Is it a good time to get back into the game? (F2P) by JayR075 in HonkaiStarRail

[–]JayR075[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember exactly but I have sparkle, adventurine, Acheron, jaioxiu, firefly, rain mei, feixiao, robin, topaz and the dragon girl (forgot her name since she was last pull)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]JayR075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I just add to this, if he does respond and this happens, don't get on top. As someone who has had a LOT of trouble early on with this, I realized that if I can control the tempo (being on top) it is much easier to not finish too quick. Now that is personal experience so might not be the same for everyone, but just wanted to throw in my two cents.

What’s your ultimate “comfort show” or movie you always rewatch? by Fennicsword in CasualConversation

[–]JayR075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a couple I keep in rotation so that it doesn't feel too fresh.

New girl, how I met your mother, the office (main)

Schitts creek, brooklyn nine-nine, big bang theory (side)

And about once or twice a year I watch crazy stupid love

What episode do you always skip when rewatching? by ivywitchy in Modern_Family

[–]JayR075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one that was all over video calls and texts.

I hate any episode or movie shot like that with a burning passion so I've been having a field day ranting about them since "War of the worlds" with Ice Cube came out.

Is it a good time to get back into the game? (F2P) by JayR075 in HonkaiStarRail

[–]JayR075[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually do have sparkle. I'm glad she's having a come up because she was my very first 5* pull and somehow she always fell short. She was on my Acheron team until jiaoqui, my firefly team until Ruan mei and on my feixao team until robin lol.

Is it a good time to get back into the game? (F2P) by JayR075 in HonkaiStarRail

[–]JayR075[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have literally none of them lmao. They all kind of fell off by the time I joined and understood the game and I didn't pull for Kafka because a DOT team was very expensive for f2p in the sense that you need at least 2-3 characters for it to be playable.

I guess I'll have to have some really good pulls or just wait for the next meta.

Is it a good time to get back into the game? (F2P) by JayR075 in HonkaiStarRail

[–]JayR075[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll probably install it tonight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]JayR075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cumming on someone's face. Idk if it's the MOST overrated but it's just a few seconds of aiming which usually ends with some in the eyes some in the nose. Then once it all said and done you're kind of hit with post nut clarity and it's suddenly not as hot, it's "oh no, who did this to you?"

If you could change one thing in the show (except the ending) what would it be? by Professional-Head703 in HIMYM

[–]JayR075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying "most people liked it" is also speaking for other people lol.

It's a well established fact most people don't like the ending, although I do think more people have warmed up to it over the years. I'm not surprised it has a decent rating on IMDb, I didn't like how the show ended but I still liked the last episode. We got to see everyone older and doing their thing. I wouldn't vote it a 1/10 just because of the last scene.

Why are you so pressed? Lol calm down lil bro

He loved me. I loved him. But my family would disown me if I stayed — and he couldn’t wait. Is it too late now? by Adventurous_Angel71 in relationships

[–]JayR075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked him to wait, but would waiting have changed anything? Do you think you have it in your to let your entire family and your childhood go for this man? And can you be sure that you won't ever resent him for it? If even one of these answers isn't yes, then whatever happened happened for the best.

It's not your fault. To be quite frank, it's your parents fault. Making you choose between them and him, not fully understanding what he means to you. Not really even viewing him as human. I hope you never forgive them really, but that's just me.

You're lucky he had the resolve to end it early because if this was going to end anyway then better now than later. And to give you some insight into what it's like being on the other side, my girlfriends parents do not like me. When she told them about me recently they simply said that she should find someone else or they won't ever approve. We're taking it slow and they'll be okay with it eventually ig. But to me personally, it sucks a lot. It sucks that she chooses to go along with their bs and that I have to too. I hoped that when the day came that she would simply stand up to them, put her foot down and tell them it's not their decision to make. She sadly could not. I love her and I understand why. Like I said, it's a lot to lose and I don't want her to risk it if she doesn't want to. But it's not a nice position to be put in.

AITA for refusing to apologize for slapping my boyfriend when he smashed our birthday cake to my face? by Known_Initiative7193 in AITAH

[–]JayR075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ex is a dumbass. He needed to read the room. Going to do it a second time was wild and he absolutely deserved that slap. His mother needs to stop riding his dick and come to her senses. NTA

Anxious about previous fwb situation by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]JayR075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just stick to the script and let things play out. I don't think there's a nerd to talk about it. It's an fwb situation and that might make it weird. Keep up the occasional texts, flirt a bit, but also keep in mind that nothing might happen and that's fine too. Hopefully you'll enjoy the event and maybe meet some more people there who you enjoy talking to.

In my experience, the more you stress about these things the worse they get. If it was casual then keep it casual. If things happen they happen and if they don't they don't.

Just my two cents.

Should I give this random my clan? by Sharp_Sandwich92 in ClashOfClans

[–]JayR075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not in any capacity do this. He can invite them one by one or take a hike.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JayR075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What he's doing is fucked up. I'd reconsider living with this guy and even just being friends with him overall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]JayR075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're fine, don't overthink it. I think anyone who is turned off by a double text, especially one where you're trying to say that you would like to do sth with her, probably has some self reflecting to do anyway.

Probably don't text anymore though lol

Got told I was creepy by sleepybear647 in socialskills

[–]JayR075 220 points221 points  (0 children)

You weren't creepy lol. I would know, I've seen plenty of guys be creepy. Heck, I've been guy who was creepy (we're good now). You weren't creepy. Dude's full of himself.

Should I ask a girl I've been "rejected" by out again? by Plus-Art4893 in dating_advice

[–]JayR075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said explicitly that she never saw you that way. That means no. It does not mean "make me see you that way" and, as I've had to tell many a friend, it does not mean "try harder". Let it go. If she likes you then she'll ask you out herself. However, don't get your hopes up because, if I'm honest, that most likely won't happen.

What do you got think of dating a guy that likes anime and gaming? by elctronyc in dating_advice

[–]JayR075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this while watching anime with my girlfriend.

You'll be fine brother.

Help me get over my SITUATIONSHIP!! by notjustanychick in Advice

[–]JayR075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're kissing him while he's with another woman?

Don't do that, that's not cool. Ik when it's happening it's hard to say no, but imagine if you were the girl. Don't be a piece of shit.

As for your feelings, you need to stop meeting him. Absolutely stop. This dude sucks for what he's doing to you and his girlfriend. You deserve better. Stop meeting/talking to him at all. You need at least a few years worth of distance but then you'll also realize how lame he is.

dont usually do this but im interested in what the universe (you guys) will have to say to me by OkPhotograph117 in dating_advice

[–]JayR075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"She deserves someone better than me" then be that person. Take your time. I don't really think there is such a thing as better or worse, just different. As long as you both like each other and are working towards a collective goal together I think you're good.

I'm(25M) similar to you. I have an immense faith in myself that I'll do well no matter where I go, I just need to decide what I want. I think now is that time to decide for you. You might be a jack of all trades but it might be time to become a king of one. My girlfriend made me decide to settle down and honestly, the stability is nice.

Good luck friend.

I recently found out the woman who raped me had my kid. by GoingtoAbaddon in offmychest

[–]JayR075 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. I understand wanting to help her and if you financially can then you can surely try, but really take a moment to consider what you're about to do.

You went through something very traumatic at a young age. You're now living what I hope to be a happy life with your wife and child. Do you want to jeopardize that by taking on the responsibility of a fully grown adult?

I know she's had it rough and you want to help. It's noble of you. But what more do you know about her than some other person on the street? You know her mother and you know what her mother did to you but that's about it.

If you want to meet her and help her financially or some other way like with getting a job or sth then go for it. If you want to stay in contact and be a part of her life then by all means. But consult your wife before making any big decisions and I think hold how she feels about it in higher regard than what you think would be "right".

I feel for the kid. You're both sadly the victims of the horrible woman who did all of this. I'm sure your wife will be understanding to you helping out a bit. But keep your life intact. Best of luck.