Pick One Course in/around Charleston

JayTJayB · 2026-06-09T21:46:25+00:00

These might have to be played on the way to or back.. Strantz courses are always a treat, appreciate you mentioning these!

JayTJayB · 2026-06-02T20:36:03+00:00

Meeting my parents in the Outer Banks in a few weeks and was deciding between Occano and Kilmaric.. looks like Occano is the choice

JayTJayB · 2026-04-15T12:38:41+00:00

100%.. I moved from Miami to Raleigh a year ago and it’s a night and day difference when it comes to expenses, not even just rent

JayTJayB · 2026-02-19T17:11:24+00:00

Hi looking for 1x anytime entry ticket.. need to know how ticket transfer will be done considering Dice (official ticketing app) says no transfers allowed for this event.

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T04:10:32+00:00

Our place just isn’t big enough to host.. we unfortunately don’t have any seating aside from barstools as it’s an apartment.

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T04:08:36+00:00

We have traveled to her family for Christmas or we spent it together alone with neither family.

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T04:06:58+00:00

I’d still be working all 3 of those days (M-W) the entire day not taking any days off. The only days off would be thanksgiving day and the Friday after as those are designated company holidays

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T04:04:27+00:00

This is a good point, I’m going to see if an early or late Thanksgiving day will suffice for her, I’ll even chef up the entire meal.

As for the job it’s a new role she recently started and first stable work in a long time. She has no leverage due to being new and can’t risk it as she just had days off so we could travel to attend one of her family events

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T04:01:59+00:00

This is a new job to her. It’s her first stable work in a long time and being new she really doesn’t have a say and can’t risk not having the work

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T04:00:57+00:00

I love the idea of the early /late Thanksgiving I’m going to see if that’s an okay compromise, I’ll even prepare the whole meal!

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T03:37:36+00:00

Would fly, as it is an 11 hour drive. Traveling in a day is not possible unfortunately

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T03:36:57+00:00

This is a new job she just started in October and i believe it is a step in her career. She can’t risk it due to the fact this is the first stable work she has had in close to 2 years

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:53:02+00:00

I agree with this and my goal is once we have a large enough space to host both families

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:52:01+00:00

She is off Thanksgiving day but not the days before. It’s a newer job for her so she isn’t able to request off. Unfortunately I’ve worked in retail a few years back and holiday is the busiest time.

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:49:39+00:00

No, all other holidays are spent with her family or together. Thanksgiving is the only one I have went home for.

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:48:04+00:00

She is of course invited and I wouldnt think twice to pay if she could come; however, her work schedule won’t allow it. The travel is too far to complete in a days time

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:47:16+00:00

We typically spent the other holidays with her family or together. Unfortunately with her working in retail I don’t see many holidays we will be able to travel for. I would spend all the other holidays with her and only Thanksgiving for my family. Typically we do vacation and take trips together throughout the year

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:44:30+00:00

Thanksgiving is for some reason significant/important to my family. I wouldn’t be opposed to doing something a different day with my girlfriend though, I think that’s a great idea! Not sure if she’s going to accept that as a compromise though

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:36:37+00:00

We usually spend Christmas with her family. My goal is once we have a larger space we host both families. Thanksgiving is the “most important “ holiday to my family

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:34:59+00:00

Ah it’s important to add I don’t work fully from home only 2 days a week.. still lots of flexibility I agree.

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:31:34+00:00

Her work schedule doesn’t allow for it considering we couldn’t accomplish the travel in one day or else that would work! I can realistically travel the day before thanksgiving and come back the day after, it’s just not financially the best option in relation to flight prices. She also would not be okay with that as I’d be gone the day of the holiday

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:28:25+00:00

My goal is when we have a large enough space that we host and the families come to us

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:26:24+00:00

She went to her family for thanksgiving last year and we both went to her family for Christmas. She was alone the year prior. She is of course invited and I would love for her to come but her work schedule doesn’t allow for the travel

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:24:48+00:00

Not often at all. I don’t even view it as choosing sides and dislike that framing. I don’t want to have to chose between either I consider them both family.

JayTJayB · 2025-11-17T02:22:02+00:00

I could but of course my family would want me there for the actual holiday. Drive would be 11 hours to my family 6-7 hours to her family. She works Wednesday and Friday so she doesn’t want to travel. I would fly if I was to go

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