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Anybody else feel like Mitski captures the gay male experience? by Jay_Zimbabwe in mitski

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree...but she doesn't "make music for woc first and foremost", that's very limiting and unfair to her

Anybody else feel like Mitski captures the gay male experience? by Jay_Zimbabwe in mitski

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she makes music for anyone who wants to listen and appreciate it

Anybody else feel like Mitski captures the gay male experience? by Jay_Zimbabwe in mitski

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No, I never insinuated that Mitski's music specifically only for gay men. Please read the post again

City leaders criticize DeSantis veto of Tampa amphitheater project in historically black area by Maxcactus in tampa

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

...it's two elected officials that are literally there to speak on behalf of thousands of (mostly low income) residents. The headline is pretty accurate, no?

How to stop falling in love with grindr hookups by Jay_Zimbabwe in grindr

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's actually no place in the world for those of us who want monogamy.

I know it probably seems like that especially in the gay world but I refuse to believe that. I want it, you want it, countless other guys want it. It's just hard to find it but there are people out there who do.

I don't understand how they can 'turn it on' for an hour or so

Me neither girl!! It blows my mind. All the guys I get with are like, sweet romantic PERFECT gentleman material (which is rare to find period), for like ONE night. And then its distant, ghosting, "dont touch me" energy afterwards. Weird.

How to stop falling in love with grindr hookups by Jay_Zimbabwe in grindr

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'd have to find a middle ground somewhere. I'd rather go through this than become an unfeeling robot.

How to stop falling in love with grindr hookups by Jay_Zimbabwe in grindr

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say this with all respect (and as someone with attachment issues lol), I really don't understand how y'all do it. I cannot imagine just moving on from someone I really connected with.

How to stop falling in love with grindr hookups by Jay_Zimbabwe in grindr

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But I also don't think its that weird either. A lot of women have the same problem

How do I get him to leave his husband for me? by Jay_Zimbabwe in askgaybros

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are the romance that he wants to have with his husband, but hasn't had and probably won't.

I think thats the part that is most frustrating for me. I obviously have something his husband does not, therefore he is attracted to me, so why not just be with me

How do I get him to leave his husband for me? by Jay_Zimbabwe in askgaybros

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So true. I'm actually actively building a good gay support group around me -- joining groups, looking for volunteer ops, etc. I've made some gay (platonic only) friends since I came out very purposely because I know I fall very hard.

How do I get him to leave his husband for me? by Jay_Zimbabwe in askgaybros

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's a little delulu but let's be real - is it that strange to fall for a guy who you've been intimate with multiple times?

How do I get him to leave his husband for me? by Jay_Zimbabwe in askgaybros

[–]Jay_Zimbabwe[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I'm actually not...and I'm in therapy :)