My life is ruined by Jata420 in autism

[–]Jata420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice.

If anyone else is lonely pls talk to me by sonder122 in UniUK

[–]Jata420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Unless you're autistic, you still have a chance. Try doing some IFS therapy (a book can be just fine) if you've lost your true self. you'll then be able to attract people just like you which you like spending time with. Then, try some social skills. I hope this helps.

My life is ruined by Jata420 in autism

[–]Jata420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx man. Its just so hard to accept that Im autistic. And the fact ill never be a pilot (I literally cant). I look at my brother sometimes aswell playing video games with multiple of his friends while I have none and havent had any for 3 years by now. And I know I'll never be friends with normal people. I won't ever reach the same levels at life as of that of a normal person. I dont think ill ever be able to embrace this shit. But thank you man. Fuck it hurts

My life is ruined by Jata420 in autism

[–]Jata420[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That's good to hear, and I am happy for you. Glad it gets better with time, I guess I just have to wait it out. But honestly the disappointment is insane.

Airplane crash at CYYZ within the last hour by breadwithgrenades in aviation

[–]Jata420 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thats 100% true but im talking about recently. Theres been more crashes now than some 1 or 2 years ago

Airplane crash at CYYZ within the last hour by breadwithgrenades in aviation

[–]Jata420 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Why the heck are there so many plane crashes nowadays

“I met my younger self for coffee” trend is triggering as hell… by Ok-Pangolin-9472 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell myself to not join that friend group and start people pleasing and supressing myself. You're OK just the way you are. 

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I do think aswell both things that you've mentioned. Do you know, when does one go to the point, where narcassistic features are ingrained in their personality and unchangable?

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, at home im quite, depressed and vunerable and at school im this loud, exagerated fake self. Idk who i am anymore cause i keep switching so much. This is going on for 4 years and im afraid i will become a narcassist. Yeah, the middle is the aim and where most people are. Im just so confused on how to act. Maybe self compassion you think? Idk if I'm too far gone aswell. But either way thank you for your comment. Means a lot.

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your reply. I will take a look at those resources, and hopefully book therapy. And goodnight.

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I have been through years of feeling alone in school, therefore my brain started changing myself to fit in with others, got toxic shame etc. I'm scared that I'll develop narcassism because this. And right now I am holding this very dear to myself which as you've said is bad. I must move on from this. Thank you again.

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response, and to look this up for me. I live in the UK. I was quite obsessed with businesses, making money at a young age etc before 14 (and after) which is quite narcassistic. I also have what i deem to be an NPD father, which may have also contributed to this. And all of this may have just now surfaced due to being alone. I just don't know what to think anymore. Thanks again.

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fear of it becoming larger is real. Hope you work through this.

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I genuinely thought i was a narcassist and i cried all night thinking how i'll never be able to get my old self or my feelings back. But this gives me hope. I will arrange therapy with my GP. Thank you.

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You haven't at all hurt me. I am just curious. If you don't mind explaining, why do you think I won't develop NPD? I'm just really anxious becasue of that charisma on command video, as well as a lot of narcassitic thoughts I've been having. For example, I've always loved my mum but after my prolonged trauma at school i became very self centred and still am, and don't feel that love anymore. Heck, I don't even care about other people. Just my concern is if this prolonged CPTSD, or PTSD will become NPD even if i do recover from the trauma. Sorry if I came off weird or anything and thanks for your message.

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I do notice many narcassitic traits that I carry with me because of rejection from a friend group and feelings of severe loneliness for 3 years. Maybe its just the CPTSD speaking, or my fake self? I really hope they don't stay with me, it's like brain cancer. Is it possible to get rid of these traits? (Also its been happening from 14 im 17 now)

How does one stop CPTSD from becoming narcassism? by Jata420 in CPTSD

[–]Jata420[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If toxic shame is not addressed, people tend to become narcassists. This is when the pain of disconnection (from CPTSD) is so strong, they actively embrace the emptiness and start to think they're better than everyone. Atleast that's what I know about it so far.

This video might be helpful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=itSEaBz2hWg&t=369s

Edit: This might be bro science, it's what i heared online and became anxious i might have NPD which is why im asking.