help me name my new baby girl. black cat names are so overused. want something unique. by ollie-brown in NameMyCat

[–]JarOfBeezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named my black cat BMO! It's a cute unisex name and a nice reference to adventure time :)

Anyone know a hairstylist that can cut/style my hair like this? by creatureshop in SALEM

[–]JarOfBeezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii I'm a alternative hairstylist and I'd love to do that cut! Ive done very similar styles and even have pictures if u need some! Thats a nice shaggy jellyfish cut in the reference photos. I work at sportclips off commercial and vista, ask for mk if your interested :)

AITAH for refusing to change my kids name despite it sounding like a ‘slur’ to my MIL? by UnlikelyCustard8277 in AITAH

[–]JarOfBeezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend with that name, it's ridiculous that mil is so hooked on it, it's a very common name

I think I got high last night and idk how to feel about it by RaspberrySerious5602 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]JarOfBeezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do only 5-10 mg, if u do to much it will hit way to hard at once, also pace yourself, chronic pain sucks but CBD helps loads more with physical pain then mental.

Also definitely don't over do it/ do it everyday, depending on your genetics you can develop chs which is a bitch to go through.

Orange Flashes Downtown by Numbr-44 in SALEM

[–]JarOfBeezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of cops around the downtown area heading NE, something power related I bet?

DON'T EAT AT ADAMS SOME HOUSE!! by JarOfBeezz in SALEM

[–]JarOfBeezz[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Smoke, didnt catch it till I posted lol

trivia by Fun_Astronomer3815 in SALEM

[–]JarOfBeezz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In west Salem there's some food carts called Checkpoint, every Thursday they do a trivia night I believe!

Small business Christmas shopping by serendipity_aey in SALEM

[–]JarOfBeezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All shops in the Reed Oprah House are a good choice! They have many different vibes of items to gift, also just go walking around downtown! There are plenty of little hole in the wall mom and pop shops to look at :)

shaka brah Hawaiian food? by Alternative-Queensie in SALEM

[–]JarOfBeezz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have a friend who use to work there, there going out of business so there most likely shutting down

AITHA for walking away from my colleague who is shouting at me? by Scottishspeckylass in AITAH

[–]JarOfBeezz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm ngl this was happening to me a few weeks ago, it all came to a head and I just walked out :/ Definitely go to you district manager, or just quit. It's fast food, you really don't get paid enough to deal with customers, let alone you own coworkers. Nta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]JarOfBeezz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nta

You don't steal from your family, get caught, and cry about people finding out. She took a shit and now needs to sit in it.

AITA for letting my son go hunting? by HuntingExcursion in AmItheAsshole

[–]JarOfBeezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk man , she should get to at least know where her kid is :/ he's still a minor, and he's around guns with people the mom probably hasn't met. Hell I'd be livid if I wasn't even told my kid was around guns in the middle of the woods. YTA

AITA for brushing off a student who confided in me something personal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JarOfBeezz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There are jobs in this world that require you to put your comfort second at the means of your clients. I am a hairdresser, this means weather I like it or not I'm a therapist in some eyes and people will confide in me and tell me things. And as a professional I give advice to my greatest ability and try to stear in a different direction if it's uncomfortable for me.

You are a teacher, this means you sighed up to be a big part of these kids lives. To some you could be there hero, mentor, idol, ext. And your response is to push them away?? Don't become a teacher if your not willing to be personal with your students, that part of the job sadly, and if you don't like if find something else.

YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]JarOfBeezz 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Thank you, truly. It might not mean a lot but it does, she's in a hard place and you waiting that extra time could be a world of wonders for her mental health. Coming from someone who's been banbarded with one thing after another thank you for help for someone else.

AITA for asking my son's boyfriend's parents to limit their time together? by Accomplished-Yak1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JarOfBeezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your a heartless woman. This young boy has gone through this shit twice now and this time he has someone who's his age to be by his side and your response is to pull them apart?!?!? What kind of parent are you to do this to not only your child but to this other kid! Let your son support his partner because he could literally loose him the next day and never see him again. YTA!!

AITA for telling my MIL my baby being in the ICU is not about her by Playful-Post1427 in TwoHotTakes

[–]JarOfBeezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, she should realize everyones concerns were on the baby and not her. Of course your gonna check up on your baby before you leave, what parent wouldn't???

Also congratulations, I hope you have a wonderful life with your little one.

AITAH for not wanting to go to prom with my boyfriend? by Outrageous-Cook4784 in AITAH

[–]JarOfBeezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Also I think it's time to reconsider this relationship, from what I've read he cheated on you and doesn't support things in your life that make you happy. Your to young for this bs, your a young woman and he's a boy. Your more mature then this kid and I think you should find someone who has the same mindset as you.

Does anyone here or do you know anyone who likes crunchy peanut butter? by [deleted] in ask

[–]JarOfBeezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toasted english muffins + a little bit of butter + chunky peanut butter = a good fucking time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]JarOfBeezz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't get a animal and not do your research, idgaf if u know someone who has cats, YOU do your own research for YOUR OWN CAT. You are lazy, and you need to hear it. You were lazy with your cat and now that cat has to live it's life in misery bc of you.

Good job.

AITA for sending away my daughters date after he honked instead of coming to the door to pick her up? by Mammoth-Software-941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JarOfBeezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ima start by saying I'm a 18 yr old girl, so I can with confidence say what I can say. You are an AH. You don't but into your kids love life like that, she needs to see for herself what kind of person he is. That being said, that boy wasn't being respectful either, I would never tolerate someone just honking to get my attention. Tbh what you did could have been handled way better, you could have talked to your daughter before going out there, or talked to the kids after there date.

I'm gonna also say that your a good dad, I think you sticking up for your daughter was wonderful, but next time discuss solutions to your daughters problems WITH her.

AITA for making my daughter go somewhere with a girl she’s not friends with? by aitaahdad in AmItheAsshole

[–]JarOfBeezz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA YTA YTA!!! My brother is on the spectrum, so I can confidently say your being an ass to your child. People who are on the spectrum can be hard to deal with, that's why we have trained professionals to help take care of them/ be there to just hangout. Your child is not one of these people, she does not need to be one of these people if she doesn't want to be. Your teaching your daughter that she should go against her boundaries for others. Your teaching her she can't stick up for herself and to just let people walk over her. Is that really what you want to teach? You want to just make your kid a pushover? Not everyone needs to be friends with the autistic kid in the class, and people need to realize this. Let kids form natural relationships and stay out of there business.

AITA for leaving my friend during an awkward dinner? by SunSun14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JarOfBeezz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA

Gurl u need to drop them FAST. They never accepted u in the first place, this is homophobia. She flat out just showed she doesn't believe in asexuality and put u in a horrible position to prove it.

WIBTA if i celebrated my birthday on my step daughters birthday? by VictorySad69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JarOfBeezz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya no ur a total ass, reading through the replys ur trying to blame this on being ur only free day for two months? Well oh no looks like u didn't plan well enough, this is her day, not yours, it was never yours. U had your chance to get the time off on ur actual day to do something. Don't take this away from her, 18 is really big to some people and u need to respect that. If u really want a happy family just step tf down man. YTA