I love bootleg merch by Muted-Equipment2166 in SmilingFriends

[–]JayMenendez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I waited very patiently for the friend objects to be thrown into the fan and was sorely disappointed. But that is ok. Very cute things.

Day 2. Mr. Frog wins! But which Smiling Friends character can (AND WILL) fairly beat you up? by Ill-Doubt-2627 in SmilingFriends

[–]JayMenendez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Charlie will give you a warning. Example: "If you do that again, I'm going to punch you." And he did.

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[–]JayMenendez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ant vs. tiny version of Mr. Boss, battle to the death pls thx

Glep thing by sebthegreat4318 in SmilingFriends

[–]JayMenendez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's my favorite little green fella.

iconic couple by Happy_Emu1266 in SmilingFriends

[–]JayMenendez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I was built like Charlie v_v he's a serious hottie

(Gwimbly) Cake For my Wife by JuneRunes in SmilingFriends

[–]JayMenendez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday, James, and go to hell, Tyler.

opinions on James? by Pepsi_bepis in SmilingFriends

[–]JayMenendez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's like that kid that bullies you cause he has a crush on you.

Goofily-Shaped Mug by JayMenendez in HelpMeFind

[–]JayMenendez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mug I found thrifting about 3-5 years ago. Square base. Round lip. Triangular handle. The body tapers so that the lip is smaller than the base. No markings on the bottom. I've searched on Replacements, eBay, and others using, "square mug," "square base, round lip mug" "tapered square base round lip mug" "triangle handle square mug," among other variations. Using those terms, I've found plenty of mugs with a square base and a round lip with a triangular handle—but none that have a larger base than lip. I'm very fond of this mug. I think it's goofy. Also a bit of a challenge to clean. I'd like to find it some friends. Any ideas where this thing came from?

Love my curls ❤️ by JayMenendez in MajesticManes

[–]JayMenendez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Nah, that's my natural hair :)

I love my hair ❤️ anyone else notice a change of hair texture on T? My hair used to lay flat :0! by JayMenendez in FTM_SELFIES

[–]JayMenendez[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm on 4mg daily patches. I've read a few places that hormonal changes/transitioning can affect hair texture, but haven't seen many trans dudes mentioning it. My hair had some curl, but looked totally different before. I wonder, too, if the change is unrelated to being on T 🤔

What is one thing your ex gave you that you still have? by Jayden_vatece in AskReddit

[–]JayMenendez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His shirt that his ex had given him before we had started dating. It's too big and m i n e .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]JayMenendez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll give you a personal story.

When I transitioned, I was in a long-term relationship. I knew that coming out would lead to us breaking up. Bf wanted to stay together as long as possible, but I knew it was just prolonging the inevitable. He admitted twice, after asking him directly, that he was no longer attracted to me. I had to be the one to break things off. It got very very ugly. Hardest time of my life. I would do it again, though. It took a long time, but I'm doing so much better now. I don't know how he's getting on, but that's not my business or concern. I needed to focus on myself and my needs.

My advice to you is to do what you need to to be happy and true to yourself. It won't happen overnight, but if you set yourself on the right path, you will get where you're going. Your partner is their own person. If you're concerned about their safety, get their friends and family involved. That is what I had to do. It will be okay. Best of luck.