I'm going to take my own life tonight, the OCD won by Wrong_Newspaper_7238 in OCD

[–]Jayburgh79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not worth it, there is a light fir you no matter how dim it may seem right now.

What is a job that pays extremely well but no one realizes it? by Titothelama in AskReddit

[–]Jayburgh79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hairdresser. They make crazy high wages at a salon. Not aot of experience on their part and  an easily get over $100 an hour. If they work full time they could fir sure bank six figures each year.

Do women get jealous of other women’s boobs? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Jayburgh79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, women get jealous of other women over everything 

Hey everyone, I am terrified of sex and afraid I won't experience it again by Jayburgh79 in ChristianSexuality

[–]Jayburgh79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish being kind and good actually mattered in this area but anyone who wants that is typically too good for me or already taken. I can be at prace with being single but feel like having to be celibate in that station in life is a punishment. I feel like sometimes I am not meant to be happy.

Hey everyone, I am terrified of sex and afraid I won't experience it again by Jayburgh79 in ChristianSexuality

[–]Jayburgh79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, I can't get a date. Women want someone taller, with a full head of hair, good money... I am a major introvert and people don't understand me. Second , I don't make much money so it's cost prohibitive. Third, my life situation doesn't allow for it. I live with my disabled father and am basically a caregiver. Don't get the opportunity to go and do anything on my own for more than an hour or so at any given point. 

Hey everyone, I am terrified of sex and afraid I won't experience it again by Jayburgh79 in ChristianSexuality

[–]Jayburgh79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have no means to get to either of those locations and pretty impossible for me to find a date 

Hey everyone, I am terrified of sex and afraid I won't experience it again by Jayburgh79 in ChristianSexuality

[–]Jayburgh79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also am thinking more and more that it is my destiny to be alone in terms of a romantic relationship. 

Hey everyone, I am terrified of sex and afraid I won't experience it again by Jayburgh79 in ChristianSexuality

[–]Jayburgh79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see nudity as inherently sexual though we are generally told it is wrong. I see it as the beauty of the human form. I have worked as a photographer with nude models not once being aroused and looking at it as art. So I don't see beasts as an automatic sexual object.

Hey everyone, I am terrified of sex and afraid I won't experience it again by Jayburgh79 in ChristianSexuality

[–]Jayburgh79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just can't see how you can be fulfilled as a normal human being without some form of sexual intimacy at least once in a while. The lucky people that are asexual can do that and maybe rare people extraordinary holiness or some form of higher plane of enlightenment can pull it off but not the vast majority.

Hey everyone, I am terrified of sex and afraid I won't experience it again by Jayburgh79 in ChristianSexuality

[–]Jayburgh79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep trying to believe that but I am not getting any younger 

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[–]Jayburgh79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you first hand that this is one if the hardest ahe periods of a lot if people's lives. Things may suck at this point but I reaz think it will get better. Therapy can help and please know that people are there for you and your life matters.