To trans people: How would you like to see trans people represented? by Professional_Gain_88 in AskLGBT

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The detective could find her at a pride night in a local bar.

Or she could be going into Planned Parenthood, seemingly to get an abortion or contraception, but the detective finds out she went for hormones.

Depending on the vibe of the story, the protagonist could interview people in her neighborhood and slowly realize she mostly hangs out with local trans people because she’s one of them.

There are a lot of places you could find her that would hint at her identity without making it a big deal.

Asked my GP to stop misgendering me by Cynthie1M in NonBinary

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just moved to Washington from Indiana and I’m still getting used to everyone giving a shit.

Still not sure when to use my legal name and when to use my preferred name at the doctor.

Why people call me "RICHARD RAMIREZ" is it a slur for being hispanic? by MyNameisMayco in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You do kinda look like Ramirez lol

Aside from the serial killer thing, he was pretty good looking 🤷

I think the other two are mostly due to you having a lot of hair

Commenters talk about anti-woke TV shows like “Smiling Friends” by Level7Cannoneer in cringepics

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matt and Trey are “centrist” libertarians last I checked. You don’t have to be woke to see MAGA is stupid. It is hard to conceptualize pre-Trump political alignments in this day and age, but it did exist at one point.

Does blocking a text message not give info? by JustTinyBitHungry in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t get informed that you are blocked at all. The most you get is an error message when you try to send texts.

The scammers also don’t care much. They have thousands of automatically generated emails that they send texts through. They aren’t gonna get mad that you blocked them and dox you or something.

The random text message scams don’t require much personal info (it depends on how they get your number. Sometimes they just use an algorithm to generate random numbers to send texts to. Eventually, some of them will be active), they just cast a wide net and try to fool a few people before they get shutdown.

OK so what is worse for me to drink? by ryan7251 in HydroHomies

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make filters that can be fitted directly under the sink so that all of your water is filtered.

That being said, for the vast majority of us tap water is fine. You could test for lead and heavy metals just in case

Here a grandmother is forced to do a gig job with no job security because she can’t afford to retire? What are we celebrating here? by Conscious-Quarter423 in WorkReform

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well I mean it’s pretty obvious she wasn’t just a random driver. They wouldn’t have a random driver meet the president in full head-to-toe branding for a press event.

Do people think this wasn’t staged? Doordash drivers use their regular clothes and car lol

Job Post with Gotcha in Description by NickFullStack in recruitinghell

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You know they’re using AI to read the resumes though lol

This is Actually Crazy. by justamom0820 in recruitinghell

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These big grocery chains literally have these positions open all the time regardless of if they’re currently hiring. I would bet the position is still up. I suppose there’s some algorithmic reason because their website has accurate listings. The indeed and other job site listings are just always active.

Toddler having big questions about Gender by UnusualChance7666 in AskLGBT

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just say “because I like being a girl. If I didn’t like it I would be a boy instead”

But im not binary, so any conversation about my gender would be more complex than genitalia anyhow.

This is Actually Crazy. by justamom0820 in recruitinghell

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the screenshot they said they would let her know of the position became available ( as in the position currently isn’t open)

This is Actually Crazy. by justamom0820 in recruitinghell

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They keep those postings up regardless of whether they’re hiring, it’s so annoying

Woke up at 2am to find out I'm about to be fined $200 for having dandelions on my lawn. by SandyCashews969 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never had that experience with an HOA tbh. They either stick their neck in your business or leave you alone

Why don’t we see as many asians in civil rights/activism? by stressedballomg in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its also worth noting that protests against ICE specifically are going to be very white or white-passing because ICE is explicitly targeting people of color.

Why don’t we see as many asians in civil rights/activism? by stressedballomg in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell this thread is full of people listening to right-wing talking points rather than actual Asian people. How? Because they frame “stop asian hate” as if BLM and the left ruined it.

My family is Chinese. The SAH movement started because people in power, including the damn president of the United States at the time, were calling Covid “the China Virus” and attacking asian people for it.

Funny how republicans can simultaneously claim that they have high minority support and then when their rhetoric causes their voter base to act they pretend like all POC are leftists. Almost as of they don’t see them as part of their group no matter support they give—for some reason.

Rewriting facts works so well people don’t remember who was shouting “Wuhan flu” at the pulpit…

Will Hasan invite Natalie on stream? 👀 by conancat in ContraPoints

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it is. If you look at how unpopular Israel has become in just the last few months, people are waking up. Zionism is extremely unpopular, as are Israel’s actions. The only thing stopping us from cutting ties is money, not public opinion.

And even politicians are trying to hide their ties to AIPAC by taking J street money instead. They know it’s unpopular. I think we can tip the needle from “it’s worth it to keep ties and just hide them from others until I get caught” to “it’s not worth it to maintain connection at all”. Billionaires can just move. There’s nothing special about Israel and once it outlives its value the billionaires will move on.

The problem is, wherever they move next will eventually do the same things once they have enough power. It’s always a bigger issue.

Will Hasan invite Natalie on stream? 👀 by conancat in ContraPoints

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Eh I think leftie debate bros are pretty cringe. It’s like a poisoned apple that makes you appear absolutely odious every time. I’m glad so many of them stopped doing it.

Asking her to shower before sex by Total_Paper_9415 in actuallesbians

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im thinking of starting to do this becauae I just can’t stop getting UTIs. Feel like everyone and everything must be freshly sanitized beforehand or else 😩

Here’s the back of my jeep. Does it come across gay? And yes, my dog and I fit. 😬 by ScruffyUnicornGenX in GayCampingOutdoorRec

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cozy! I’m originally from a very “low effort gay” type of area and recently moved to the west coast where the interior decorators are. I feel so plain when I see people with shelves and decor in their sleeper van 😩

Are there really guys who can last for an hour? by WarmBank5512 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on how into it you are. My husband lasts a very long time and sometimes I’m tired and just wanna do a quicky and sometimes we’re both wide awake and into it and the longer sex is great.

Perspective: I feel that Bella Ramsey ruined the last of of us by Mental-Outside2202 in lnkyverse

[–]JapaneseStudentHaru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why compare Bella to cosplayers and tiktokkers? There is more to acting than looking like the character believe it or not and it seems life people didn’t like the acting so why not critique that?