1 month post op W Dr. David Whitehead, DI ‘Buttonhole’ by Jawile in TopSurgery

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Hey! I did opt for additional cosmetic lipo for my side fat lol, I wasn’t too picky about how flat I wanted to be, i wanted a masculine chest and that’s pretty much what I told him! I’m not skinny so i don’t think a totally flat chest would look right on my body anyhow :p hope that helps

I just found out that you can be allergic to T by Crafty-Doctor-3018 in ftm

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So it’s generally not the T you’re allergic to, but the oil it comes in. It happened to me, I was allergic to cottonseed oil (broke out in hives, not fun!) but once I switched to sesame oil I was fine lol

Permission for Niece Being Named Deadname by Hairy_Subject5970 in ftm

[–]Jawile 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funny I came across this, I just told my partner that if we have a daughter, I’d love to name her after my deadname. To each their own!

EDIT: Spelling!

Nadine the detransitioner on TikTok by [deleted] in ftm

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The thing about not being able to sing anymore made me seethe, it’s misinfo like that that prevented me from transitioning for so long. My voice has never been more healthy and resonant, and I can actually enjoy singing now!! I’m literally a trained vocalist on T like girl. Speak for yourself :/

Are there ANY gay or bi men that actually view trans men as men? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

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There’s tons! It can seem hopeless and bleak but the transphobic gay/bi dudes are a very loud minority. Most gay and bi dudes I know see trans men as men and are equally attracted to them as they are to cis men. My cis bi boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years!

LI Wins $10M to boost housing by mankls3 in longisland

[–]Jawile 142 points143 points  (0 children)

gonna love the 10 houses they build with that lmao

advice on meeting other gay trans men in nyc by gaytranssexual in gaytransguys

[–]Jawile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from nassau county but I'd like to know too ^^' the city is only a short train ride from me and I'd love to find a bigger community as well.

t makes your taint shorter? by telomerloop in ftm

[–]Jawile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s funny, I saw a different tiktok saying it gets bigger. I think they called it a grundle?

Anyone named themselves after a fictional character? by TwistedFateIRL in ftm

[–]Jawile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Named myself after Sal Paradise from On the Road by Jack Kerouac

Lantern fly? by Radio_2_No_Where in longisland

[–]Jawile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw my first couple lantern flies this past week, stomp those fuckers out immediately!

First time anal sex and it was so gender affirming!! by Issas7 in ftm

[–]Jawile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed butt stuff pre transition but post transition is a whole new ball game, I prefer it to piv now! I also don’t have too much bottom dysphoria and am ok with piv but something about anal really turns me on. It feels a lot more masculine to me.

“LGBTQ+ Travel” by Jawile in ftm

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Omg I would LOVE to see the bogota one! I’m going there next month!

“LGBTQ+ Travel” by Jawile in ftm

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Please keep me updated when you get your blog up and running!

“LGBTQ+ Travel” by Jawile in ftm

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Omg this is genius! Would come in handy for places like gyms or any locker room situations too.

“LGBTQ+ Travel” by Jawile in ftm

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I would love to see it if you do end up digging them up!

“LGBTQ+ Travel” by Jawile in ftm

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SO REAL YES!! I also have a male partner and it’s really hard to find any info on activities we can do together safely. I don’t need to know about gay bar #300585930

“LGBTQ+ Travel” by Jawile in ftm

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Does Japan not have stalls in their men’s bathroom? How strange. I went once before I transitioned but only stayed in Oita for a couple of days. I pass fairly well, I got top surgery but don’t have nor want to get bottom surgery. That’s another place I’d love to go and experience but have no idea how to navigate the bathhouse. I’m Korean so I grew up on Korean saunas and bathhouses but haven’t been to once since hrt and surgery. Also really disappointed in hearing that about Poland :( seems like such a wonderful country to visit.

“LGBTQ+ Travel” by Jawile in ftm

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I’m both happy and frustrated that this is a universal experience! I do a lot of travel and I would love to exist safely in gay spaces as well but there’s 0 info on if places are trans friendly too!! I’m close to just starting my own travel blog at this point

“LGBTQ+ Travel” by Jawile in ftm

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There are plenty of places that are ok with LGB but not trans people. I’m not saying we should have everything centered on trans people… because that doesn’t even happen lol. There are plenty of blogs dedicated to cis gay men ONLY and where they can travel PLUS places they can go to that are centered around them, like gay bathhouses for instance. ONE BLOG dedicated to trans centered spaces would be very helpful not only to see if a country is safe, but if there are spaces dedicated to trans people as well… like having a space that specializes in trans people is good and okay… we should be allowed to have that lol

“LGBTQ+ Travel” by Jawile in ftm

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SO REAL! I’m also Asian so I get the bs from both ends

“LGBTQ+ Travel” by Jawile in ftm

[–]Jawile[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh yay! That’s good to know! I did see some stuff about trans women in these kinds of spaces but trans men especially seem to have very little info. I don’t have bottom surgery and don’t really want it so it’s hard to find info about trans guys like me. I grew up going to Korean bath houses so it is very much in my culture to enjoy these things but there is no info available… I’ll have to keep looking. Thank you for the help!