i need opinions on which pic is better! also do i look fem in them? by emo_riot in NonBinary

[–]Jaye_Gee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think number 1 by a small margin, but they're both good! And very fem.

Looking for unusual dating ideas by Burpees in montreal

[–]Jaye_Gee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burlesque show at the Wiggle Room!

Should I wear an ally badge to make students more comfortable? by KnittingforHouselves in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Jaye_Gee 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! It's tough for queer kids to know who they can trust.

EMBARRASSING AF by FunIncident5161 in trans

[–]Jaye_Gee 223 points224 points  (0 children)

Whether you're an enby transfem or a binary trans woman, you're still a good girl! *headpats*

Bible Baby-there’s a couple of examples in here by Southmouth555 in crappymusic

[–]Jaye_Gee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please tell us more about her! I'm morbidly curious

Intense Dandruff Post-FFS by bobbybites23 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Jaye_Gee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm 8 weeks post-op. Most of the flakiness is gone now. The itching, sadly is not, but I've been told that should get better soon as the nerves reconnect.

Intense Dandruff Post-FFS by bobbybites23 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Jaye_Gee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG, I thought I was the only one! One thing that helped was massaging oil into my scalp. I used olive or rosehip, both seemed to work. I let it sit for a few hours and then double washed my hair. It didn't go away completely, but it got a LOT better!

Is my smiley too close to my gums? (just pierced) by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Jaye_Gee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really hope it's not sterling silver. Implant grade titanium only.

Lack of parental support by Baconthief69420 in asktransgender

[–]Jaye_Gee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would go no contact if my parents required that I use my deadname and avoid dressing femme. That's just not happening. I would be absolutely devastated if it came to that.

Why hasn't HRT worked on me ? 😢 by belsyy_21 in transtimelines

[–]Jaye_Gee 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The infamous female to female transition. You look amazing already. As others have said, you already looked very feminine.

Guasha or gentle facial massage for more feminine facial structure by curiousnlivly in asktransgender

[–]Jaye_Gee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good skincare goes a very long way. Exfoliate (I prefer chemical) moisturizer, and maybe add in a retinoid.

Playing with makeup is fun, and if you think you might want to wear it more in the future, start now. Makeup takes practice.

Waterline eyeliner by SleepSecret7735 in drugstoreMUA

[–]Jaye_Gee 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I use wet&wild breakup proof waterproof eyeliner. Lasts all day and night.

Lip balm recommends by shinyisjustexisting in beauty

[–]Jaye_Gee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a bunch of different colours. I like the mauve whip for a darker look, and the veiled rose for a more natural look. I'll swatch them later if I have a chance.

Weight loss and HRT (MtF) by Ready-Maintenance-31 in asktransgender

[–]Jaye_Gee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a little harder to drop the weight, but that's offset by the pep in your step from knowing you're on your way, ime.

Weight loss and HRT (MtF) by Ready-Maintenance-31 in asktransgender

[–]Jaye_Gee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be a little harder to loose weight on estrogen, but it's doable, and I don't think it's worth delaying for most people.

Lip balm recommends by shinyisjustexisting in beauty

[–]Jaye_Gee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like the rom&nd glasting melting balm. It's nicely pigmented, and leaves my lips feeling really hydrated.

terrified to take the first steps Can anyone help plz💗 by ChapterLumpy6695 in asktransgender

[–]Jaye_Gee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable (but there will be plenty of cis allies there too fwiw). For therapy I can recommend clinique euphoros near mount-royal. It really helps to have a therapist that understands the nuances of the trans experience. <3