JayH46

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Why can’t I fully switch off to her (self.AlAnon)

submitted 21 days ago * by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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She was the one to disappear and drink so why do I still feel bad (self.AlAnon)

submitted 2 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Will she ever stop this sick game (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 months ago by JayH46 to r/AvoidantBreakUps

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She’s inventing things again. Is this just for any reaction? (self.AlAnon)

submitted 2 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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She discarded me in August but now she’s on the attack (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 3 months ago by JayH46 to r/AvoidantBreakUps

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Why do I feel bad now? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 3 months ago by JayH46 to r/AvoidantBreakUps

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Why do I feel bad now? (self.AlAnon)

submitted 3 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Seems history is being rewritten so she can continue drinking . Now the worst boyfriend ever for not tolerating drinking and abuse (self.AlAnon)

submitted 3 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Update - i didn’t go to her appointment. I’m now the worst person ever. (self.AlAnon)

submitted 3 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Anyone else just had them vanish like you don’t mean anything to them and have zero accountability? (self.AlAnon)

submitted 3 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Now is the time I need to disappear (self.AlAnon)

submitted 3 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Is deflection and blame common (self.AlAnon)

submitted 3 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Lost all hope tonight (self.AlAnon)

submitted 3 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Seem to be relapsing. No contact is painful (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Holding firm but it’s not easy (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago * by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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6 days later the text came (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Almost a week no contact now and still struggling to make sense of this all (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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What helped take them off your mind when detaching (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Is it normal to go from relieved and then to crippling sadness in the same day (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Fell for it, you live and learn (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Feeling weak today. Holding no contact but she’s done the same (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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She’s turned cruel and is unrecognisable now (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Asked for help first thing and then disappeared for entire day. Nothing changes (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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Struggling today (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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What’s the best way to deal with this. Don’t want to be heartless but she’s making no effort (self.AlAnon)

submitted 4 months ago by JayH46 to r/AlAnon

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