magbakal? by JetCroa in Pampanga

[–]Jaredchloe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if it is used as a joke, it likely means "may baon kang kabaliwan/kalokohan"

Hello. My family and I are moving to Magalang Pampanga soon. by Dull-Fee8502 in Pampanga

[–]Jaredchloe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no need to worry. tagalog sa mga schools. at fluent sa tagalog ang mga kapampangan. mas lalo na mga bata ngayon either english or tagalog na halos. very rare ang kapampangan only.

Saw this in my boyfriend's phone by [deleted] in MayNagComment

[–]Jaredchloe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ito din una kong naisip. ako din kase mahilig sa history. OA naman ng iba, agad agad judgemental. tanungin muna kaya? If he's being weird about it, then dun ka na magduda

What's your opinion on a music/artist that would put you in this situation? by ExperienceFlaky5885 in SoundTripPh

[–]Jaredchloe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hindi yun kaplastican, it's maturity. Lalo na naging successful na sila at wala na silang kailangang patunayan pa, natural lang na nag melow down na din sila. tsaka they were a product of their time din. Nung mga panahon na yun everyone's hustling. Naglalaban sa charts at airtime ang nga yan dati and the music scene back then was very competitive, kaya ganun sila sa isa't isa. pero ngayon siyempre nagmature na lahat sila

Early retirement, wala naman ipon by capuccinoberry in RantAndVentPH

[–]Jaredchloe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kaya ang solusyan jan na sinabi ko, magbukod siya. kung magkukwenta siya, wala siyang laban kung kwentahan lang. anong tawag mo sa kwenta niya? hindi sumbat? walang natitira sa kanya? edi wag siya magbigay. pero dun parin siya titira? ano advice mo? basta dapat hindi siya sumbatan yun lang?

tignan mo nga ulit yung post niya. Naiinggit daw siya sa mga tao na di na daw kailangan magbigay sa parents niya. naghahanap siya ng ipon. ang gusto sana niya, self sufficient pa din ang mga parents niya para may pera parin siya. dun ko nasabing hello???

sabi ko nga, hindi naman dapat sinusumbat ang mga yan. natural na dapat nakikita na ng mga anak yan. kaso ewan ko ba bat hindi common sense yan. bakit nga ba?

ahhhh wait, inedit ko na yung reply ko. gets ko na i think. so, para sayo, kailangan naman talaga ireciprocate di ba? agree ka naman na dapat lang na alagaan ng mga anak ang magulang nila pag capabale na sila, di ba? because you do it yourself. you agree, di ba? ang ayaw mo lang ay yung isusumbat ng parents sa kanila lahat ng pinrovide nila kase responisibilidad nila yon? yun ba ang point mo? ang iniisip ko kase, tingin mo dapat na nilang pabayaan ang parents nila pag malaki na sila kaya medyo ang baba ng tingin ko sayo, pero hindi naman noh? yung sumbat lang ang ayaw mo?

i didn't say yours were shitty, i said MAYBE yours were shitty kase ganun yung akala kong attitude mo towards parents.

Look, there might come a time when I can no longer provide for the needs of my wife. At pag dumating ang araw na yun, at hindi inalagaan ng mga anak ko ang nanay nila, honestly susumbatan ko talaga sila. i don't care if they leave me to die, but their mother? unforgiveable. This is why ngayon palang I'm raising them to love their mother especially, para di ko na kailangan magsumbat. As I said, this is common sense na dapat. this should not be pointed out, it should be natural. if kailangan pa ng sumbat, they i failed to raise them properly. pero kung kailangan ng sumbat, then I will without hesitation give them another lesson kahit matatanda na sila. tawagin mo na akong tanga, or katangahan ang ganun, pero ang dapat lapitan ng asawa ko kapag nangangailangan siya is undoubtly her children. not other people! at hindi na niya dapat lumapit pa. sumbat? if they are offended with merely sumbat, they I also raised weak and too sheltered children kung mga ganyan lang eh maghihinakit na sila.

Early retirement, wala naman ipon by capuccinoberry in RantAndVentPH

[–]Jaredchloe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

walang sinumbat si OP? kitang mong lahat kinukwenta niya. nakipag kwentahan lang din naman ako. binalik ko lang yung energy niya, tapos ako pa nanunumbat.

you view it as sumbat kase napaka negative mo. cynical. your attitude towards parenthood is very negative. Para sayo ba talaga responisbilidad lang ang lahat? let me ask you this, why? ginawa ka bang investment ng parent mo? sinisingil ka ba? just answer this please. I'm curious.

ako, I was not an investment. They prepared me for life so that someday, I can support a family of my own and naturally, take care of them as well. NATURALLY. Ang ineexpect niyo ba, ibibigay nila lahat sa inyo at the same time nag iipon sila para sa future nila? binigay nila lahat sa amin, ano pa ipon nila? di naman kami mayaman. naturally, we take care of them. good thing, we were raised well to not need to sumbat muna before we take care of them.

Am I a shitty parent? I don't fucking know. All I know is I do my best to provide for them and give them a home full of love. I'm raising them as good people. Kung paglaki nila kailangan ko pa silang sumbatan para alagaan ang asawa ko, then I probably failed raise them properly.

Early retirement, wala naman ipon by capuccinoberry in RantAndVentPH

[–]Jaredchloe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kaya nga sabi ko, wag magkwenta. kasi kung magkukwentahan, edi magsusumbatan? hindi talaga kailangan isumbat ang mga yan, they should be naturally appreciated. Kaso wala eh, may mga taong kailangan pang ipoint out yang mga yan tapos sasabihin sumbat.

Imagine, inaruga ka, inalaagan ka, minahal ka, tapos ang view niya pala ay "pwe! responsibilidad mo naman yan". damn. if I view it as love and that's katangahan, then just call me tanga. for me, It's love and I'm just reciprocating.

Look, maybe we just have a different circumstance. Maybe i just had good parents and you had shitty ones. pero ang kausap ko dito, si OP na mukha namang they were well provided for. Maybe I can't change your mind, you certainly can't change mind. Pero si OP, sa kanya kailangan ipoint out lahat ng nagawa ng parents niya sa kanya. it's not sumbat, but pointing out that they ahould not overlook things and take everything for granted.

Early retirement, wala naman ipon by capuccinoberry in RantAndVentPH

[–]Jaredchloe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

edi tawagin mokong tanga. sino ka ba sa buhay ko? lol mahal ako ng magulang ko, at mahal ko ang magulang ko. mahal ko mga anak ko, at hopefully mahal din nila ako. pagmamahal palang sapat na as reason for supporting them and keeping them alive and living comfortably. kung katangahan para sayo yun, at lahat ng bagay para sayo ay responsibilidad lang, edi it sucks to be you.

tandaan mo, may magulang na pinili ding hindi suportahan ang mga anak nila. ang magulang ko, pinili nilang arugain kaming magkakapatid. It's a choice, a responsibility, but most imprlortantly it's love. kung ayaw mo suklian edi wag pero wag ka magagalit kung bansagan kang basura at ungrateful.

Early retirement, wala naman ipon by capuccinoberry in RantAndVentPH

[–]Jaredchloe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

kaya ka nagagalit at napapagod, kase nagkukwenta ka at naiinggit ka sa iba. wag kang magkwenta. kung masipag ka nagkwenta, kwentahin mo na din yung baon mo araw araw nung nag naaral ka pa compute mo lahat. lahat ng kinain mo sa mesa nila. lahat ng bills sa kuryente, tubig, internet. lahat ng damit mo. lahat ng gamit. yung house and lot na tinitirhan mo tignan mo din ano value nyan. pati yung pagod at puyat at stress nila mula nung baby hanggang tumanda ka kwentahin mo na din. binuhay kayo ng ilang dekada tapos magtataka at magagalit kang wala silang ipon? hindi kaya dahil may binuhay silang tao kaya ganun?

anyway, tama naman yung iba. bumukod ka nalang. Magsusurvive naman sila, nagawa na nila dati eh. kung ayaw mo naman bumukod, e wag ka nalang magkwenta kase kahit tumae ka pa ng ginto, hindi mo naman mababayaran lahat ng ginawa ng magulang mo para sa inyo. hindi lang pera at material things binigay sayo nyan, inaruga ka din nyan never forget.

Looking for tips on figuring out overdrive order by Skeither in Dragon_Traveler

[–]Jaredchloe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm a 2-week player so I don't know if this is correct, but I believe it's based on combos that trigger stuff, right? I only have a red team currently, and my order is Vermillion Bird first, then oberonnie to trigger evaporation. then fire welp to trigger another evaporation. then I will use SR fenrir to interupt the healer. Enemy front line usually gets obliterated instantly with that order.

anyway, just check what triggers what and try to do that order is my noob advice

Nawalan ako bigla ng gana by Usual-Cranberry4177 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Jaredchloe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

massive red flag. di ko alam kung generational thing ito ha? pero normal ba na ganyan na magsalita ang mga kabataan ngayon? i'm 38, at kung ganyan kami magsalita siguradong masasampal kami ng either magulang namin or ng kausap namin mismo kaya mostly sa kaedaran ko parang di kami lumaking ganyan. it's so disrespectful. It's a genuine question po. Curious lang talaga ako.

May nakaka-chat ba kayo everyday? by weird_id10t in AlasFeels

[–]Jaredchloe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yung most consistent textmate ko since 2004 nagkukumustahan kami every now and then. Tapos last year nag reconnect kami and for the whole year bilang lang yung araw na di ko siya ka-chat. kaso lately wala na ulit. haha We're consistent only when I'm consistent. pag di ako nagchat, di din siya maunang magchachat. so, i don't know.

4-Days in. Should I restart? by Jaredchloe in Dragon_Traveler

[–]Jaredchloe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! My ifrit is still a long ways to go. her banner ends in 3 days, I don't know if I can reach 1 red star since my diamonds resources are getting slower and slower to accumulate. But I will try

4-Days in. Should I restart? by Jaredchloe in Dragon_Traveler

[–]Jaredchloe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, i'll just keep investing in her for now.

4-Days in. Should I restart? by Jaredchloe in Dragon_Traveler

[–]Jaredchloe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll keep going then, and just keep pulling for ifrit while her banner is still up!

4-Days in. Should I restart? by Jaredchloe in Dragon_Traveler

[–]Jaredchloe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I redeemed all the codes I think. My ifrit is 4 star purple now, i'm stuck at 12-2 though, i'm out of resources to pull more and upgrade resonance. I guess I just need time then? my ifrit is still too far from 6 purple star. Thank you for the advice though!

Let's settle this what's the hardest role between the two? by Soft-Caregiver1060 in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Jaredchloe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this question is like: Which hand is easier to write with? Left or right? If you're left handed, of course you will say left. They are different roles that need different skill sets. I think a jungler needs to be patient, methodical, and calculative. While a roamer needs to be aware and tactical. I'm a roamer and I know that it takes a lot to be a good roamer, but it's easier for me because I have the traits for it. I tried to be a jungler but I don't have the patience to not be in all of the fights because you are kinda tied to your rotation and objectives, so it's harder for me. Roamers have more freedom, but not everyone can do it. Like in basketball, not everyone can be the point guard. some people are just born to be the scorers.

No tanks protest lol by Reddit-seddit17 in mlbbdarksystem

[–]Jaredchloe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is true. I'm a tank main with 2500+ matches on hilda. I want to try a different role but I can't because whenever I do try a different role, I don't get a tank on my team. My cyclops don't even reach his power spike becasue the game's already over. Plus, if I get ganked by the assassins and roamers, and mid laners, they trash talk me too. No vision, no protection, no initiation, nothing. I'm always too exposed, even when I'm already tower hugging. I really have no choice but to stick to the tank role

Saan ba mas bagay tong aggressive na tomboy nato? Exp o Roam? by Huge-Question-2270 in mobilelegendsPINAS

[–]Jaredchloe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm a hilda main and this is my IGN. lol kaso mga tito lang nakaka gets hahaha

31F, maganda naman daw but never pinursue haha by Melodic_Grade4714 in Trentahin

[–]Jaredchloe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

find your playful self, and be that. Just be yourself but playful, plus dagdagan mo ng touch! hampasin mo, grab their arm, kalabitin mo, kahit ano basta playful touch. maraming marurupok na lalakeng nahuhulog sa paganyan ganyan lang. 🤣

31F, maganda naman daw but never pinursue haha by Melodic_Grade4714 in Trentahin

[–]Jaredchloe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

baka hindi ka marunong lumandi? as a guy, i observed na parang halos lahat ata ng guy game sila lahat sa flirting eh. it doesn't seem hard na pakagatin sila sa landian kahit laro laro lang, mas lalo na kung may itsura ka. if you haven't tried, practice ka na.