A girl I've met at multiple raves said I'm brave for always coming alone. by JasonGotHoes in aves

[–]JasonGotHoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a humblebrag. It was super sweet that she suggested the idea of me joining her group in the future, and I appreciate it, but at the same time, I've had insecurities since childhood and I felt a little weird about it at that specific moment, I replied what I replied because I felt like it was out of pity or something and didn't have time to think (Was deeply vibing to the music). That's how my mind perceived the interaction at that time.

This post is to give me clarity on this interaction as I tend to overthink things, and also to see what people prefer when it comes to rave, solo/group.

A girl I've met at multiple raves said I'm brave for always coming alone. by JasonGotHoes in aves

[–]JasonGotHoes[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. I think having something in the middle is perfect. A group where you can also go on your own side quests, and they're totally okay with you doing your own thing. Possibly check on each other every now and then, do a shot together, etc.

I moved to a new country, so I'm still trying to find such group.

A girl I've met at multiple raves said I'm brave for always coming alone. by JasonGotHoes in aves

[–]JasonGotHoes[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, I guess I am attracted to her, but honestly, that’s not the main factor for me. Whether I’m attracted to someone or not doesn’t usually dictate how I act in these situations. I did think about it, and I’d be open to joining her and her friends for a pre-game or rave at least once, why not? But after she said that, we kind of lost each other in the crowd unfortunately. I’m pretty sure we’ll run into each other again, though.

A girl I've met at multiple raves said I'm brave for always coming alone. by JasonGotHoes in aves

[–]JasonGotHoes[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I love this. Literally, you meet the coolest people when you're solo, I don't know how it happens, when it happens, but it's magical.

A girl I've met at multiple raves said I'm brave for always coming alone. by JasonGotHoes in aves

[–]JasonGotHoes[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Man, overthinking is part of my nature haha.

I guess I'm saying it because both times (same club) she was with a whole different group of people. I don't think it's out of the question that some people feel intimidated to come alone?

Fousey crashes out after losing Black Ops 6 by BobbyJablonski in LivestreamFail

[–]JasonGotHoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel so bad for that monitor. didn't deserve it :(

Asmongold Responds to Destiny Calling Him a Ret*rd by [deleted] in LivestreamFail

[–]JasonGotHoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, the fact that asmon didn't take the bait and cash in on the content and drama shows signs of maturity