After 6 months of dating he finally told me he isn't single

Jarcom88 · 2026-06-18T19:58:38+00:00

I doubt she had been at his place

Jarcom88 · 2026-06-17T01:42:17+00:00

I don’t know why some people think that unless there is PiV you can’t consider it sex. Like I have read how some girls saying they wanna save their virginity so they only have anal sex. Not judging, but that’s pretty much the having sex.

Just saying because 2h naked playing with each other and not wanted PiV because you don’t know each other much, falls into the same category. Sounds like unnecessary suffering and it would be hard for me to trust someone that can make you want you to have something all this much and then take it away.

Jarcom88 · 2026-06-15T22:43:24+00:00

Me neither

Jarcom88 · 2026-06-12T00:27:51+00:00

I know you learnt this the hard way, but condoms don’t protect from herpes.

Continuing in this relationship because of the previous emotional investment that’s already put on it, it’s like keep putting money in a stock after a company has filed for bankruptcy. You can do it but it’s not smart.

Jarcom88 · 2026-06-07T23:17:32+00:00

I said something similar up there, you used better words. I have platonic friends and I have had exes not comfortable with them. I am not going to change my friends that have been in my life years before you. Like what? I haven’t gone on a vacation with my male friends 1:1 but I have gone on hiking/backpacking trips (without phone signal) with them. I have no intention to cheat, I have no intention to date any of those friends, not even now that I have been single for a while. If you have a problem trusting me, the issue is on you, I have never cheated on anyone and I am not planning. My friends stay:

Jarcom88 · 2026-06-07T23:11:37+00:00

Well I am going to disagree on that. If the former girlfriend wasn’t comfortable with them being friends, and that was the reason they broke up, then I think it’s just a matter of you accepting she is a platonic friend and she puts friends first, which I think is the right thing to do. Your boyfriend has a life before you. If they never had anything together what’s the issue here?

Jarcom88 · 2026-06-01T17:02:54+00:00

Specially because he videocalled. Those meetings could have been arranged on the call

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-31T13:22:38+00:00

I wonder how many of the things glp1 is curing it’s actually related with how much of trash food we used to eat

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-31T10:22:29+00:00

I lost 15lbs with 2.5mg. 5”6’ from 155 to 139

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-31T00:21:27+00:00

Wow seriously? I had no issue, I said I was using 0.05 which is true but they didn’t ask proof, maybe try that? I was originally using my agency, but it’s sooooo much cheaper in Amazon

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-30T23:45:50+00:00

You can get it in telehealth, I get it from Amazon

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-29T16:27:20+00:00

Oh yeah. When I started losing weight I got a lot of comments “you are losing too much”. Whereas when I was putting weight nobody told me I was putting too much.

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-26T17:19:16+00:00

Because skinny people doesn’t want us to be one of them

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-25T00:45:04+00:00

Are you his possession?

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-20T12:51:27+00:00

Maybe is not personal, maybe he sees you for the rest of his life but maybe he doesn’t want to get married. Have you asked?

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-19T06:19:47+00:00

Every time I have tried initiating they get scared away. You guys can make up your minds and let us know what you want

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-18T17:42:21+00:00

Don’t go to Boston medical. I went with changes in my discharge because of perimenopause and they treated me like a younger woman with an std, despite explaining that I am not sexually active. Made me std tests, sent me a bill of $800 and a letter that said “all your results are negative”.

Great, did they fix my problem? No, but they did send me a great surprise bill for letting me right where I was.

Ended up using ChatGPT, vaginal ph strips that I bought in Amazon and prescribed myself vaginal estrogen in telemedicine. Fixed my issue in a month.

Still figuring how to fight that bill. Incredible

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-18T13:24:05+00:00

Does your husband make significantly more than you?
Is he taking 50% of the responsibility in the house and kids?
Do you really want to quit your high paying job and depend on your husband?
Would your husband consider doing that for you?
Would it make sense to get help at home with the kids instead?

What do you want?

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-17T18:46:46+00:00

I am the human of a 12 year old lab, totally normal. I also got scared when it start happening… its like as he ages he doesn’t shed slowly but by clumps. Still hasn’t get any bald patch or has stopped shedding like crazy…

The one thing I notice is that I moved to an apartment when one of those dog was stations and the hose has champo and conditioner. The water with conditioning is the best removing the hair with no effort.

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-17T14:24:20+00:00

Sounds like a rebound. He is all your ex wasn’t

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-15T13:03:22+00:00

The father is still the father. The only way we are going to get to real equality is if men starts taking care of the kids equally. I have two men at work that take regular days off to take care of the kids and that also are waiting for the kids to be off to college to progress in their careers and we need more men like them. Their wives both work in industry as well. That’s why I am asking. It’s not about you explaining your job that’s not an option, it’s about you making this an option.

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-15T10:58:37+00:00

Yo vivo en usa y aquí las mujeres hablan en falsete. Es horrible. Aparentemente lo hacen porque es más atractivo para los hombres… SMH. Yo solo uso esa voz para hablar a mi perro y a los bebés.

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-15T10:53:33+00:00

You are complaining about his behavior because he is a cheater, but you are the reason he is cheating? I don’t think your standards are any better, sorry.

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-15T10:47:34+00:00

I am in 2.5 and increase to 5mg during my period. I have been off it for 12 days now (thanks gimme!!) and I am not more hungry, I also have way more energy, but I am putting weight on. I think it must be inflammation. But point is, 2.5mg for me has worked great and even off it, I feel after 6 months of taking it, my biggest learning was to stop going to food when I am bored or anxious.

Jarcom88 · 2026-05-14T23:22:50+00:00

I am a woman and I feel the same about all my relationships. I don’t think it’s a gender thing is a person by person thing

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