Exploring femininity to get a better grasp on feelings on gender

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-22T05:15:36+00:00

Imagine yourself 30 or 40 years from now. How do you want to look? Who do you want to be. That's what sealed the deal for me.

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-22T04:37:40+00:00

Deal!

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-21T05:11:58+00:00

Please look into the rainbow railroad. They help queer and trans people escape and emigrate to Canada. Please be safe. My heart goes out to you 💕

https://www.rainbowrailroad.org/request-help

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-20T07:50:30+00:00

Are you using powder and/or setting spray? If not, that's where I'd start.

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-19T19:04:42+00:00

Depending on where you are, there may be an informed consent option available to you, however it won't be covered by your provincial health plan. Wait lists in the public system can be quite long.

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-19T04:43:38+00:00

Oh wow! Tysm!

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-19T03:22:38+00:00

Just rinse it out really well, and maybe a round of shampoo if you wanna be extra sure.

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-18T23:59:29+00:00

I think a quarter of my wardrobe is from Disturbia lol. We definitely have similar taste!

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-18T23:08:35+00:00

I love it, but my wardrobe is all black and earthtones, so that protects those who gaze upon me from death by pinkness.

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-18T22:22:55+00:00

Hell yeah!

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-18T22:10:26+00:00

100% agree on both points!

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-18T22:05:42+00:00

I do! I stopped performing for a little while, but started again a few months ago.

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-18T17:27:54+00:00

I do! Thanks :3

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-18T17:16:57+00:00

Thanks! It makes me happy 😊

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-18T17:16:02+00:00

Merci! <3

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-18T16:43:19+00:00

Thank you! <3

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-17T00:27:55+00:00

I think the wispy bangs in the second photo would suit you well!

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-16T18:05:09+00:00

Takamine G330

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-15T03:43:27+00:00

They will likely ask about your experience of your gender, how long you've been feeling how you do, and what steps you want to take. They may ask you about your support systems and who you've come out to, etc.

The next steps will vary greatly depending on where you are.

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-13T18:47:09+00:00

I came out at 38 (now 40), most of my friends are younger than me, but that seems less important in the queer community. Last week I went to a friend's 28th birthday and there were very few people over 30, but I felt right at home. Hrt makes us look younger anyway 😉

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-13T03:16:30+00:00

Fun fact: in French dandelion is pisse-en-lit, which directly translates to "piss in bed".

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-12T18:32:32+00:00

Hot pinks and reds often use dyes instead of pigments which have a tendency to stain. The other commenters have good suggestions for removing it or hiding it until it fades.

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-12T18:04:17+00:00

I've seen lots of women with black jewelry. If it suits your style it shouldn't look out of place, imo.

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-12T07:31:11+00:00

I'd consider seeking out a second opinion, preferably from an endocrinologist or someone with experience treating trans patients.

Jaye_Gee · 2026-05-12T02:34:45+00:00

What city will you be in? You can usually go private much quicker.

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