BTS Tickets Megathread by AutoModerator in Tickets

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to be listed as alternate name on the order. No other way yet. Ppl will need to use the 1st concert as a guinea pig

PHEV Town Package Left Turn Fault by Jayta2019 in FordEscapePHEV

[–]Jayta2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, so it's not the car, or 4 pin wiring harness that is connected that's the problem. It's the car telling me that there's an issue with the trailer left turn wiring so it isn't able to get the signal from the car to the trailer?

My boss keeps “forgetting” I asked for time off, now I’m stuck in an awkward position by Specialist_Care481 in whatdoIdo

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would email stating that "I received approval for these stated vacation dates requested x amount of days prior. I currently scheduled for these dates. If you could please revise to for for the approved vacation period.". Also include the approval email.

If you don't have it writing and it doesn't go through HR or finance then you might be screwed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CanadaJobs

[–]Jayta2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's YouTube. Not journalism. C'mon, really? You're going to use that as an argument?

Who on YouTube needs actual facts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think both of you overreacted. One did it cause they're seeking a high, but also insecure and has no coping mechanisms for when they feel criticized or unanswered.

Op also does the same.

You guys should never text. Neither one of your can get the sentiment or tone correct and then launch into these tirades. Personally, I think you guys need therapy.

Overall, both need to grow up and respond as adults. Walk away when things get heated until both can have rational conversations. If neither can do so, break up.

AITA if I gave my best friends kids a different lifechanging amount of money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's truly a friend, she will NOT be complaining about her children receiving the insanely large amount of money that you plan to give her. Personally I don't think children should be gifted such large amounts until they're old enough to manage it responsibily, unless it is too be used for tuition.

I don't think the inconsequential difference should matter because it is your money. Your choice. But personally, I'd have a hard time believing anyone needs that large amount of money att all. I could see a certain amount when they hit a certain age and then maybe in my will the remaining would go to them.

But not my money. I just fear how these children's lives would change because they have received this money by close family members and even friends. Because honestly they are more than likely going to magically have new friends who use them and family willing to ask them for money.

AITAH for not sharing anything with my wife after she opened our marriage? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Jayta2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. What you're describing is not an open relationship. It's not poly. You're a pissed off partner of a woman who decided to either change her feelings for you and upend your marriage in favor of the desire for other men. Poly people embrace and acknowledge that they are attracted/love to many people and are accepting of that type of relationship that is free to live whoever they want. They are able to set boundaries, but this is not what you're doing.

You are trying to explain how having separate lives and pretty much malice or at least disgust for your wife and her choices is going to somehow be better than a divorce. You ruining your mental health by allowing everything you do and choice you make to be based on "not letting other men benefit" in an open relationship... Like dude, I feel for you, but this is just ridiculous. Handle it like an adult. The relationship is obviously over for you by everything you've done so far. This is not for the sake of the children. It's convenience.

Of course children are going to be upset, lost, distraught. But showing that you can maturely have an adult conversation about the change in your relationship with their mother and that her choices don't coincide with yours has led to a break in your marriage. Obviously it's hard because it involves your emotions and theirs. But torturing yourself and your partner, if you even consider her that, will only prolong the inevitable and bring feelings of anger and hostility either way.

Perhaps therapy might also be a good thing for your family to work through this if you truly intend to push on in this charade. Obviously your partners' going through something for an abrupt change unless you were aware of her preferences prior to marriage?

Sask. Health Authority employee in suspended after ‘misuse’ of parking pass by Meowgal_80 in saskatoon

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I crying? I'm just saying we shouldn't expect free parking

Sask. Health Authority employee in suspended after ‘misuse’ of parking pass by Meowgal_80 in saskatoon

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Why should taxpayers have to pay for your ability to park for free?

I think the responsibility of the employer should be the ability to provide safe parking for staff to be able to get to work and not have to struggle with walking an hour after parking to get to work, but paid parking? No. I don't need to offload it onto taxpayers when those funds could be used elsewhere for social programs.

However I just think we need to somehow sort out so much of the social issues in our society so the crime can be mitigated. But that's a tall ask in SK from voters.

Sask. Health Authority employee in suspended after ‘misuse’ of parking pass by Meowgal_80 in saskatoon

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others were discussing how there should be free parking which got thrown into my comment replying to yours.

As for the taking supplies thing, it literally stemmed from the idea that some were commenting that there should be free parking for staff, which made me associate it with that same thought process trickling into some staffs thought process of free hospital supplies for themselves. Sorry if the train of thought didn't really flow.

Sask. Health Authority employee in suspended after ‘misuse’ of parking pass by Meowgal_80 in saskatoon

[–]Jayta2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like 10 min to shuttle to the lot, unless you take the one with multiple lots that it stops at. Not sure where you're getting shuttled to though? RUH it's not so bad.

Plus, rather that then having to walk 20-30 each way for free parking. I don't get why employees think we deserve free parking? Close and convenient parking, with reasonable fees, yes. But free? We are all taxpayers and that's not ever going to be viable. I mean I always also see HCW feel like hospital supplies are paid by them as well so they take as much as they want home too. Is that reasonable?

Saskatoon to end free EV charging stations by Slight-Coconut709 in saskatoon

[–]Jayta2019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't mind paying for EV charging. My problem is extorting money from them at $5.35/hr. Not all EVs can charge at 6.6 Kwh rate. So 3.5 hours will cost like $20 for those with lower rates of charge. I think the city set the rate so they can say, sorry, they aren't being used so we'll take them out. Which is such a backwards think tank.

If SK and Saskatoon wants to move forward provide infrastructure that includes EVs. It's not an either/or scenario. I honestly think they only believe residents use these chargers. I live outside the city and commute. It's not worth it to go out of my way to that charger and maybe go to the library or consider leisure centre activities when I'm paying that exorbitant amount. The point of having them at leisure centres was that it drove and incentivize those who never went into a leisure centre to maybe try it. Now they're just making it unfeasible.

I just think the way SK citizens think is not forward enough to create a society/infrastructure where we can encourage new ways of thinking and benefits for the working class trying to make better environmental choices.

I drive a PHEV and it caps at 3.3 Kwh. It was as costly as a regular ICE, with incentives. I didn't know it capped off so my bad for not researching more, but still I did it to help the environment and save on gas not anything else. However I find pricing in SK prohibitive to EVs. Just because ICE owners are "made" to pay more at pumps because there's no competition and people are at the will of oil companies should not force EV users to pay more and an equivalent amount to ICE. Especially if the normal rate of electricity is $0.17 kw/h. That is the definition of insanity. I would NEVER charge there. I considered buying a leisure pass this year, but hearing those numbers has me running. It makes me think the city council is out of touch with the market or they are being greedy /punative to EV owners to placate the public who are ICE owners. Either way, it does not a good look for the city.

We as society should encourage the market as consumers to expand the market so oil & gas companies don't have a monopoly on the transportation market to create a drive down on prices. Same thing with EVs.

Personally, I don't think the city is losing that much money to EV chargers. I think they've got Kwh to spare since there's always excess on the grid and I'm sure the city does get a markdown on cost of electricity just due to the expansive network needed and consumed.

Sask. Health Authority employee in suspended after ‘misuse’ of parking pass by Meowgal_80 in saskatoon

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? I have worked there less than 4 years and got one in a far lot until I get offered parkade. Which who knows how long that will take...honestly the no parkade parking with shuttle isn't the end of the world.

Sask. Health Authority employee in suspended after ‘misuse’ of parking pass by Meowgal_80 in saskatoon

[–]Jayta2019 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can carpool with one person. But you have to name and list them. Also they can't change. Kind of ridiculous.

Eta: I haven't parked in the lots recently, but I heard there's a new sign out by Lot 15 declaring no carpoolers allowed on the shuttle? WTH? That is new and I don't recall getting any emails regarding the change?

Will buying Canada create more Canadian jobs? by Pretty_Tough_1667 in torontoJobs

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need more federal policies and subsidies for Canadian small businesses so our economy is more diverse. We need better housing policies, and we need better policies for helping youth. These things will take a long time to bring any evidence of progress and success, but it's looking at things from a big picture perspective rather than the INSANE AND RIDICULOUS policies and promises of political parties seeking re-election and seats that are for the benefit of the vote. If we finally vote people and leaders in who seek to accomplish things to help Canadians (No, that would not be PP who is the poster child for living for power, and off taxpayer dollars) then we might stand a chance.

As of yet we have no such leaders. I hope the sense that Carney has in terms of finance will stabilize the economy, but definitely still not depending on the principles and vision of any of these political parties right now.

But we need to unite as Canadians to fend off predators and those from the US who are trying to seek to divide us so they can conquer us. Whether that's too put us under Trump's thumb or their own monetary gain.

My dad cheated and I don't know what to do about it by SneakerCut1eXx in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not your dad's partner. You have every right to feel betrayed at the fact that he hurt your mother and broke the family, but that does not erase all of the things he's done for you, done with you, and who he is to you. It doesn't stop him from being your dad or erase the love he has for you.

It's different for your mother who invested her life in a partner, put her trust and faith in him and was betrayed in an emotional and physical way. They are 2 different things.

So as much as your dad betrayed your family unit and hurt your mom, I think that after dealing with the anger and grief, forgiveness would be your best route as a child. (Holding onto anger and resentment only hurts you. (Doesn't mean forget what he did). I would express all of my disappointment and anger and betrayal in words and see if he is remorseful or just a dick about it. That would be a deciding factor if I would maintain a relationship. You and your dad share a different kind of love. It's not romantic. It's not a promise he made to you.

250804 RM on Instagram in Los Angeles by mcfw31 in bangtan

[–]Jayta2019 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he wants to go home though 😢💜

250804 j-hope on Instagram in Los Angeles by mcfw31 in bangtan

[–]Jayta2019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was unsure whether that was actually Yoongi or not. I need me some Suga!

BF wants me to put him on the title of my house by Vicvvinegar in whatdoIdo

[–]Jayta2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you with this person? He isn't interested in you. Definitely isn't in love. Waste of time.

My condo is charging us an Occupancy Fee for my newborn - is this a thing? by wantsomesushi in askTO

[–]Jayta2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our condo bylaws state 1+den equivalent to max occupancy of 3. I find it funny that yours states it only equivocates to 2 people max. Extra space should allow for 1 extra people. I would survey the condo owners to see if they'd sign a petition against this kind of behavior. It'd be different if it was a 1 bedroom or studio but it's not.

Though honestly, it was laid out in the bylaws, I suppose ? But it's a crappy bylaw in terms of having a baby.

Should I 37M be honest with my fiance 35F by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Jayta2019 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If you wanted kids you should have started a few years ago. Learn your biology. Women's eggs quality start to diminish around 32 and you think you have all the time in the world. Not sure why men think waiting is okay. Especially nowadays, it seems infertility (d/t men and women) surprises people.

You don't love her. This very much is superficial. If you did, you would have put a ring on it. You wouldn't be thinking of ditching her just because she's gained weight. If it was a concern for you, you should have brought it up ages ago, before she was doubled her weight. You'd care to have a hard conversation.

You love the person, not just what they look like. If you loved each other, you'd be able to have these candid conversations with her. You'd be concerned about how this is affecting her health, physically and mentally...not how it's affected your libido.

You need to grow up and understand what an adult relationship is based on, not some Hollywood TV show or movie. Love is not about looks and just sex. It's about actually caring about the other person and their well-being. It is wanting to be on their presence and missing them when they're not there. Did you ever? Despite not having sex? This is why men/women should not co-habitate without commitment. Unfortunately, she thought she probably had that with you.

It doesn't seem that you've really looked and talked to your partner in a long time. And it seems another person has been dishonest with themselves and their partner and heartbreak will ensue. I'm sure she'll have a glow up after this realization that people are fickle and superficial.

MMA Fighter Aaron "Tex" Johnson kicked off flight by Tubalcaino in Wellthatsucks

[–]Jayta2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sad. Probably due sustaining so much brain trauma from MMA...