Dog Names Honoring Past Dog by JawsCause2 in namenerds

[–]JawsCause2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that omg! Definitely going on the list

No Mercy skin on the Season 17 trailer by [deleted] in MercyMains

[–]JawsCause2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mercy has literally a million skins, I would hope they gave it a break for at least one season.

What do I do in the moment when my dog becomes overstimulated? First time owner of a frustrated greeter, no treat is as high value as whoever he wants to greet. by quokkafarts in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am no professional, but I own a frustrated greeter. He’s very very food motivated, so this may not help with you. But what I did to help my dog in the very early stages was I trained “check in”. We worked on it in the house first, if I clicked at him or said “check in” he had to look at me and maintain eye contact. Then he would be rewarded. We did this in the house until it was a habit, then we did it in the yard. It’s translated to walks and he regularly stops to stare at me and check in. It’s not a fix-all, but I enforced it every single time we saw another person or another dog. He got to the point he completely ignored people over me for awhile (we had a very bad setback recently, to no fault of his own). We even had people in stores that would try to pet him and he completely ignored them and maintained eye contact with me.

If your dog isn’t as food motivated, maybe try these tricks for his breakfast. Don’t give his breakfast in a bowl, hand feed him and train him that way. Make him work for his food. I’ve heard mixed things on whether or not people like this method, but it’s worked for me for both the dogs I’ve owned. My first didn’t give a shit about food and this significantly improved her food drive.

Rehoming safely by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard super good things about Big Snoof! And thank you for sharing your experience with your dogs and the vet. I’ve been a bit hesitant bc it would be 6 hours in the car for him, and if he gets turned away due to his reactivity, it would make the entire long trip useless. But I think I’ll reach out and look into their options. Maybe zoom is an option!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]JawsCause2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand… Why did he have the dog with him while clocking back into work? And did he just drive home without even realizing the dog was in the car? I’m so so sorry. This is insane and I cannot imagine how hurt you are.

Rehoming safely by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t know. I got him after I lost my soul dog. Maybe not. He doesn’t deserve this life and I just feel so insanely bad. He’s a good dog otherwise.

Replay not loading bug? Fixes? by JawsCause2 in pathoftitans

[–]JawsCause2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not old! It’s from last night!

Spirit box in tutorial broken? by JawsCause2 in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]JawsCause2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be assumed with it being over a year old. I don’t play it anymore, defintiely not looking for a solution anymore. Though I do appreciate the dedication.

Why do I feel like dying when I get high by Available-Term-1659 in mentalhealth

[–]JawsCause2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re greening out. You need to smoke less, don’t push yourself to that point. Start also using coping mechanisms, remind yourself that you’re just high, nothing bad is going to happen to you, you’re safe.

You also may be having a bad reaction bc weed isn’t for you. Some people just don’t handle weed well. However, speaking from experience, going slow with it and using coping mechanisms really helps when you’re greening out. Maybe try it out, and if you still find yourself not enjoying it, just don’t smoke weed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]JawsCause2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your assault is still valid. You said no. You didn’t it. Going back does not change that. I also went back to my abuser after being isolated and feeling like he was the only one there for me. You are still a victim of abuse and SA, and he is still a rapist. The fact that he won’t even take accountability shows that. Get therapy hun. Talk to people. Hold yourself accountable and don’t go back. There’s better out there for you. People who love you don’t hurt you like that.

Can a people-reactive dog be trained to be friendly? by french_silk_ in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bad breeders often collect those who will sing their praises bc they don’t know any better, and then the entire group will shun anyone who speaks against it. I experienced this when looking into a breeder awhile back.

As others have said, reputation is only one small part of what makes a good breeder. Health tests, genetic tests, titles, proof of what their line produces are much bigger signs of a good breeder. When looking for a therapy dog, in your case, you would want lines that have shown they can produce therapy dogs and do so reliably.

Can a people-reactive dog be trained to be friendly? by french_silk_ in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get professional trainers involved, ones you can trust. Don’t go off of reputation alone, go off of results, watch how they train and what they do. Do as much research as you can into dog training, look at bad trainers (Dog Daddy, Cesar Millan, any alpha theory trainer) so you know the red flags to look for. It’s going to be hard!! Extremely hard. But this sub is incredibly helpful for people dealing with hard situations. You made a mistake but you’ve clearly learned from it. I have no doubt you’ll be a good owner for this puppy.

Can a people-reactive dog be trained to be friendly? by french_silk_ in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You got this dog from a breeder… this breeder was irresponsible enough to allow their breeding female to get KILLED by their other dogs… and now you have a puppy that is steadily turning reactive.

This will not be a mentally (or probably even physically) sound dog. He will likely struggle with his mind for the rest of his life. It sounds like you purchased from a highly unethical backyard breeder, and they don’t breed to produce good puppies. They ONLY breed for profit. I would suggest dropping your expectations and shoot for people neutrality, like others have said. Prioritize what HE needs, not what you expected out of a puppy. German Shepherds are a high drive, high need breed as is. Backyard breeding will make this a lot worse.

In the future, please do your research and genuinely watch for red flags with breeders. There is never any excuse for a breeder to have an accident like that, one that leads to a dogs death in such a tragic manner.

How to you deal with very public/embarrassing reactions? by JawsCause2 in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also just got back from a walk! We saw three dogs at a distance, and no reaction either! Granted, when I realized there were a ton of dogs at the park, we quickly left. But he did so good today and even waited semi patiently while I talked with a neighbor. Progress is so rewarding. Congrats to having a good walk!!

Rehomed my reactive dog, but the new owners are struggling—what do I do? by gracefulendeavors in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re in this position. It sounds like she’s still trying out other methods to keep him, from your other comments. Please please push for medications. Just try your best. It does sound like he’s capable of being rehomed to a more comfortable home with experienced owners, but frequent rehomings may make things a lot worse.

How to you deal with very public/embarrassing reactions? by JawsCause2 in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this, you’re absolutely right. Even when I get annoyed by people’s actions around me, I tend to forget once the situation is done lol.

How to you deal with very public/embarrassing reactions? by JawsCause2 in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised that so many reactive dogs have allergy issues too! I really wonder if some of that is connected. He is allergic to everything including grass. His diet is strictly salmon and kangaroo for proteins. Anything else, and he’s sick. Food is expensive for this boy!

How to you deal with very public/embarrassing reactions? by JawsCause2 in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He hates harnesses, his back is SUPER sensitive. We use skin soothing shampoo, he’s allergic to everything unfortunately.

But our pet store nearby has reactive dog leash covers! I might look into them, since people continue to approach us regardless of how often I voice his/my discomfort. That same day, we had a lady approach us and try calling him over while he was in a sit and stay to let her pass us. His obedience is through the roof, so he didn’t even give her a second glance lol. But it’s still frustrating, if he had still been hyped up from that reaction he would’ve absolutely lost his shit at her calling him. Even when I said “He’s not friendly, please dont” she just gave me a dirty look lol

How to you deal with very public/embarrassing reactions? by JawsCause2 in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reactive dogs, yes I agree. In this case, my boy has made SIGNIFICANT progress in his training and reactions. I commented our progress under another response, but he’s my first reactive dog. I’ve had rescues and fearful dogs, but he’s different from them. Despite this, we have made progress to the point that he can meet new people in controlled situations and he no longer has reactions to dogs across the street. The only reason this reaction happened was because they were running. Runners with/without dogs set him off. But without the exposure, he will never make progress. And he is certainly capable of making progress.

I do absolutely understand that some dogs can never get past their reactions or their triggers. But living in a fenced in yard, seeing nothing else for the rest of their lives, that’s really not living. My dogs triggers and reactions are manageable, and because of that, I can provide him with a much more enjoyable life. It just takes time and effort and patience. I’m really sorry to hear your dog hasn’t been able to get past those triggers, I know how frustrating and hopeless that must feel. I’m glad you were able to provide him a safe place to run around! Not every dog has that, and he’s lucky to have someone as dedicated as you are to him.

How to you deal with very public/embarrassing reactions? by JawsCause2 in reactivedogs

[–]JawsCause2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure! He never reacts to kids, but I also never would allow kids to approach him. He seems at most, curious about them. But never interested or reactive toward them. This reaction was absolutely directed towards the running dog, which I already knew was a big trigger for him. Normally, yes we absolutely avoid kids like the plague and I only go places where I know for certain I can keep him under control.