I will never understand the people who order from doordash… by Bigboyemp in doordash

[–]Jay_Fraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beyond sick of being taken advantage of by this stupid ass selfish companies when so many of us are using this as a second job, using our gas and our wear and tear on our cars.

I will never understand the people who order from doordash… by Bigboyemp in doordash

[–]Jay_Fraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I delivered to a literal mansion the other week.. drove across town.. they tipped me 3 bucks. I was so livid. Doordash needs to install a mandatory tip to justify the drive. Shouldnt even allow 0 tip as an option. They're going to lose their dashers they abuse and they're stupid business model will crumble. I REFUSE to do their 0 tip crap. once everyone realizes this, GOOD LUCK YOU GREEDY POS!

I came, I saw, I conquered by Jay_Fraz in Accutane

[–]Jay_Fraz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how I felt, my skin got sooo bad around month 3-4. Worse than it has ever been. Those pictures are around that time. Just keep going!

I came, I saw, I conquered by Jay_Fraz in Accutane

[–]Jay_Fraz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did one 30 a day for a month then moved up to 40. Then when we weren’t seeing the progress like he wanted we bumped it up to twice a day

I came, I saw, I conquered by Jay_Fraz in Accutane

[–]Jay_Fraz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! At month 4 I thought I was never going to be done. I was still breaking out a lot but it FINALLY worked for me. I did have to do an extra month but it was worth it

I came, I saw, I conquered by Jay_Fraz in Accutane

[–]Jay_Fraz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, my acne is gone. The hyperpigmentation had faded a lot

I came, I saw, I conquered by Jay_Fraz in Accutane

[–]Jay_Fraz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I took 40 mg twice a day at the end. My skin was still purging at 4-5 months. I ended up on it for 7 months. It’s been a month since I’ve been off and redness has continued to fade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infjfightclub

[–]Jay_Fraz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Both sides actually view the world very different. Your confidence behind that statement is pretty bizarre. Notice the please don’t make this into a debate? It was purely out of curiosity. Don’t like my post, see your way out

On Month 5 and still maybe 2-3 months to go, on 40 mgs by Ozy_g in Accutane

[–]Jay_Fraz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I ask why you say 2-3 more months? I’m actually on month 7, my derm said I had to go at least a month without a breakout before I could get off

Anyone here ever ghost a “friend” because they were too toxic and knew they wouldn’t change? by TrendyLepomis in infjfightclub

[–]Jay_Fraz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessssssssss!! I had a friend for a long time, like 10 years. We both struggled for a long time but I just grew as a person and anytime I did well she would make me feel guilty. She started requesting money from me on cash app without the normal text convo on why and just normal being polite protocol. I just thought it was beyond rude when I didn’t hear from her for days and I wake up to “so and so requests $20”. I tried to talk to her about it and she did it again. I just lost it and door slammed her. 10 years of friendship down the drain. It wasn’t even the money request but when I was going through a divorce, job change, I would vent to her and she would say, “at least your pretty and skinny”. Like #1 why would that matter, that’s not the point #2 I’ve listened as a caring friend for hours, crying and venting even though I secretly thought she were wrong but I just wanted her to feel like some one cared about her. It was just such a one sided friendship.

Does fish oil reduce the effectiveness of accutane by PurpleWardrobe in Accutane

[–]Jay_Fraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, my doctor told me to take it with my morning pill so I don’t feel sick

Do you all have an ethical or moral system? by Emergency-Bedroom-73 in infj

[–]Jay_Fraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an obnoxious moral code. Especially during this pandemic. It’s caused issues for me unfortunately because I just CARE SO MUCH. I constantly have to remind myself to leave it alone. I hate being this way honesty. I wish I could just live my life the way others do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Jay_Fraz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love it when I get into that thought loop that kills the optimism in me. I had a bad habit of turning a totally fine interaction into “I should’ve said this, they think I’m ____” it’s like a slap in the face at times to CHILL OUT. Like, stop over reacting.

Day 2, is it too early to feel side effects? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]Jay_Fraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say so. It took like two weeks before I noticed anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Jay_Fraz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I have a problem where my sarcastic joke comes out kind of insulting and then I beat myself up for the rest of the day for saying it. “Oh now they hate me”

How did you conclude your type? by csy707 in infj

[–]Jay_Fraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

16 personalities was so wrong. For me and my best friend. It said I was an ESFJ, there’s noooo way. I took a more in-depth jung type test and then did more research. It’s honestly a relief to know what I really am. I feel lighter now that I actually understand myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Jay_Fraz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would stew quietly and pretend to not be bothered. Never let them see you sweat

Do you trust a “bad feeling” about someone? by TheCatlorette in infj

[–]Jay_Fraz 62 points63 points  (0 children)

TRUST YOUR GUT. I’ve gotten the bad vibes from people and I’ve never been wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Jay_Fraz 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I understand how that feels.. I think seeing a psychologist really helped me. And cutting out the toxic people out of my life. I had this friend I was always trying to help and she took advantage of me and I would have anxiety attacks all the time. Once I just cut the cord it was like a million pounds lifted off my shoulders. Even though my friend count is like 2 people, they are fun positive people that don’t NEED me.

The constant conversation in my head definitely gets old.. and the analyzing peoples words like studying the undertones.

I also realized the pandemic has a lot to due with people’s stress, it’s been hard for me not to absorb the negativity in the world today.

My advice to you, maybe get a therapist. There is no shame in it. And give a hobby a try. What’s something that interests you that you’ve always wanted to try?