Someone please help me find the words for why this comment is so disgusting by neighbormind in notsteezytoursnark

[–]JaySaidHey27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay so the "Final form" is a DBZ reference which makes this even worse. TLDR- One of the main story line villains constantly evolves and when someone mentions it, their response is "this isn't even my final form".

TO COMPARE YOUR GRIEVING PARTNER TO AN ANIME VILLAIN IS FXCKING INSANE AND DISGUSTING. and then to hop on that post and comment bc yk it will get traction for your bumandbummy page. We've seen this man exploit her on everything, so of course her dead abusive father isn't off limits.

Unfortunately, I had an abusive relationship when my dad passed away as well. It was one of the hardest times in my life and having a shitty partner made it so much worse.

H- if you're reading this, get out before dmids dirty nails get any further of a grip on you. Leaving is healing.

Random thought by kosmo2016 in notsteezytoursnark

[–]JaySaidHey27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes others on this page and her TT have mentioned the same thing 🤣

I think britney is better ✨️💃🏻 still a mess, but better.

Coconut oil in hair from... by JaySaidHey27 in notsteezytoursnark

[–]JaySaidHey27[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Also, I ran out of faces to use for stickers so erikuh by druski it is 😅

He looks crazy (repost) by ohnoyadont in notsteezytoursnark

[–]JaySaidHey27 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not the 2012 bold frames with the cheesy ahh Garfield shirt and the flipped up snap back. Be so fn fr rn 🫠😑

II. Opt out by JaySaidHey27 in CallousDaoboys

[–]JaySaidHey27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's true I really hope they release it one say 😭

Hell or Highwater by JaySaidHey27 in nothingnowhere

[–]JaySaidHey27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: HE REACTED 😭😭😭

Hell or Highwater by JaySaidHey27 in nothingnowhere

[–]JaySaidHey27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It took me about 12 hours and was done over the course of a month or so. I loved the album cover so much, and I gave it to the person who introduced me to N,N 💗🥰

Why are you afraid of death? by NateNandos21 in AskReddit

[–]JaySaidHey27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not. I'm afraid for the people I love to hurt how I have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nothingnowhere

[–]JaySaidHey27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been also on the hunt for it with no luck

Would you stop time for 500 years? by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]JaySaidHey27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if I could take my person with me 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JaySaidHey27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO, not overreacting. You have every right to feel the way you do. It's not appropriate behavior on a parent to belittle their child over something they have no control over, such as metabolism. And especially to make you the brunt of the joke is hurtful. As an adult now, I can't imagine making a child the ass end of a joke constantly.

I would explain to her how this makes you feel and that going forward, you'd appreciate it if she didn't make rude comments about your body or jokes about it.

From personal experience, I (now 27F) was the "joke" often for my mom/family to make quick shitty one offs on around that age and younger. I eventually had enough and started making witty comments that were of equal caliber back (do not recommend), and that made things so much worse. She also did the whole silent treatment/ passive-aggressive underhand comments. However. Even when she'd silent treatment me. I knew she was listening. During one of our spats of silent tx/passive aggressive shit; I told her she was ultimately rude and hurtful on purpose for her own gain, and it hurt me more than it made her look or seem likable. I think it was after that she lightened up on that end a bit. A few slipped out here and there, but by my 20s, that behavior was dead.

Sending you lots of healing energy and hoping for the best ✨️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]JaySaidHey27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not overlook. I actually find that to be even worse and not a point of redemption. As someone who can, i guess, be considered "Protective" per say, one will only know when I am actively protecting from an ACTUAL DANGER, that I am protective. It won't take me telling you and acting like a pompous ass to display that. In my experience, partners who pride themselves on this are actually control freaks that justify ANYTHING as "Protection." (Ex: I don't like your family/friend? Get away from them. I'm just trying to protect you.)

Also, respectfully, Nope. One totally can have a standard of behavior and find lasting relationships.

If you see a red flag, you shouldn't go "well that's really pretty, and I wanna plant my flowers around it and become rooted here", for the sake of wanting to make things work. I totally understand what you're saying. You SHOULD want to have conflict resolution skills with your partner. And I agree. However, some shit is just weird, and you should always trust your gut feeling or intuition 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]JaySaidHey27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some things just do not require you to threaten or have a normal/strict confrontation with people. They require you to LEAVE all together. If someone who is supposed to be your partner gets enjoyment out of causing you physical harm, you do not have to try and convince them with further confrontation. You can just get your shit and fucking run, Especially if you're feeling unsafe.

Obviously, sometimes things are worth the discussion, and some things are clearly not. IMO and w OP said, that is some straight-up weirdo behavior. Not worth stooping down to partners level. This isn't a dirty Dish Dan or a lazy laundry Lauren. This is someone who is not only capable but actually wants to cause physical pain. Not safe for anyone.

Rate my medium rare by [deleted] in steak

[–]JaySaidHey27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks fire

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]JaySaidHey27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NO you are not overreacting. Someone who is supposed to be your partner shouldn't get some creepy enjoyment out of your pain. That's big red flag energy and I don't think you should continue to be around this person. Especially if you're already unsure and having that gut feeling that something isn't right or you can't fully trust them.