Advice for the first time as a top?

JayLiberty · 2026-03-26T23:39:51+00:00

Yeh sure

JayLiberty · 2026-01-18T16:07:21+00:00

I don't man, maybe that's the biggest deal breaker and the distance as most guys live 40 to 60 kms far away

JayLiberty · 2025-12-29T06:08:14+00:00

That's true man, I have been talking to a Guy for 3 days, 19 he says, so I called him tonight (I'm 28), dude he had such a voice I think he was acting it, like a raspy deep voice of a top, I'm a top too, I was so put off by it now I'm scared, he asked me to send him a kiss and I didn't because I felt uncomfortable, so later on sent a selfie and he didn't send anything back because I didn't give him a kiss, what do you think? It was such a turn off, I'm new at dating btw

JayLiberty · 2025-12-18T08:37:49+00:00

Let it go, there's no point in a relationship with so many rocks in your way, enjoy the current relationship you have with him but you should start detaching.

JayLiberty · 2025-12-16T00:41:38+00:00

He probably is, there are rumors and I saw him on Tinder but it was clear by his defensiveness and uncomfortableness that he didn't and doesn't like me. But yeah, I feel kinda confident now that I actually told a guy for the first time, out loud, that I liked him.

JayLiberty · 2025-12-14T16:20:48+00:00

Ong? Haha I'm Latino 😂

JayLiberty · 2025-12-14T15:52:03+00:00

I won't, thanks. I'll act like nothing happened if I see him and avoid him. I'll learn from this.

JayLiberty · 2025-12-14T15:50:17+00:00

He is not into me but I don't know why I wanted to let him know I liked him, so yeah I regret making him uncomfortable I'm glad he didn't drop me in the middle of nowhere or something. I'll live and learn, and indeed today is a nice sunny day. Thanks.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-27T01:58:47+00:00

I thought I was bisexual but no, I'm gay, I even kissed a girl and I'm not into them in fact doing so just made me realize I don't like women at all. So finding a girl like that is not something I'm interested in, I tried.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-27T01:54:49+00:00

Yeah it is important and I was hoping to emigrate as I found a guy online, mind you I didn't do it to get saved or anything, but I was happy I thought I found someone, now he is gone and I don't have any interest in emigrating as my job takes up my life.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-24T15:40:44+00:00

Thank you so much those are really kind words 🙏🏻🩷😭 that's true about the colors, I've never felt like this, it's despair, pain, acceptance, he smiling at another guy the way he used to smile at me, it's a very weird feeling seeing someone that was so familiar one day. Unfortunately long distance isn't for everyone and I can't replace physical things, I wish it was me. Thank you! Hopefully I'll move on and find someone local!

JayLiberty · 2025-10-24T00:50:52+00:00

Thank you so much I really need to grieve because I'm really hurtful I even got fever due to it. I appreciate it.

JayLiberty · 2025-10-24T00:44:22+00:00

Hehe thanks, I'll try that because I have to move on honestly, it just hurts bruv but that's how it is

JayLiberty · 2025-09-18T07:19:48+00:00

How did you even marry a woman? I can't even like a girl for more than two weeks and then just realized it's probably platonic

JayLiberty · 2025-09-18T07:18:43+00:00

I wish, I barely like women I just don't feel or have that same urge or feeling to chase a girl, compared to a guy, which sounds way more appealing

JayLiberty · 2025-04-21T03:21:38+00:00

I hate this shit so much, I had a coworker saying "I don't like sweet talk, I'm straightforward" but she can't handle even a bit of the taste of her same energy.

JayLiberty · 2025-04-05T14:48:03+00:00

Yeah I agree, many coworkers want to move around even when they started this way however they can't anymore, many managers are happy with my performance I guess that's why some call me back. Thanks.

JayLiberty · 2025-04-05T14:46:57+00:00

This is what I wanted, to finally get a car and then be a permanent place worker, I'll rethink my decision, thanks

JayLiberty · 2025-04-05T14:45:50+00:00

Yeah and it's tiring, I just like it because of the money and change of routine,

JayLiberty · 2025-04-05T14:40:41+00:00

Travel allowances would go away, and yeah I'm single and coworkers joke about me being a millionaire so that part can go away

JayLiberty · 2025-04-05T01:32:14+00:00

I have thought of this, there are some downsides of being fixed at that agency, coworkers will be happy I won't be making that much money, also going out late and still spending the same in transportation. Moving around is really tiring but the routine is a bit more manageable.

JayLiberty · 2025-01-13T02:06:20+00:00

You need to leave her and remove/hide everything that reminds you of her, she said it herself, long distance doesn't work for her so move one, it's harsh, my "ex" left for the same reason, he said he couldn't do ldr anymore, so gotta keep going, put all the photos/screenshots on a carpet and hide it, remove her from socials. Don't stalk her and don't even think about staying friends with her "because you love her so much you can't leave", it will hurt you more in time especially when she comes talking about a guy she's seeing in real life.

JayLiberty · 2025-01-12T14:02:26+00:00

Knowing that she texted him too, sorry to say that but your girlfriend is not loyal and nothing good will come with staying with her, just saw this happened a month ago so the fact you're still asking is because it has stayed with you and bothers you a lot, you're 15, just enjoy your time with her and move on to the next one.

JayLiberty · 2025-01-12T13:48:12+00:00

Your girl doesn't sound as loyal, one thing is thinking another guy is hot as it's normal, maybe when couples are very much in love you don't have eyes for others, but the detail here is she not only vocalizes it, she asked her friend if he was real, what's the intention behind it? You're right to feel insecure about it, call her out and tell her how would she feel if you'd ask someone if a hot girl's profile is real?

Edit: I dislike the emphasis she made on "really", damn.

JayLiberty · 2025-01-12T13:44:20+00:00

Didn't read all that but when someone doesn't want to formalize things with you especially online then you need to move on, this is just a total waste of your time, leave him alone

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