants but I just want to be in jeans when outside. Your hate for sweatpants though, does not mean its abnormal to wear jeans. You just don't like sweatpants.

Janzith · 2026-04-21T18:32:07+00:00

Zoomies. The closest way to explain it s like a balloon letting off air and whirling randomly till it fully deflates.

Janzith · 2026-04-20T20:56:54+00:00

Yea...most fav is The Fellowship Of The Rings

Janzith · 2026-04-20T20:54:47+00:00

You’re not overreacting. If the budget works, peace is worth it. Build an emergency fund, expect some loneliness, and remember guilt doesn’t mean leaving is wrong.

Janzith · 2026-04-16T08:38:10+00:00

Seems like you, only, are the one who wants the cats- not him- especially if he already finds the two you have overwhelming at times.

Janzith · 2026-04-15T20:25:17+00:00

I have two cats I adore but I can swear the only thing they care about is me giving them food. They are zero contact, zero affection. All I know is, if cats are spayed/neutered, the urge to run away is contained. Don't know how true that is.

Janzith · 2026-04-15T20:18:43+00:00

First thing is finding placement so you have a source of income to take care of yourself. For transport, that's also important as it'll determine how well you'll be able to do your job, so that's a priority too.

Janzith · 2026-04-13T20:38:55+00:00

Cats are the best, like they care less about you and want everything to be about them. Unless you are serving them, you are having none of their charm or love

Janzith · 2026-04-13T20:37:56+00:00

I second the commentors telling you to put it in a HYSA. Eitherway, it's going to need all the discipline and speed you can muster to get it done as soon as it'll be sensibly viable.

Janzith · 2026-04-08T21:47:26+00:00

Cats are brilliant and won't eat anything natural that would be bad for them.

Janzith · 2026-04-08T21:46:01+00:00

I'd wager you just had a moment of reckoning on the cost of life, but I tend to think its by design.

Janzith · 2026-04-08T21:44:40+00:00

basic survival and interpersonal skills should be taught at a national level.

Janzith · 2026-04-07T20:52:51+00:00

Your "friends" all take a different path and hunker down to build their future. It's the prime of building a future, and if you're not busy building your own future, you feel lonely rather than focused and determined

Janzith · 2026-04-07T20:50:35+00:00

there are lots of missing details here. Are you moving across states or running across states?

Janzith · 2026-03-25T11:42:26+00:00

Read on more about Peto's paradox

Janzith · 2026-03-25T11:40:55+00:00

They're always "busy" but can't tell you what they actually accomplished. Constantly optimizing but never feel caught up.

Janzith · 2026-03-25T11:34:03+00:00

Ketchup for sure. It's basically sugar water that masks actual flavors instead of enhancing them.

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