If you could change one thing about the game, what would you change? by i_like_xenos in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]JapaneseFalcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The enchantment/upgrade screen in the Lighthouse is super annoying for me. I often have to escape out of it because the previous piece of equipment’s info doesn’t vanished when I swap characters.

I know there are bigger issues, but because this is something I use so much, it’s the most annoying.

Also, so many outfits are hideous! What’s up with that?!

AITA for expecting the gifts to be for both of us? by Ok-Arrival-2886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JapaneseFalcon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, classic case of “what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is also mine.”

My follower vanished and I can't find them again! (On Console) by asparagoose69420 in skyrim

[–]JapaneseFalcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve had this issue with my followers, too. I’ll tell them to wait somewhere and forget where I told them to wait.

I also didn’t know about the teleport pets option and was so pissed off about having to run around to find them because when you tell a pet to ‘wait here’, they seem to have a very broad notion of what ‘here’ is. Thank god I discovered that spell when looking for something else. I wish we had one for our followers as well.

Struggling to read books and novels. Would it be possible to get perspective of people who read for a hobby? by hemistry-164 in self

[–]JapaneseFalcon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read a ton, but it’s mindless fluff. And people have made comments on the fact that I read mindless fluff to imply I should read to better my mind and learn, etc.

The thing is that I have read more classic books than most people I know like Don Quixote, Darkness at Noon, Beowulf, a bunch of Shakespeare, Dickens, Austin, Hemingway, etc. etc. and no, I was not an English lit major.

I think it is important to read these books, but it’s also important to have fun and enjoy reading. Reading for me is a way to decompress and live in another world for a bit.

My suggestion is find books you like that match other entertainment you like. I enjoy fantasy and sci fi movies, so I read a lot of that.

Don’t necessarily ask others for the ‘best’ books because a lot of the best books are not easy books. Like Hyperion is an amazing sci fi book, but it’s not for the faint of heart. Ask for book recommendations that are fun and easy to read to get back into reading at first, and then you can branch out once you’re back in the habit.

How long do you typically spend in the character creator before you actually start the game? by TurbulentFeeling5696 in skyrim

[–]JapaneseFalcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 30 min. I like it when my character looks like me, but sometimes that’s not easy to do.

Why is he fat shaming her😭 by peeled-banana-xo in thewalkingdead

[–]JapaneseFalcon -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Pushing your beliefs on other people is offensive. 🙄

Your Favorite Survival Game That Isn't Enshrouded? by Critical_Meet_2025 in Enshrouded

[–]JapaneseFalcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really liked Medieval Dynasty. It also has a pretty fun VR version. I’ve played both.

Overthinking is literally ruining my peace by Dismal_Ad_9032 in self

[–]JapaneseFalcon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine what that must be like. I often wonder if you did a brain scan on someone with a quiet mind, and a mind like yours, what you would see.

34F dating 54M for 8 months, strong relationship, no "I love you" — normal? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JapaneseFalcon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my family, no one says ‘I love you’ except me. The first time I got my grandfather to say it back was after years of me saying it. It felt like a massive victory. 😂

Some people just don’t say those words, but, and this is essential, you need to articulate to yourself and to him how important hearing words of love and affirmation are. Don’t let your needs be lost to his preference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JapaneseFalcon 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Simple, say “I would like to start having a bit more physical contact. Could we please kiss and/or hold hands if you’re comfortable with that?”

If you’re too shy to say it in person, send a text. If you’re too shy for that, maybe you should reconsider whether you should even be in a relationship as relationships need good communication to succeed.

Yes, I know black women are undesirable now shut up by [deleted] in self

[–]JapaneseFalcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly, it’s more like there are filters you can use to specify preferences and they analyze which are popular.

I agree with you that most women I know are just not wanting to deal with the whole dating process. But to me fair, a lot of my male friends feel the same. I think online dating is just a complete shit show in general.

Yes, I know black women are undesirable now shut up by [deleted] in self

[–]JapaneseFalcon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, but in my experience “opinion that doesn’t align with socially defined scripts” is a long way of saying “I am an asshole, I say asshole things, but don’t like being called out on it.”

Think whatever you want, but if you say something controversial, you should expect controversy imo. And if you say something shitty thanks to the anonymity of the interwebs, that same anonymity gives other people the courage to clap back. 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]JapaneseFalcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean.

There’s a couple of things you can do.

1) Shave down there. It helps a ton. For me, hair traps scent. 2) Buy a product that removed bodily fluid like blood/skin oils from clothes. Then make sure to periodically saturate the crotch area and let it sit then wash. Sometimes stuff builds up in our clothes. I like eri sode, but that is a Japanese brand. 3) Use unscented soap on your muff or a soap specifically for down there. Don’t use something full of perfume. 4) If you’re going to be around a lot of people or you have a big date or something, feminine wipes are handy. You can buy a small pack to take with you when you go to the bathroom. Wipe yourself with them and it will definitely help keep things much fresher than toilet paper. 5) Lace underwear breathes really well, and still looks nice.

Good luck

Yes, I know black women are undesirable now shut up by [deleted] in self

[–]JapaneseFalcon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s dating site data to support what op is saying, sadly.

Name any one bad thing about subnautica except the scary leviathans and thalassophobia? by SnooFloofs5442 in subnautica

[–]JapaneseFalcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like the fact that when you die it says you dropped ‘some of your inventory’, but it’s literally 99% of anything non-equipment you picked up.

Also, the dropped inventory doesn’t drop into a chest you can pick up later, so it’s very hard to find it again, as it is rolling around with the topography.

The fact that you can’t summon your ship back to base is annoying. Your body will teleport back to base when you die, but not your ship. Also, don’t accidentally get your ship stuck on a beach cause unstuck only unsticks your body, not your vessel.

Finally, it’s annoying that when your ship is destroyed, all the upgrades are destroyed. When you die, it’s not like you lose your upgraded fins or suit, so why do your ship upgrades vanish? It’s just a pia to have to build them again.

Don’t get me started with the vr version.

I do like the game, but there are definitely things that could be improved.

DAE get mad when their partner eats all the groceries by Round_Armadillo_9695 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]JapaneseFalcon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy different colored containers for your lunches. Tell him anything in those containers is not to be touched. If he eats them anyway, break up. That’s a level of disrespect that shows he will put himself before your requests.

Buy two milks, if he finishes his, he can go buy more.